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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Eligible Odd-Bods! - The Premier Aspergian Singles List |
| lotusblossom |
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Posted: 26 Sep 2014, 5:20 pm
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Replies: 3,818
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| I've been here how long and never knew this was there until yesterday. Fine. My turn: I'm a cranky 52 year old male. I have no likes or dislikes. I'll try anything legal once. Almost anything. Okay, maybe just a few things. Never mind I don't really like to try anything. I hate trying new things. I... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Labiaplasty? |
| lotusblossom |
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Posted: 18 Sep 2014, 5:08 pm
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Replies: 26
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| If I was 20 nowadays I would get a full vaginal makeover plus loads of other stuff done as I feel very ugly. Having said that I find it shocking that we are allowed labia surgery for fun/looks but female circumcision is illegal, Ive heard of doctors in the UK being prosecuted for even correcting bad... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: ex's, inlaws and feeling bad |
| lotusblossom |
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Posted: 17 Sep 2014, 4:51 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,340
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| That's very intrusive. He had every right to tell them to leave right there and then. I wouldn't have anything to do with them if I was him (or you). Yeah Im going to just have to be firm about not seeing them again as I still felt bad/ill about it today and I dont want to feel this bad again. I th... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: ex's, inlaws and feeling bad |
| lotusblossom |
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Posted: 16 Sep 2014, 5:22 pm
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Replies: 8
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| I keep trying to think up of a worthwhile reply, but I can't. Does Tom really need them in his life? He says he wants them to love him. He said he doesnt want them in the flat again though as they drove him so mad, he was really really upset by it. They wouldnt even let him have his own mobile phon... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: ex's, inlaws and feeling bad |
| lotusblossom |
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Posted: 16 Sep 2014, 5:03 pm
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Replies: 8
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| Ugh, damn in-laws with zero respect for boundaries, I don?t have children, but i wouldn?t leave them alone with your in laws until they are older and can respond with awareness. If you set boundaries I doubt (based on their respect for your ex?s personal boundaries) they would respect yours either.... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: ex's, inlaws and feeling bad |
| lotusblossom |
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Posted: 16 Sep 2014, 4:38 pm
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Replies: 8
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| I've got a fairly intrusive mother-in-law myself. The best (lowest conflict and lowest stress) solution I have been able to come up with is to accommodate, accommodate, accommodate. Do it their way, do what they say, just go along with it all (unless you can get multiple professional opinions or a ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: ex's, inlaws and feeling bad |
| lotusblossom |
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Posted: 15 Sep 2014, 4:49 pm
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Replies: 8
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| I took my 2 sons (10 months and 2 yrs) to my ex bfs flat to visit with his aunty and mother. It was really horrible. I was with my ex ( both AS) for 5 years on and off and whilst we both love each other we have an abusive relationship which is horrible for both of us much of the time. We are still c... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: People letting themselves go once in a relationship. |
| lotusblossom |
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Posted: 14 Sep 2014, 4:44 pm
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Replies: 532
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| The past 7 days there was not a day when I consumed more than 1300 calories. I walked for an hour at least every day. I did two two hours of high intensity cardio. My weight is exactly the same as a week ago (68,5). WTF. I found this info helpful https://www.fastday.com/fasting/why-the-scales-dont-... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: manly men vs vulnerable effete men |
| lotusblossom |
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Posted: 13 Sep 2014, 5:42 pm
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Replies: 34
Views: 4,263
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Cafeaulait wrote: The_Face_of_Boo wrote: They want a boyfriend that's sensitive and caring; but manly in bed. Yes!!
that reminds me of my ex's video LOL!
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2q9cnkT8-z8&list=UUG3xFcId0fOvXL7L1-CHnaQ[/youtube] |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: manly men vs vulnerable effete men |
| lotusblossom |
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Posted: 12 Sep 2014, 5:55 pm
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Replies: 34
Views: 4,263
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| I would not exclude someone on those grounds and would rate other characteristics as more important (such as how ethical, common values) however Im quite unsympathetic and harsh/blunt and strong willed and could make a untough person feel bad unintentionally. I would imagine NT women with all their ... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Can I be beautiful at any size above an 18? |
| lotusblossom |
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Posted: 12 Sep 2014, 5:43 pm
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Replies: 30
Views: 2,800
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LokiofSassgard wrote: Any woman is beautiful no matter what size or shape she is. :3 It's not what's on the outside that counts, but it's what's inside that matters the most. If people don't see that about you, then they aren't worth it.
The trouble is often people feel ugly on the inside too. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Age difference. |
| lotusblossom |
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Posted: 12 Sep 2014, 5:16 pm
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Replies: 45
Views: 4,581
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| I would prefer to date someone exactly the same age as me as that would be matching and equal and that is probably a bit aspie of me. my last bf was 5 years younger than me but cos he was aspie looked 15-20 years younger (lol), so I got lots of comments and funny looks, I was always paranoid people ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: x |
| lotusblossom |
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Posted: 10 Sep 2014, 4:53 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 1,701
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| argh I hate it when people do that, its so awkward about what to do back, whether to not x and appear cold and aloof but not look a fool. I had an ebayer send kisses repeatedly in her messages but I could not bear to reciprocate (being the cold unfriendly aspie that I am lol), when I met her (I was ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: He wants an open relationship |
| lotusblossom |
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Posted: 08 Sep 2014, 5:01 pm
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Replies: 20
Views: 3,308
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| My ex was less experienced than me and felt he 'wanted to get his number up' and went on about it a lot and on about wanting other women and more experience and he still goes on about it now (5 yrs later) and how I wasted his life where he could have been seeing other people, even though we are spli... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do the majority of guys with A.S. never get a girlfriend? |
| lotusblossom |
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Posted: 07 Sep 2014, 5:02 pm
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Replies: 281
Views: 40,665
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| Jono and Tarantella, http://divorcesupport.about.com/b/2012/06/24/why-most-divorces-are-initiated-by-women.htm The most common reason the women gave for divorce was verbal abuse and emotional neglect . At the time of divorce many of their husbands had no idea what hit them. Or, so they say. Accordi... |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: Anyone into fasting? Please share your experiences. |
| lotusblossom |
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Posted: 07 Sep 2014, 4:58 pm
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Replies: 19
Views: 2,954
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gah Im on the last night of a 3 day water only fast, I put a stew in my slow cooker for tomorrow and its driving me mad! The smell is wafting deliciously into my bedroom and my stomach is eating itself, Im so hungry argh.
I will not make the slow cooker at night mistake again! |
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