Looking for advice on managing energy

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04 Dec 2025, 11:04 pm

Hello everyone,

I'm looking for some advice on how to better manage my energy.

I currently feel very fatigued and have felt this way for the better part of two years now. I don't do very much these days, just leaving the the house for an hour or two will zap the energy out of me for days or weeks.

Have any of you experienced something like this? And if so, what tools or strategies did you use to help manage your energy better?

Thanks,

CFL



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05 Dec 2025, 6:06 pm

Not doing anything is why you have no energy. The less you do, the more your energy levels drop, cos you're not doing anything. You have to actively use it, to keep it up. It's a negative feedback loop that people often fall into. "I'm tired, so ill rest", and then they keep resting too long, and lose energy as a result, so when they do try to be active, and feel more tired than previously, they rest even more, and reduce their energy level even further, until they're mostly resting, and still wondering why they have no energy.

The solution isn't to keep trying to "manage" what energy you do have, but rather, to lean into the difficulty when you can, and increase your energy levels by trying to be active, to then have enough energy that you don't feel a need to parcel it out so much. Gotta work your way back up to it. You can't "rest" or "recharge" your way out of lethargy. The solution is to try to work through it, not avoid it.

It gets harder before it gets easier, but if you stick with it, it does get better. You will feel more tired at first, because you're working yourself. That work is what will train your body to be more active, to meet the demand. Whereas continuing to do less will just keep training your body into doing less, and you'll always be more tired, no matter how much you rest.

I know there are other members on here who have also expressed the concern that they're always tired even though they don't do anything - this is why - you're tired BECUASE you never do anything. You never work past the tired to try to strengthen your stamina. One does not build strength by doing less. Like Neo when he first leaves the matrix or w/e - he's weak cos he's never used his muscles. It takes a positive amount of effort to overcome entropy, simply to stay in a neutral state. If you stop working past that point, you're already starting to lose ground.



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05 Dec 2025, 7:25 pm

I'm old enough that it helps to have rest days between days of exertion but that shouldn't be necessary for someone under thirty.

There are a lot of folks that walk around the neighborhood for exercise. Many them visit my house to look at the flowers in my garden.

I get exercise by shopping in high heels. I discovered it helps my balance.



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25 Dec 2025, 2:55 pm

I felt constantly tired this year too. A month ago, my joints and muscles hurt so much I couldn't walk, let alone train, despite exercising 3-6 days a week, averaging 4.5k steps. Clearly not from lack of movement.

I suspected vitamin D deficiency (I'm always low), so I started one drop daily (500 IU D3 + 20 mcg MK7) with breakfast. I felt immediate relief. I could walk and train again.

Since vitamin D depletes magnesium, according to online sources, I tested different forms for my sensitive stomach.



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25 Dec 2025, 4:24 pm

I take vitamin D3 during the winter.



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27 Dec 2025, 12:25 am

Thanks everyone for all of your advice.

Cheers,

CFL