I feel like this happens a lot and it really annoys me. I enjoy live music and unfortunately the venues can get packed so people bump you when they walk by and don't say sorry or excuse me and bump you when they dance to the music. I know saying hey watch where you're going would probably not be the best thing to say to someone in a crowded place who bumps me. They probably don't realize it. But sometimes when I stand next to someone at a show and they keep bumping me when they dance I want to be like hey maybe you don't realize it but you keep poking me. Would that be appropriate and better than hey watch it? I know when places are crowded its just inevitable but someone can be made aware if they keep bumping you because they are dancing so they stop. I hate anyone touching me and being in my personal space. Usually I stand in the back at shows away from people and move when people come by. I know yelling don't touch me is not appropriate but I also hate people who put their hand on your shoulder or back and say excuse us its like I don't know you don't touch me. How do I handle this?
13 Nov 2025, 11:46 am
