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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Should I |
GrendelUlf |
Posted: 25 Dec 2013, 5:05 pm
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I keep the job because I can afford to pay the bills and the big read health insurance flag. One thing about being a drone in a large corporation is the benefits are generally quite good. But you're right. Every day I sit down to begin I feel like a few more bits of my soul have shriveled away and I... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Should I |
GrendelUlf |
Posted: 25 Dec 2013, 3:51 pm
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Hi, I'm a forty eight year old woman with Asperger's. I was diagnosed at forty and to say it changed my life in many positive ways would be a gross understatement. After a couple of years of coaching I decided to go back to school to get a four year degree and possibly even a masters. It has been ro... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Bras? |
GrendelUlf |
Posted: 18 Mar 2010, 6:15 pm
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I too got the "talk" @ school in 4th grade when I was 9. I developed quite early and was mistaken for college freshman often @ the age of 12. That was quite horrible, I didn't have an concept of flirting then (nor do I now). I makes me feel good so many other Aspie women shuck the bra the minute the... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Facebook social attempt? |
GrendelUlf |
Posted: 18 Mar 2010, 6:03 pm
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Sent you a PM. I found the Autism Women's Network via Facebook plus several other groups. |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: The Married Aspie Cafe Thread (discussion of marriage, etc.) |
GrendelUlf |
Posted: 19 Jan 2010, 2:49 pm
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Replies: 645 Views: 218,111
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There are also heterosexual people who live in common-law relationships. I suppose I wouldn't really feel too bad about excluding them with a poorly-worded thread name - they CAN get married but choose not to. You know I was really getting in to the discussion until you made a point of dissing unma... |
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Forum: WrongPlanet.net discussion Topic: Cheaper hosting? |
GrendelUlf |
Posted: 03 Jan 2010, 1:10 pm
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Replies: 10 Views: 1,214
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You might want to check out hostgator.com. We have been using them for about three years. |
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Forum: Games and Video Games Topic: ...so how many people on this site have WoW accounts? : P |
GrendelUlf |
Posted: 26 May 2009, 3:42 pm
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There are PLENTY of NT's out there addicted to WoW. I just downloaded it ArchLord after watching Ben X. The controls are uber funky as oppsed to what I am used to in WoW. I do play a great deal more when I am depressed over something I must admit... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: In a period of just wanting to be left alone |
GrendelUlf |
Posted: 19 Mar 2009, 12:57 pm
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Replies: 15 Views: 1,701
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Quote: Sounds good. But I think I'll just say i have to work the next morning.
Have you ever thought about telling him you have AS and social sitations are extremely difficult if not impossble for you? |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Friend help |
GrendelUlf |
Posted: 19 Mar 2009, 12:49 pm
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Surely out of the 105 people that have viewed this post, more than one person can think of something to help. Well the thing of it is Aspie's perception of a friends and an NT's perception of a friend are usually not the same. One of the books I have about Autism/Asperger's actually has a chapter n... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Question for those in Oklahoma City |
GrendelUlf |
Posted: 19 Mar 2009, 11:17 am
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Replies: 7 Views: 1,056
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nomad32 wrote: a uncouth blue collar individual, odds are you can find them in sports bars on any saturday afternoon in ok city.
Ohhh yeah they are like 96% of the population it seems as of late esp... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Question for those in Oklahoma City |
GrendelUlf |
Posted: 19 Mar 2009, 11:03 am
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Replies: 7 Views: 1,056
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It's also because yobs don't go there. What is a yob? :?: I would love to meet other Aspies, I don't know if Aspie's actually maintain long term freindsships with other Aspies. The few people that I am somewhat friends with usually have keep the contact up as I just can't quite bring myself to most... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Short-haired lesbians |
GrendelUlf |
Posted: 19 Mar 2009, 10:17 am
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Replies: 37 Views: 7,942
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I look at several different factors. Long Haired Men: Androgynous appearance is more and more the social norm hence the term "metrosexual" especially in younger generations. The current standards are much much more open than in previous generations. I am 43 F and usually mistrust long haired men as ... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Question for those in Oklahoma City |
GrendelUlf |
Posted: 16 Mar 2009, 11:31 pm
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Replies: 7 Views: 1,056
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nothing like answering a question from 2007 |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Question for those in Oklahoma City |
GrendelUlf |
Posted: 16 Mar 2009, 11:30 pm
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and up to about 50th on Western. I prefer to go to Norman though. It seems less brutal somehow. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Anyone from the Dallas-Ft. Worth or Oklahoma City areas? |
GrendelUlf |
Posted: 16 Mar 2009, 11:27 pm
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and I consider Norman a different town all together BTW. I keep hoping to find a group here that is not just about parents of children on the Autism Spectrum. yes I know, alas I am not brave enough to start my own...... |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: HELP Going back to college? Should I even try? |
GrendelUlf |
Posted: 11 Mar 2009, 7:34 pm
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Replies: 6 Views: 1,438
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I did horribly the first time I went to college. I didn't really even understand why I was there, my Grandmother enrolled me and picked my classes. I wanted to be an Art Therapist at that time it was rather new and invloved I think eight years of schooling total. I flunked out the first semeter as I... |
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