Ugh. I hate bras. I know I shouldn't go without at my size, but I often do. Especially in hot weather. I wish there were more bras in pure cotton, but it seems to be incredibly hard to find such, and when you do, they're things you wouldn't wish on your granny.
I'm a 40DD, and that doesn't help because while it is getting easier to get bigger cup sizes in the UK, back sizes are a different thing. The vast majority of bras on the market don't go over a 36 or 38, and I hate cramming myself into something that's going to pinch across the back.
I'd happily wear corsets if they weren't so darned expensive. Some underwear stores have told me it's impossible to make any boned garment 'supportive enough' for the larger woman, but every corset maker I've met (and I've met a few, my husband was into LRP and still turns out to shoot photos at medieval fayres) tells me that's a heap of hooey - after all, time was when women of all sizes wore them. Given the choice between some hideous beige elasticated monstrosity that promises to shave 3" off my waist in return for stopping me breathing....and a nice bespoke corset....I think I'll save up, thanks.
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