Ticker/RB argument

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that isnt true at all. people just dont like when others who are living sucsessfully with aspergers being juge and jury about everyone elses situation about how they should be dealing with As and life according to how you function and deal with aspergers. wich is what you do here so it ticks them off

i think you should write a book called, "the world according to ticker"

what do you think? im thinking best seller

I agree with rb sometimes you can be a bit condescending ticker. I apreciate what you did though.

It is good to hear success stories, it can motivate but sometimes it can be difficult to relate. We are talking about relative success after all. It is not a level playing field with or without AS.

hmmm ...and you want me to take anything you say Richard as meaningful? after all you told me how terrible Judy the lady at Voc Rehab was, even calling her a b*tch, and she has been nothing but nice to me. she has gotten me all kinds of services and even offered to drive me around in the snow when i broke my foot. so it seems like the "world according to Richard Benson" is not very accurate. i guess i must not be as mean as you like to say or else she wouldn't be offering me so much help, kindness and yes, friendship. sometimes she just calls to say hi and see how i am.

well when i first went to her she was nice. but after there was a communications problem, and i went back a second time she acted like a total ass to me and basically refused to help me so yes, she is a b***h. its nice living off the taxpayer huh moochie. how much did your earing aids cost everyone in the state and why do they pay an OT therapist to come to your house to make shure your cleaning? hows that apart of staying employed? or in the intrest of keeping you employed? maybe shes so nice to you because you kiss her rear. it seems your pretty good at telling others how to get a correct aspergers diagnosis, so i wouldnt be suprised if thats why you get all these free *cough* *cough* services

Hmmmm. I don't think so, but I can see how it could come across that way.

oh i do think so, on top of it shes a hippocrite

http://www.wrongplanet.net/postxf45399-0-45.html

http://www.wrongplanet.net/postxf45399-0-90.html

and on page 7 she sais this

"Yeah instead I'm working my ass off despite having a life-threatening illness and paying taxes to foot your SSI checks."

if she knew anything about ssdi she would know it isnt a handout or welfare but her condensending judgmental attitude blinds her


now she goes to VR and gets her earing aids paid for, im shure she gets free councelling and someone comes to her house to make shure she cleans all paid for by the tax payer. (wich i've never heard of btw, unless you work from home i cant see why VR would pay an OT therapist to come to your house to make you clean.) i remember they asked me at VR if i was a messy person and i said yes, hell they even asked my mom if i was messy and she told them i was. VR never offerd to send a person to come to my house to make shure i clean. VR are tight with thier money because they dont have it.


"RSA does not have enough money to pay for specially supervised work environments, job coaching, or personal care assistance" - taken from https://www.azdes.gov/rsa/vr.asp


so its a little unbelievable that they would pay someone to do that unless you worked from your home and the mess was effecting you at your home buisness. what happend to the im an aspie living sucsessfully withought any kindof assistance ticker? im sorry but you know what i hate people who tell everyone how it should be and then live either the same way or do the opposite of what they tell everyone else to do here. practice what you preach

Richard, Ticker, you are obviously having a disagreement about someone local to you, who you perceive in different ways.

However, many of us are not local to you, thus do not know the person you disagree over, nor is your disagreement germane to the discussion. That being said, would you mind terribly taking this to PMs, so the rest of us don't have to slog past your arguments? Thanks!

uhm. the local people would be me and her, we live in the same town. and sorry about the arguing, i'll stop now since she got totally own3nd. i just dont like it when someone tells me to get off my lazy ass and stop living off the system when she does the same thing

I'm not living off the system. I work 40+ hours a week. The services Voc has given me is still less than the many thousands I have paid in taxes. They are giving me the services because they say its required by Fed law in order to make sure I don't become too disabled that I cannot work so that they would have to pay SSI to me. If they let me become deaf I cannot work. They are the ones suggested the OT because they said autistic people and those with brain damage need OT in their lives, I think if you were willing to work you would have gotten more help from Voc. Voc only helps those that work or want helo finding work.

I don't care to take it to PMs with Richard. I don't want to talk to the worthless little punk. I tried befriending him, even offering to pay his way and drive him since he has no way of doing anything in the world, but he always had an excuse. He just finds every thread I am on and harrasses me on each thread because he has nothing else to do in his sorry life since he doesn't work, can't drive and has no friends. I just get tired of him spreading lies about me because he doesn't agree that AS people should be independant and contribute to the world & he is jealous when some of us do.

Now if you'll excuse me I have to go into work early and do overtime.

well i went there for almost a full year and gave it my best, so i think that is being willing

what are you talking about? well reguardelss im glad i declined your invitation to pay for me whatever we were going to do. i remember now. you offered to take me to the fair at ft. tuthill and to pay for me to get in, because i didnt have any money at the time or drove. well thanks but no thanks.

whats my excuse? oh nevermind is this about that one time you wanted to take me to the fair and offered to drive me? im glad i didnt go with you, your totally crazy.


no, im just calling you out on your obvious bs. and nastyness, hippoctidness and condensation on others


that isnt true, im shure half the stuff you babble on here is a lie. i think everyone should live up to their potential, but get tired of someone on thier horsey talking down their nose at someone and a few months later recives simmilar help from the govenment. (wich is what you did sucsessfull aspie who wasnt on assistance then but now are)

ok drama queen

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thats another lie. voc rehab is completley voluntery. they didnt make you sign up for it because you were going to be put on ssdi. (you had to sign up for it because you were either having trouble keeping your job, OR you never had a job in the firstplace OR you heard about the fantastic deals they had on earing aids.. so stop making it sound like this is your last chance before you become a mooch. you already are one

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Can you not see the irony in that statement?

I have a driver license it took me a long time to get failed a couple times, but ultimately I don't drive because I don't trust myself and get lost so it is pretty useless. Although I managed to pass that means nothing because I don't believe I am safe on the road for long and I unlearn things like that in the blink of an eye. If I tried to take the test again chances are I would fail. I just got lucky. That doesn't mean I'm a good driver.

I can't believe you'd have a go at somebody for not having friends on an Asperger's site of all places. I used to have no friends. It was a difficult learning curve to overcome. Some people find social interaction of any nature really difficult.

oh im shure she does. as seeing is shes pretty good about telling someone else how to get a correct aspergers diagnosis

http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt54483.html

i dont know about you, but if someone has this much brains they dont have aspergers at all and probably told the doctor what they wanted to hear to get an as diagnosis themselves

and another thing. why would you be bringing up the fact that you offerd me a ride and to pay for me like two years ago?

i didnt ask you and when you asked me i politly declined because i dont like taking money from people, or exepting rides.

my guess is you want the spotlight off your condensending, lying, hippocrite butt. what say you?

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