yo any guy's being stalked, BY A GUY?

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Hi, I have this problem with stupid naibors and an unknown stalker who drives a large silver colored truck that always follows me on the one day of the week that they know I will come out of my house and that is the day that I get my paycheck. I know it is useless to try and ask for help because the people who are close to me are an impediment to legal help because my neighbor's have convinces them that I am stupid or insane. All I have to say is that who ever is stalking me I know that the neighbor's in the first apartment is always calling someone at the very time I leave my apartment and I will find the bathroom door open!! ! then the people I mentioned in a different thread who could recite the things that I said by listening through the wall. will there is little chance that they respond to lip sinking ! !! !
If only there were more people who have AS in the area than I could have a poss' i that would watch out for me instead of backstabbing neighbors who will help the enemy and have the ability to lie for the sake of picking on me or being convinced by others that it isn't some sexual predator gay guy. Most of the solutions that they have for stalker predators is to have YOU gain the evidence but the stuff requires testimony. If all of your neighbors are harboring and helping them because they think you are the weirdo what do you do!! ! all I know is that if my family has been convinced by these looser's . I mean I HAVE to be insane or hearing things that the minute that I move m y mouse too start my computer monitor a stomp sound happens next door or whene I go to a web site after being of the web for a while one way or the other I am going to stop them or get them!! ! The best I can do now is see how they respond to things I leave on my desktop for them to have fun reading. and to go to gun sites if they planted a virus to monitor me. counter intelligence is most efective against the idiotic crowd like them who have revealed more and more the longer they harass me that I will find out the situation and get them Ither leagaly or Thru tactics that are more or less leagal if you can prove what they are doing but is not covered by law. cause if I can Identiy through a picture the Idiots I can postit if I can validate that they are the cause and not go through defimation lawsuits so no one else hase to put up with these Idiots.

AND FOR OF THOSE READING THIS i USED THE WORD IDIOTS TO REPLACE MORE COLORFUL LANGUAGE OF A GREAT AND EXTREAM VARIETY.
SO PLEASE UNDERSTAND MY DISTRESS?

Freaky as it all sounds, it could just be a LOT of coincidences. The silver truck could just be someone who also does something at the same time every week.
The neighbor on the phone may just talk on the phone a lot, or maybe has a relative or someone that they always call at a set time.
As for the "recite the things that you said by listening through the wall", if you have thin walls and say odd things, yes thay very well might comment on it. Either quiet down or ignore them.
As for the sounds when you use your compoter, I would think you're hyper-sensitive rather than insane. And a bit paranoid. You're listening for anything to justify your fears, so you hear everything.

As long as the person in the truck hasn't even tried to talk to you, I would try to ignore them. As for your neighbors, well if they think you're strange you may just have to live with that, or move somewhere where you have more privacy.

The truth I had to learn is that people care and notice us FAR less than we'd like to think. When I start worrying about stuff, I just remind myself "nobody cares." It's not your actions but your reactions that are causing the conflict.

I do understand your distress. I think you might be making some unfounded assumptions about your neighbors, though.

I know from experience that when you don't get out and interact much in the wide world, sometimes you focus too much on little issues, and they start to seem like big issues. It's like you are looking at life through a microscope, or something. I've done it, too, so please don't think I'm judging you in any way.

I think this, combined with a little paranoia, might be what is making you feel like the neighbors are stalking you. Consider that what you percieve to be malicious behavior, might just be their daily routine, which they would probably do whether you were there or not.

It also might be a good idea for you to talk to a therapist or counselor about this problem. Good luck to you.

I`m not sure about the neighbour-thing, but if
you think a car is following you that should be
easy to do something with, either stop it and
talk with the people inside or follow it and see
where it goes. If you think someone is in your
home while you are away, setting up a camera
with microphone would give you the info you need.
If you think a neighbour is spying on you, go over
there, knock on the door and ask to borrow something
or whatever, get inside and look around, and you
should get the info you need.

Last edited by ImTheGuyThatDidThat on 29 Mar 2009, 3:03 pm, edited 1 time in total.

Do most people park outside your creadit union on the same day with a camra attached to the visor of there truck pointed right were you enter. do most park on the side of the road pointing in the direction you drive from to get to work to get your paycheck on pay day. and then can be found comeing out of road that is right on the beginning of the one way street you just enter to go to the credit union on the same day just after you get your paycheck, looking away with a smile on there face the minute you look in there direction? the camera incident is how I remembered him, I also know that a coworker has a father that likes to let his son come to work in official garb of the police(an official shirt for homeland defense with the police emblem) even though he is not the police. If his father is the stalker too that could explain the camera in the visor of the truck.
IF that is the case it is a matter of police intimidation and that is a felony?
That is one of the things that creeps me out. This is a small town and my dad and my brother both have had not so good incidents with the police and I can say that I was pulled over by the same guy that searched a car my brother was in, and I had my brother with me and the guy asked to see my brother and his girlfriends licence too even thought they were not driving and there is no way in hell that he could think that I was some sort of seedy type from traveling in the other direction turning around following me and then pulling me over.(no record what so ever) My brother may have done pot but when I was 15 one of the officers MISTAKENLY thought that I was him then asked where he was then(Isnt that intimidation).

my dad has a sever brain damage from an accident at his work that changed him into an hyper aggressive type, the sort of thing that made mike tyson bite off that guys ear and that wrestler who killed his family but this happened right of the bat after he exited the hospital before I was born. because of that he got good treatment and aggression consoling, I grew up going to weekend visitation with him and my undiagnosed untell I was in highschool self was not really comfortable with the utter mindbogglingly inflexible tyranny and cussing and fained waiving of the hands threateningly attitude.
He never left a mark from hitting me and never really hit me because he was a catholic school boy who no matter his damage he is a good harted soul though poor is religouse and took care of a cat and paid for it to go to the vet after a dog attacked it "poor ozzy" had for months a peace scab over his head where there was a patch of his head(no fur and I swear that initially that was skull I saw) torn out and was taken care of broken leg too but he lived thanks to my dad being a cat lover.

His meds are extremely dangerous and he was having problems taking them on time and correctly and when he called for an ambulance to help when he overdosed they sent the cops instead.
Supposedly they taser'ed him or maced him and possibly hit him with a baton something like that according to him as far as i remember, and a guy who just needed medical help legit they even were going to put menacing charges on a guy who was in need of medical help after an accidental over dose of powerful anti seizure medicine(yea he has as long as I have been alive been an foul language cop hating sort with exception of his landlord duke.

But as for my problem there is someone for some reason who can hear what I do in my apartment who bangs on the floor when I do anything embarrassing and as such as well as all the things previously stated. If I lip sink something nasty like you are a F** (nasty word for a gay) and someone talks about "howed he know that I am gay he's gameing me"(like I was trying to attract his affections crap) outside my apartment than that has got to be a true I am watching you F** harrassing butt F***.

what can have such accuracy to act like a perfect response to me outside my apartment whene I dont make a sound moving my lips under my breath liping the words.
I Have the right to express my self in private not trying to communicate something . if someone heard than the they only know if they are the DOING something wrong sort by breaking some law to Identify or see or this or that against me to know what they know. The walls Do not have ears for video yet unless you are a perv in this state of the union and any mistake's my naive nature has had a long time ago is no longer when it comes to privacy rights ect..

Do I sound even crazier now that I have composed my thoughts with a little less disgraphya. or maby the fact I cant be patient to explain all of the possibilities that have arrived in my mind to all of the Embarrassing details of my experience. there is little I can do to put images to words just what Come to be words that is the biggest problem I have and this is the very best that I can do so if there is this crazy rant format I could have put a thousand more words of description but I feel that would make me seem more of a lune for ranting so much. and I get lost in thought and bored typing for so long on the same subject.and have little choice but hope someone comes to conclusions using logic of expression that can translate here.

I still don't think you're crazy, you're just dealing with a lot.
Get me the licence plate and state of that truck, I may be able to run it down for you.
If you'd like me to check out your neighbors or something, PM me their names and aproximate ages, and what state (or country) you're in.
No gaurantees, but I'm prety good at finding out stuff online. It might make you feel better to know more about them, works that way for me anyway.

Just offering.

As an advocate of privacy if I was to violate there's without evidence to corroberate would be unfair. My way of thinking is just that I can Ride most of it out if I vent a little and prepare so I can protect my self and not be so much of A cycotic nut ranting on forums. In the end one thing I realize is the fact that no one will listen is the problem.
If they are doing things and no one will listen to me that are close to me and know me that makes me obsess more and more about it. People can lie and at least the foundation about the noise and the talking outside of my door things that are happening are something that I am secure about being indisputable whatever means.
Plus if I dont have evidence and I say there precise name or any information that particularity would Identify them precisely than that would put me in hot water in many ways too.

Also I dont know there names. and I have a hard time remembering people's names Ive worked with for a year or more sometimes.

and I really dont want to go in there house like IMtheguythatdidthat said I should cause Ive already seen a little too much of what I wasnt supposed to of another naiborse house when I went in to look at a washer that they were offering to sell me. (I saw a gun and a walky talky on there desk that he moved promptly). Odly that person I trust more than the rest cause he's a longtime friend of the family. I just dont want to think to much about stuff that will get me shot down more by my brother mother and others.

I thought though about renting a notery camera. y know those cameras that the memory and batterys are loded into a tamper proof enclosure so that they can prove that the video and time stamps are correct. and they unload them with a witness to prove that There was no fraud for proof in court.

If I did that than I could prove what I was doing and prove that the noise corresponded to my actions (who whould think THAT whould make stomping sounds from the far wall).

Try talking to a psychiatrist. It's easier to rule out paranoia first than it is to rule out a conspiracy theory. I know this from experience. Oh, and maybe get a taser if they are legal in your state, but don't get a gun until you and a doc have thoroughly ruled out paranoia. There's no limit to the ammount of trouble you could get yourself into!

one way or the other they just bitched infront of my door again turning off there conversation as I walked back and forth pacing from kitchen to frontroom. I pi$$es me off so much.
if They where innocent bystanders than they wouldn't keep inciting the thing that upsets me they just keep on for what ever reason those A holes keep doing it for. The days I go so crazy I cant .(pause there doing the slam the toilet seet in response crap again to me typing and the fa* laughed in the other apartment at the same time.) sleep but by staying awake at differing hours they cant disrupt me so that has helped too.

All I know Is they dont realize that no matter what I cant let go I will not lose they can go to there homeland and hail there hero hitler and lucifer.

Even if they are gay And I accidentally Identified that that was what they are doesn't mean that I have a grudge against gay people I am an advocate for freedom not hate.

If I can prove that they are doing this crap than I will not suffer defamation when I post there faces on flyer's showing there Pirvy side to the world and telling who helped them.

The guy's who make the most fun of people are those that are the murderers drug dealers pimps and the other sort type so I just figure they put me in better standing the more they act out.
I make jokes that make fun of things that are not of people but interesting slapstick sort of things except the slip of the tongue situations that all autistics probably have.
but these jerks are asking for there mother to spank there little baby fannies for being little brats for there age that should be something that is embarrassing.

time to start slashin tires dont ya think?

What the hell is wrong with you?

nuthin, u? dont come at me sideways.

HelloMeD,
Slashing tires is a really bad idea. Don't be the aggressor or else risk the loss of credibility.

thank you for the advice I would never slash tires of anyone. O and I like your avatar I would be a member of the nra even as a democrat but it would be weird to do so and not be a gun owner.

I also realize it would be stink fish if I actually bought a gun under the cercomstances, I just thought that if the possibility that I am for any reason at fault seeing every body that I have talked to think that I am insane

If I am wrong though I continually doubt that, I have made certain that they know that there is little chance that they will be happy with the results of there not so nice attitude toward messing with me if they are watching and or messing with me for any reason. this has been going on for months and I am tired and depressed.

I have been in this passive war of using the theory of someone watching and using that against them by going to the gun websites so that they would feel uncomfortable continuing in the unhealthy pursuit of messing with me.

though If slashing tires was a joke than ha ha, it is sorta mildly funny.

two words:
pipe bomb.
and if you gay stalker is waiting for you, adjust your schedual so he has to wait for a couple hours for you to bother shoting up