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Mikurotoro92
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04 Jan 2026, 6:14 pm

I had an unexpected run-in on Friday with Debbie who is the person responsible for trying to get me with the criminal Jerry!! !

She even asked me about him and if we were still together but of course I am no longer with Jerry because of David, however I couldn't tell her that!

If something was to go wrong with David, then & ONLY then would I possibly reconsider dating Jerry if he gets his act together but for the time being I belong to David

The thing is though, until I actually get married and officially get "locked down" to one person through the initiation of marriage I am NOT SAFE FROM BEING POACHED BY OTHER MEN!! !

What do you guys think?



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04 Jan 2026, 8:09 pm

Some people are creeps & married women & men can be poached by others even though others know they are married. Some hit on married people hoping they'll have an affair or leave their spouse to be with them :eew:

I think it's usually better to try avoiding conflict & drama in social situations or around people you don't feel comfortable with. It's understandable why you wouldn't want to air your dirty laundry to Debbie about your relationship. However there is a chance she asked about Jerry our of curiosity & concern & would have backed off about it you told her that you two broke up & your with someone else & that you don't wanna go into all the details :chin:


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04 Jan 2026, 8:44 pm

nick007 wrote:
Some people are creeps & married women & men can be poached by others even though others know they are married. Some hit on married people hoping they'll have an affair or leave their spouse to be with them :eew:

I think it's usually better to try avoiding conflict & drama in social situations or around people you don't feel comfortable with. It's understandable why you wouldn't want to air your dirty laundry to Debbie about your relationship. However there is a chance she asked about Jerry out of curiosity & concern & would have backed off about it you told her that you two broke up & your with someone else & that you don't wanna go into all the details :chin:


Yeah I should have just told Debbie the truth but I was afraid of her reaction!! !

If I was to ever re-establish contact with Jerry then I would need to contact Debbie through Facebook Messenger but for right now she must NOT intervene unless something changes!



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26 Jan 2026, 12:54 am

Since things have changed with David, that opens up Jerry as a possibility again HOWEVER I would date other men from Day Program first before even reconsidering Jerry!! !



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26 Jan 2026, 3:40 am

That attitude ^^^
now THAT'S why I said Yay!
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