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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: to lower the libido |
computerwidow |
Posted: 21 Aug 2005, 12:43 pm
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When I did not have a partner I Dulled most of my sex drive by smoking allot of pot, worked fine with me, also soaking your self into some work you really enjoy helps. As of late though (before I found my new girl) I have found that My best story's and poetry's writings are when I am sexually frust... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Got together with a friend |
computerwidow |
Posted: 21 Aug 2005, 2:14 am
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To acknowledge that things aren't exactly typical and still find a way to make it work is really cool! Congratulations! |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: to lower the libido |
computerwidow |
Posted: 20 Aug 2005, 1:01 pm
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lowfreq50 wrote: They are engaging in humours banter.
Hmmm... like I said... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: to lower the libido |
computerwidow |
Posted: 20 Aug 2005, 1:56 am
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eamonn, Sarcastic_Name, you are making attempts to discourage participants from trying to help each other, right? |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: ...experience with dating an AS-spectrum person? (split) |
computerwidow |
Posted: 19 Aug 2005, 12:39 pm
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I can see how dating someone with AS would be bad, because of their appearant emotional retardation and lack of displayed affection. Plus, that whole adversion to eye-contact and touch . . . not very sexy!! ! Well, I can see where the aversion to touch thing is a difficulty, but honestly, when some... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: to lower the libido |
computerwidow |
Posted: 19 Aug 2005, 12:29 pm
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:idea: My apartment is decent. We have a sofa, coffee table, big-screen TV, DVD player, various video game systems. The kitchen is generally clean. In my bedroom: The computer and TV are both viewable from the bed. It's cluttered but clean. My private bathroom is accessable from my room...don't hav... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: help! i'm training for totally the wrong career (possibly) |
computerwidow |
Posted: 18 Aug 2005, 7:17 pm
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one of the problems is if i FINISH this degree then i cant get student loan for another one, if i drop out I can - but really scared of that big a change! Smiley, why not finish just this term, and be determined that at the end of this term you will either switch to another program or take some tim... |
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Forum: Television, Film, and Video Topic: Jar Jar Binks |
computerwidow |
Posted: 18 Aug 2005, 6:20 pm
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I was really annoyed with Jar Jar Binks the first time I saw Episode I, and couldn't believe George Lucas had ruined his creation with such a creature. I watched it again on video just a few weeks ago, and to my surprise, I was finding Jar Jar pretty funny -- at first. It's like they invented a funn... |
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Forum: Television, Film, and Video Topic: Battlestar Galactica |
computerwidow |
Posted: 18 Aug 2005, 6:13 pm
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i used to watch it. but only because i fancied dirk benedict at the time :roll: You're talking about the 70s version yes? Seeing as I have no idea who Dirk Benedict is... GA Yes, Dirk Benedict was in the 70s version. I didn't care for the 70s version, and that surprised many people because everyone... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: ...experience with dating an AS-spectrum person? (split) |
computerwidow |
Posted: 18 Aug 2005, 6:03 pm
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Doesn't the entire "romantic relationship" forum section really belong in "mature"? It ought to at least have some sort of disclaimer... The "romantic relationship" section includes a lot of "how do I know if a girl likes me?" and "she said she'll go out with me -- what should I suggest for our fir... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Married to an NT man, HELP I need some advise |
computerwidow |
Posted: 18 Aug 2005, 3:31 pm
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I email with my classmates, but don't have any need to keep this a secret from my husband. In fact I often tell him about interesting discussions, or funny things my classmates said. So I agree, ask your husband about this. If they are just comparing class notes and he assumed you wouldn't be intere... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: to lower the libido |
computerwidow |
Posted: 18 Aug 2005, 11:41 am
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... But I'm not sure what you are saying about it being creative energy. Is it because the underlying biological purpose of sex is to make babies? If that's the case, I can't imagine what things this energy can be channelled into ... I've been following this thread and another thread in which someo... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Abortion |
computerwidow |
Posted: 18 Aug 2005, 10:45 am
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When I learned my own mother has had an abortion I almost threw up. My mother had three kids, and her fourth pregnancy went wrong and had to be aborted to save her life. Later she had me. Mom is still around and so am I. And of course Mom is against abortion, because what happened to her is "differ... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Coworker seems to want to be friends |
computerwidow |
Posted: 17 Aug 2005, 7:22 pm
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She sometimes talks in that voice people generally reserve for small children when she is speaking to me. Something I'd want to consider with that is whether it's a playful thing, like, "let's just have some silly fun like a couple of little kids!" Inviting someone to join in the fun isn't pity, an... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Movie Theatre to many people |
computerwidow |
Posted: 17 Aug 2005, 7:12 pm
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I usually do just what you do, Dej, wait until the movie has been out for awhile so it's not so crowded, or pick a time like early afternoon when fewer people are likely to show up. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Actual facts & information about NT sex. |
computerwidow |
Posted: 17 Aug 2005, 5:08 pm
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tokaia wrote: Women tend to be more emotional about these things than men. Especially NT men. Thats why.
I think that what is annoying many of us is the idea put forth on the website that a woman can be a virgin again after willingly having sex. That's getting a little too mystical for me... |
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