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11 Nov 2025, 8:32 am

I've always worn a poppy for remembrance day in November in the UK to show respect for those people who bravely fought in two world wars and other conflicts but I had no idea until I heard someone saying that you should be wearing the poppy upright and with the green leaf at eleven o'clock. I surprised until recently I knew about that but I seem to have heard some people getting quite annoyed by it and dictating how to wear and I remember someone saying didn't people fight so that we would be free and not be dictated to ?



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11 Nov 2025, 10:29 am

I've never heard of that and I've worn a poppy almost every year

Do they always come with a leaf even


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11 Nov 2025, 11:20 am

Never heard of that one before. :?


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11 Nov 2025, 1:12 pm

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This is my badge from a couple of years ago

The leaf is indeed pointing towards where the 11 would be and I suppose it makes sense as a symbol but I can't see why people would get emotional about such a detail

Surely the whole point is that people remember the fallen


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13 Nov 2025, 8:32 pm

I didn't wear a poppy this year, but when I went out yesterday I noticed a lot of them were on the ground. I guess they slipped off or people just tossed them. And they're made of plastic.

How can people "never forget": when they can't even remember not to litter?



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18 Nov 2025, 2:46 pm

I wore a poppy and I took it off as soon as the ceremony was over.


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18 Nov 2025, 6:29 pm

babybird wrote:
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This is my badge from a couple of years ago

The leaf is indeed pointing towards where the 11 would be and I suppose it makes sense as a symbol but I can't see why people would get emotional about such a detail

Surely the whole point is that people remember the fallen


Yeah, I thought autistics were the only ones who focused on details. I think that is a myth myself. Anybody can focus on details. The people the OP knows seem to, assuming they're NTs (which they probably are).


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25 Nov 2025, 4:04 pm

I like the British poppy more than I like the Canadian one. It looks more realistic.


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