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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: If you're 27 and never had a girlfriend, is it too late? |
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Posted: 27 Apr 2015, 8:33 pm
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| With the state of today's economy (largely controlled by sinister private-bankers), I honestly cannot think of any real good reason for anybody to bother having a relationship, and I actually prefer to keep to myself. I don't think http://www.meetup.com/ is so bad, but another factor to take into c... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do the majority of guys with A.S. never get a girlfriend? |
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Posted: 27 Apr 2015, 8:27 pm
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| if it don't happen pre 35k I don't want it anymore. the type of relationship I won't doesn't happen after 30s. really no point in postponing the inevitable past 35 really even 30. haha you make it sound like you are basically dead after you hit 30. That is not true; I assure you that there is life ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How late is 'too late' to get started with a relationship? |
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Posted: 27 Apr 2015, 8:18 pm
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| 1. 4 years in college, degree and all that s**t Well, then perhaps you aren't especially good at whatever it is you do. That doesn't make me gifted for being really good at my unrelated-to-yours-job. Nor does it preclude you from being really good at some *other* job, should you seek/obtain one. 2.... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: If you're 27 and never had a girlfriend, is it too late? |
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Posted: 27 Apr 2015, 7:46 pm
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| Maybe she doesn't wanna talk to random strange men, period. Even if the guy is hot, even if she's single. Why do you think flirting means talking? Aren't you too focused on the PUA strategies you despise so much? this is why I never approach women. dating sites or nothing. anywhere else they don't'... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How can you get a girlfriend if you have aspergers syndrome? |
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Posted: 27 Apr 2015, 7:35 pm
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Replies: 184
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| I met my BF and what caught my interest in himw as his kindness and properness. He did make himself noticable though with his extreme opinions, which is what made me look his way in the first place. I have no idea what your BF's personality is like but how do you stand his "uniqueness" th... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How late is 'too late' to get started with a relationship? |
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Posted: 27 Apr 2015, 7:29 am
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| 1. The dictionary defines "gifted" as "having great special talent or ability". That's not me. I wasn't born with some sort of innate gift for pure math... it was something I found interesting and spent five years in college/grad school studying. 2. How many girls have you asked... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do the majority of guys with A.S. never get a girlfriend? |
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Posted: 26 Apr 2015, 6:27 pm
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Replies: 281
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| if it don't happen pre 35k I don't want it anymore. the type of relationship I won't doesn't happen after 30s. really no point in postponing the inevitable past 35 really even 30. haha you make it sound like you are basically dead after you hit 30. That is not true; I assure you that there is life ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How late is 'too late' to get started with a relationship? |
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Posted: 26 Apr 2015, 6:25 pm
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| Ummm, I'm not gifted. Nor are most of my Aspie colleagues. Gifted implies some sort of innate, incredible, out-of-nowhere-in-a-little-kid like a Jay Greenberg or a Joshua Bell. I'm pretty smart, work hard and mostly take direction well. Fell into investment banking because I was d.o.n.e after a yea... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I'm afraid of being alone forever |
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Posted: 26 Apr 2015, 1:47 pm
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| I'm afraid that no girl will want to date me. To this day, iv'e never had a girlfriend before. Every time I talk to girls I always fail because i'm just too shy to talk to girls I like. I'm a great guy who has a lot to offer. I can bench press 115 pounds, I pwn noobs in Runescape, I work 12 hours a... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: If you're 27 and never had a girlfriend, is it too late? |
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Posted: 26 Apr 2015, 1:44 pm
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Replies: 823
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| Not to worry, you can leave the hugging of all of the hot girls to me, I don't mind having more hot chics to myself ! ;) (I'm not really up on my PUA strategies...but if it involves walking up to strangers, saying it is Hug Day and expecting a hug. Ugh. Gross. Never. I am not a tactile-with-strange... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How can you get a girlfriend if you have aspergers syndrome? |
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Posted: 26 Apr 2015, 9:53 am
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| Women are attracted to men with healthy self-esteem. Sadly, this automatically eliminates a lot of aspie males. If you truly are interested in attracting women, you have to show them that you respect yourself. You don't have to look like Brad Pitt, but it helps to invest in your own well-being. It'... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: If you're 27 and never had a girlfriend, is it too late? |
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Posted: 26 Apr 2015, 9:52 am
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| Maybe she doesn't wanna talk to random strange men, period. Even if the guy is hot, even if she's single. Why do you think flirting means talking? Aren't you too focused on the PUA strategies you despise so much? Nope. There are times when I'm happy to chat or dance with strangers in bar, other tim... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: If you're 27 and never had a girlfriend, is it too late? |
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Posted: 26 Apr 2015, 9:52 am
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Replies: 823
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| Maybe she doesn't wanna talk to random strange men, period. Even if the guy is hot, even if she's single. Why do you think flirting means talking? Aren't you too focused on the PUA strategies you despise so much? Nope. There are times when I'm happy to chat or dance with strangers in bar, other tim... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I will seduce you... with awkwardness |
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Posted: 26 Apr 2015, 9:45 am
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| It depends what you mean. I'm awkward, but try to be unashamed about it. Awkward can mean anxious, but in fact fairly conventional. Having had anxiety, I wouldn't wish it on anyone, and try to keep it under-wraps. It is not awkward, if you are not judged, or treading on egg shells. Just unconventio... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do the majority of guys with A.S. never get a girlfriend? |
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Posted: 26 Apr 2015, 9:37 am
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| do you say the same stuff to women in similar situations? She even has no respect for her dad and mocks him here, she hates males that much. In other term, she's saying that the only reason those women were dating him because he's tiny bit above s**t than the way most single men are in his age. I a... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: If you're 27 and never had a girlfriend, is it too late? |
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Posted: 26 Apr 2015, 9:29 am
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| At birthday party. Pretty girl, spotted at 2 o'clock. What is the procedure to flirt with her? Is Birthday Party Girl sitting at a table with gaggle of friends? Liking like she's having a ball chatting and drinking with them? Maybe she doesn't wanna talk to random strange men, period. Even if the g... |
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