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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What unusual things are attractive to you in a partner? |
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Posted: 01 Apr 2016, 6:49 pm
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Replies: 147
Views: 8,248
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| I love awkward, nerdy, quiet guys. Preferably with glasses. I prefer thin build over big muscles and don't find the gym-bunny look attractive at all. If you look like you spent the last 24 hours studying rather than pumping iron then I'm definitely interested! I think someone described it perfectly ... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Is Intercourse Satisfying? |
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Posted: 31 Mar 2016, 9:24 pm
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Replies: 86
Views: 6,735
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| No, I've never had any desire for sex. As a child I had a curiosity about the scientific aspects and later on the psychological ones (I spent a lot of time reading up on Freud). But I never wanted to be physically involved myself. If someone told me I could never have sex again then it wouldn't both... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: NT girls are the worst..... |
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Posted: 31 Mar 2016, 9:08 pm
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Replies: 34
Views: 3,937
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| I never understood why women focus so much energy on men. I know I'm an odd minority here, but making so much effort to impress men when you will get grey, saggy, physically undesirable and lose their interest anyway seems completely pointless. I'd rather keep men as friends and peers and focus all ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do people with Asperger's look different? |
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Posted: 24 Mar 2016, 5:28 am
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Replies: 64
Views: 30,881
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| I'm going to agree with the general consensus and say no. I have a fat 'alien' head (or a smaller body), I'm very pale and have dark eyes that slant the wrong way so everyone said I looked like a sad china doll when I was young. But I don't think any of those are typical autistic traits. I'm just a ... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Friendship Board - Age 19 Onwards |
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Posted: 19 Mar 2016, 9:04 am
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Replies: 1,195
Views: 707,921
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| I'm female, 30, live in the UK (London), work in IT (surprise surprise)! Diagnosed at 15 with high functioning autism, then at 17 with aspergers. Not sure what the difference is and don't really care. I'd like to meet other female aspies as it sometimes gets a bit isolating, but my interests and hob... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Too stressed living with people, too lonely living alone |
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Posted: 19 Mar 2016, 8:51 am
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Replies: 16
Views: 4,193
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| I share a house with other people, but they aren't always around. Some of the money I save by sharing a home I put in a separate savings account so I can stay in a cheap travel lodge nearby for a couple of days if I ever need alone time to recover. It would probably sound odd to most people, but a f... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: NT girls are the worst..... |
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Posted: 19 Mar 2016, 8:38 am
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Replies: 34
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| Yes, I've met quite a few like that. I think it's possibly a lack of attention as children. They need to get a reaction out of other people in order to feel important and validated. It's very odd behaviour and I try to avoid women who behave like spoilt children. I'll talk to them once they've grown... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Paying for people |
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Posted: 19 Mar 2016, 8:27 am
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Replies: 10
Views: 707
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| I feel the same way as ArielsSong. If I buy a drink or something for anyone then I always make a point if saying 'this is in return for you doing xyz earlier that was really nice'. That way they feel like the gesture is just me 'repaying' them for something they did for me earlier and don't feel lik... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Almost all my friends are just people I know online. |
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Posted: 19 Mar 2016, 8:18 am
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Replies: 19
Views: 2,103
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| I wonder if VR will make a difference here. I could literally go online and feel like I am physically hanging out with other people if I could see my own and their VR bodies and interact with the environment. I think it would feel less overwhelming compared to real life, but still close enough that ... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Poll: What gender do you most relate to? |
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Posted: 19 Mar 2016, 8:02 am
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Replies: 35
Views: 2,600
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| I voted female, as physically I'm female and I'm happy being so. However the way I think and my interests tend to fall into the 'tomboy/nerd' category - computers, extreme sports, gaming, science, gadgets, etc. I find most women overly emotional, needy and confusing and I really don't care about mak... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Is Intercourse Satisfying? |
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Posted: 19 Mar 2016, 7:46 am
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Replies: 86
Views: 6,735
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| I voted no. Sex is a huge chore for me and I get nothing out of it. I like hugging someone in bed, but nothing else. I can't remember ever having a physical sex drive and doubt I ever will. Like others here, I have traded sex for other things in the past. I enjoy male company and don't usually have ... |
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