People are very judgemental

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I've been told I seem like a nice, fun, kind, and smart but I don't see why, not entirely b/c I

think I don't deserve such compliments it's just that ppl say this after only just meeting me for a

few minutes and many times b/c I don't talk they end up with this idea and I haven't even said

hello. So why do people judge me without even knowing me and how do they end up with what

they believe about me with out any actual proof outside my looks???

This is men, women, elderly, young, they all seem to think I'm this goody two shoes I've even

noticed that all the girls that check me out are not really all that well bad type of girl maybe I just

seem like I'm not dangerous or something??? >.< how is that even possible???

I would suggest just taking it as a compliment.. Its better than some peoples opinion of me rofl :/ ..
I SO voted for pie

Well, I personally don't judge that people aren't dangerous right off the bat because I'm quite paranoid. Hope for the best, and plan for the worst, I'd say. Take everything with a few grains of salt--what you're hearing has been translated twice over. Their thoughts entered the air, and then your brain processed it--and that's just the message that they meant to send.

... *sighs for ranting again*

I voted books but that was before I saw...pie.

Pie ! !!

I prefer pie and people who don't rely on first appearances as judgement of character.

I've lost my interest in games a looong time ago. I got sick of video games advancing and upgrading in very unaffordable ways. I dont read many books.

I prefer the TV and movie way of life.

And I eating. PIE WINS!

Yes, many people are judgemental.

Oh my God, I saw SilverProteuss' post and thought she had returned! But then I saw the date.

People are judgmental but it isn't always a bad thing. Take whatever compliments you can and let them improve your self esteem. To name one example, I know every time my barber compliments me in some way it totally makes my day. It's one reason I go once a month now instead of whenever my hair gets long.

BTW, I chose books.