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24 Dec 2025, 1:53 am

Love and peace

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24 Dec 2025, 5:11 pm

I'll treat myself like the little Sweet Pea that I am. I bet my sister spotted a plush Om Nom. :mrgreen:

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25 Dec 2025, 8:32 pm

Probably going to screw it up, but that sounds novel.
Let's give it a go.

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25 Dec 2025, 9:47 pm

I'll try but I can't make promises.

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26 Dec 2025, 11:01 am

Truth is is I don't really know how to be kind to myself but I think that if I keep saying it then something will just click into place for me

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26 Dec 2025, 7:27 pm

I am cruel to myself and beat myself up. My life sucks.

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26 Dec 2025, 7:58 pm

* I notice you say "my life sucks" as opposed to "I suck"
Maybe that's a loophole through which to show yourself some more kindness.

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26 Dec 2025, 8:27 pm

Carbonhalo wrote:

* I notice you say "my life sucks" as opposed to "I suck"
Maybe that's a loophole through which to show yourself some more kindness.

Thank you and I didn't see it that way.

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30 Dec 2025, 2:08 pm

I hope everyone is practising.

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31 Dec 2025, 8:56 am

I think that much of the time I am good at this.

"That was a foolish response to make and I regret it, but I see why I thought that / responded that way. I can see the mistake, so next time I will do better."

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02 Jan 2026, 6:56 pm

This is such good advice, I think it should be stickied. Just my thought, and I'm not claiming to be good at organizing ideas.
Be Kind

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02 Jan 2026, 7:30 pm

I really like it when people are kind to themselves :heart:

CockneyRebel wrote:

I'll treat myself like the little Sweet Pea that I am. I bet my sister spotted a plush Om Nom. :mrgreen:

CockneyRebel is like me, a pro :mrgreen:

but practice is good whatever the skill level I think!

I thought I could do with a bit of comfort today, so after careful consideration of what would feel nice I gave myself a hot fluffy towel :heart:

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08 Jan 2026, 7:17 pm

I am looking at a part of myself I find disappointing and choosing to think about how far I've come :mrgreen: rather than how far I am from where I'd like to be. This helps me to think of the distance between those two points (where I am and where I'd like to be) realistically but also as something that has decreased over time and which will continue to decrease.

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09 Jan 2026, 6:50 pm

^ :heart: exactly

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10 Jan 2026, 4:07 am

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10 Jan 2026, 5:30 am

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I just thought that this was such a Good Picture, I just wanted it to show up again . Have identified with Snoopy and Woodstock both in many of the years of my life . It looked like sucha nice Warm Fuzzy. And after seeing all the more harsh threads that appear on this Wrong Planet,

. This one I think this one is badly needed for Everyone.

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