Post a random example of how you HATE living with others
1. rules
2. people going thru my stuff
3. people talking to me about random frivolous annoying s**t when I want to be left alone
4. people telling me what to do and what not to do
5. people insisting you go out with them or they come out with you
6. people scolding me or badgering me to make my bed or eat less or keep all the lights off because they want it dark or something
7. people calling me a spoiled brat because I'm living off them. I can go back to f*****g Alberta and have my own room.
8. people pressuring me to go back to school
9. people asking me questions that I HAVE to answer and if I don't have an answer
10. I don't want to have to slow down and eat like a lady.
11. I really don't care who doesn't like what I'm wearing, so their input isn't appreciated.
12. my mother giving me lectures on her favorite topics, usually boring history stuff
13. not being able to stim while reading or studying. It's f*****g bad enough that I can't get Adderall or Ritslin or anything.
14. people borrowing my stuff
15. depressing conversations about the world ending, "What is the world coming to?", etc
16. feeling obligated to get up earlier than I do, and since I don't, I feel like a lazy ass, but...
17. I want to run and jump around my room, and exercise, in private.
18. I want to live somewhere that's CLOSE to everything... the YMCA in Edmonton was f*****g perfect, and it's SO hard to get a room there!
19. They dragged me here lying to me about how I could get social assistance and be independant from them but I'm not ready for school right now and if you're in school and under 22 your parents have to support you, whch puts pressure on yours truly, of course.
I should never have come here. Once again, I let ignoramuses slowme down. This is my goddam life we're talking about and I'm probably only ever going to get one of them.
1. Finding things in places other than where I left them
2. Unpredictable background noise
3. Never knowing when my concentration will be broken ("Hey, Kim! Look at this!")
4. Things getting dirty right after I have cleaned
5. Having to take my clothes out of the dryer so someone else can use it
6. Having to pick my clothes up off the floor so they won't get stepped on
7. My belongings getting damaged by another person's carelessness
8. Having no control over who visits and when they visit
9. No privacy
10. Overhearing my boyfriend telling his friends about embarrassing things I do in "private", such as stupid TV shows that I occasionally watch
To summarize, it's hard for me to live with anyone because I'm obsessively clean in some ways and obsessively unclean in other ways. I like having the freedom to be excessively loud or excessively quiet, and to be left alone.
Cadzie
Pileated woodpecker
Joined: 23 Feb 2007
Age: 49
Gender: Male
Posts: 187
Location: Ontario, Canada
poopylungstuffing
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Joined: 8 Mar 2007
Age: 51
Gender: Female
Posts: 6,714
Location: Snapdragon Ridge
1. Hypocrisy. My definition is very broad.
If you want me to clean the knives after I use them, then you should clean the damn knives when you use them.
If you don't want me going in your room and touching your things, stay the hell out of mine OR NORMALIZE IT before leaving.
2. Having to socialize with father. I get along well with brother (can still be touchy sometimes). And I love my dad, but goddamn sometimes he's just too much.
3. Getting yelled at for really dumb s**t (by father). For instance, he claimed the washing machine uses more electricity if it runs once for two hours, as opposed to twice for one hour each... Cute.
4. I have NO pride in anything other than my room, and NO INTEREST in cleaning anything other than my room. I am the only one that dirties my room -- I will clean up after myself like a good little boy. I clean ALL the messes (95% of the time) I make in other rooms, why the heck to messes I don't make get pinned on me?
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