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i am really having a problem with my freinds now, i really want ot find another social group to hang out with but alot of people dont have anything in common with me, and the freinds i have now take drugs, i only just found out that the girl that i've wanted to go out with for months but havent been able to because her parents made her move away, also does drugs, obviously i dont like it, and i dont want to come home most weekends smelling like i have smoked something, and most social groups i do see in my town are either, one groups of lowlifes, yobs or chavs, and then there's the people that i have things in common with that do drugs they dont force me but i just dont like being with them knowing that they're doing that, and any of my normal freinds live in different towns and i only get to hang out with them for like an hour a day because the only time i see them is at school, i can't really figure out any ways i can get out of this situation anyone able to shed some light and help me out?

Just do the same stuff as they do until your an adult and move away, then when you move away, do what you want.

At least they're not forcing you to take drugs, that would be the indicator that it is time to punt.

I think there are groups like D.A.R.E. that you might want to look at if you are so anti-drug.

i guess so, they are still my freinds, and i have some good times with them, it's just when they start getting drunk or taking drugs is the time that kinda puts me off hanging out with them because i dont want people in the local community to think i'm a stoner. i may just have to live with it

theres always something in common you have with even a random person, the troble is finding out how to use that to connect. tv is a great way to connect you have tastes in movies, entertainment, comdey, sports, clothes, or even other people you know to start out with. Ask a question like "do you know (fill in the blank)"? ask that person how they know them as to ascertain their intrests. I mean it may seem hard at first but really?

"behold the turtle of enormous girth, it makes its progress by sticking out its neck"

wow i know the feeling of hanging around ppl I dont rly like but not rly having any1 else. it sux. might as well have no friends.