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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: I Should Be Happy, But I'm Not... |
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Posted: 29 Jul 2008, 11:09 am
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Replies: 15
Views: 479
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| The opposite of love is not hate, of course, but indifference. Hate, just like love, is a deeply personal connection; it just happens to be one that is mutually destructive. Unless you are working with the sincere goal of repairing the relationship on its own merits, it makes no sense to preserve i... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is there any sexy guys or girls out there? |
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Posted: 25 Jul 2008, 3:42 pm
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Replies: 38
Views: 8,811
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| I keep getting told that I am good looking, but no girls realy act like that, do I send wrong signals, maybe my personality blocks out my handsom good looks. *nods* I've been told something similar too. :/ The way it was explained to me, is this: Girls don't usually approach guys. And they approach... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is this the way Aspie Men think in terms of relationships? |
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Posted: 25 Jul 2008, 3:28 pm
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Replies: 29
Views: 12,365
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| Tharn: I like the sugar cube analogy... hadn't thought of myself like a spooked horse, but that's pretty apt. *hands two cubes* I'm not the first to think along these lines. :) If you haven't read Temple Grandin's "Animals in Translation", I suggest you do so. She suggests quite a few ways in which... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: I Should Be Happy, But I'm Not... |
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Posted: 25 Jul 2008, 2:45 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 479
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| The opposite of love is not hate, of course, but indifference. Hate, just like love, is a deeply personal connection; it just happens to be one that is mutually destructive. Unless you are working with the sincere goal of repairing the relationship on its own merits, it makes no sense to preserve it... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is this the way Aspie Men think in terms of relationships? |
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Posted: 25 Jul 2008, 1:45 pm
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Replies: 29
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| I'm deeply devoted to a guy that has Aspergers. I want nothing to do with other men, but he and I are just really good friends. I've been told that Asperger's males love in a total different way than nt men do. I've been told that it's a deeper love and not about telling a woman what to do or contr... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Relationship Paradox |
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Posted: 06 Jun 2008, 2:04 pm
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Replies: 10
Views: 3,387
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| A brief scan of recent posts, together with my own experience, shows some common elements in many cases. Aspies tend to get shunned and isolated, which inhibits the development of interpersonal skills. Aspie brains aren't designed for interpersonal skills in the first place, and the lack of informa... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: NT friend hit me, is violent towards me hit me in my ribs |
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Posted: 06 Jun 2008, 1:24 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 2,366
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| There is this friend in my year and whenever we are alone he treats me with respect and tells me his "secrets". And then today I saw finally realised what he was like. A couple of months ago in my circle of friends I made a joke and he just stared at me, looking awkward. The others laughed but when... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Blind Date Advice? |
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Posted: 06 Jun 2008, 1:10 pm
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Replies: 4
Views: 1,237
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Forum: Games and Video Games Topic: Secret of Mana (and other RPGs) |
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Posted: 06 Jun 2008, 12:03 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 5,614
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| Chronotrigger, absolutely. It's a fantastic game with very high replay value. True, the original art is done by the same guy who did Dragonball Z - which I personally loathe - but all the things I hate about his style are conveniently left out in the transition to a video game. ;) That aside, as the... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Any one else turned OFF by porn? |
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Posted: 06 Jun 2008, 10:25 am
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Replies: 106
Views: 1,978
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| Porn is all about loving, caring relationships! ... based on a monetary agreement between a man and a woman (or two men, or two women, or three little people, or two women and a cup, etc), a small film crew, a crummy motel, a rich guy named "Guido", a chain of stores open 24/7 with floors that defy ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: whats your fetish? |
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Posted: 06 Jun 2008, 9:51 am
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Replies: 337
Views: 7,679
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| Is cuddling a fetish :? I'd really just like to spoon too :P Every try spooning with sasquatch? Freeky. o_O Last night I went drinking with a good friend who happens to be rather hairy. He has a tiny one-room apartment, and we ended up drunk and passed out on his bed. When I woke up this morning, I... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: A Vagina Question for the Ladys |
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Posted: 06 Jun 2008, 9:41 am
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Replies: 56
Views: 1,150
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| May be these great girls are not all just hoping for a handsome, confident guy may be there just hoping for a sweet guy that instead of sweeping her of her feet might want to just walk side by side, holding her hand, some one to sit with and watch the shallow idiots go by (that was I good one! LOL)... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: A Vagina Question for the Ladys |
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Posted: 05 Jun 2008, 4:29 pm
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Replies: 56
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| did you come it the wrong room honey?? :lol: thats happen to me before , :oops: but i see you stayed!! :wink: uhmmmm!! i wounder what that means, and your not just a fly on the wall eather!! ! uhmmmmm!! ! may be you don't want a exit route after all!! :D I have to admit it. I was tempted in here by... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do having animals around help you with your aspergers? |
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Posted: 05 Jun 2008, 3:47 pm
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Replies: 28
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| Absolutely. Animals understand what's goin' on with me way better than people... and they are way more honest about how they feel too. I get along very nicely with cats and dogs. I adore my chinchilla. ^_^ Plus he's the softest thing EVER. Seriously, INSANELY soft. After a dust bath, he runs up to t... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Any one else turned OFF by porn? |
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Posted: 05 Jun 2008, 3:42 pm
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Replies: 106
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| ... But I do draw my own tentacle porn, but it's always kind of fun looking rather then the scary violent stuff I have seen online. ... :heart: *^_^* A girl who draws tenticle porn. AWESOME! *swoooon* :D *ahem* Yerf. I know what you're saying tho. ^_^ I have similar problems with most porn. Sometim... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: To religious people. Will atheists go to hell or heaven? |
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Posted: 05 Jun 2008, 2:24 pm
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Replies: 274
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| Hmm, I can only think of two things off the top of my head that I have personally read that create a reasonable heaven and hell concept. The closest to the traditional view is in the last book of the Narnia series. The next is the webcomic Jack; it focuses on hell, and is one of the most disturbing... |
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