My Ex-Girlfriend keeps on messaging my sister

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Hi yall,
Yesterday, my sister called me and thought I would get a kick out of the fact that my ex-girlfriend has been messaging her or contacting her somehow. We broke up years ago and she is dating one of my old friends. She saw years ago on FB and decided to ask me out years ago. How would yall feel if you were in my situation? I dont talk with my old friend anymore. I dont know how to react to this. She used to message me and then talk for a little while and ghost me so I decided to just stop talking to her. This was before she started dating my old friend.

This is speculation but I think I would not majorly care but I'm an only child & never been close with anyone in my family. Were your sister & ex friends or did they know each other before you two dated

The above post maybe revolent . But it might feel genuinely ackward for anyone . It sound perhaps that she may have some latent narcissism going on, that she wants to still have some sort of distant control in your life, in her eyes .
And this maybe how it manifests. It doesn t necessarily sound malicious, but that is how naccistic persons like to manifest themselves to others . but what do I know? a woman/ girl ,who smells a possibly later , reinvented the relationship, with the son of a wealthy minister ,may have their own designs incase their current situation falls apart.
( a sort of Plan B) .
But this is only speculation on my part . ! .
And consider my point of veiw in a relationship can lean towards cynicism . And have had a few ,just by luck,even successful.

they did not know each other prior to.