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enz
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29 Nov 2025, 1:51 am

My Mum warned me they were not the good kind of Christian and that I should avoid them

So I bumped into her dad, I got vibes that he's opinionated, a bit condescending and controlling. It reminded me of her so I reached out to her on facebook. She's not the sharpest tool in the tool box but thought still be cool to hang out

She sent me a goodbye message saying thanks for everything etc etc and that I should add her Dad as a friend on facebook as he would be a good friend. It was at that moment I realized how bats**t crazy they were and said Ok and I wish her all the best.

So a few days ago I bump into her Dad as he's driving past and he says "she's keen" and "she sent you a friend request" and gave me the thumbs up but obviously she didn't and he's being random. I guees he thinks because I didn't want to be friends with him I'm just after one thing. Like I said she's not the smartest tool in the toolbox so I wouldn't of viewed her as anything but a friend

*I've made my share of social mistakes in the past but her randomly vanishing from my life isn't one of them



enz
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05 Dec 2025, 1:13 am

So my question now is how do you deal with an idiot? her dad is giving me idiot vibes and I don't want him stomping around in my life (speaking from experience)

chances are I'll bump into him when I'm going for a walk

Guees should just say "hi james... I've got to go..." and walk away with my headphones on