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Forum: The Haven Topic: life is fear |
| Shai-hulud |
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Posted: 09 Jan 2016, 6:41 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 410
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| keep just staring at the computer screen, wanting to say something but not knowing what the hell to say. won't even look at the responses probably. never do. when I was younger, wanted to know what people thought of me. now i hate thinking about people paying attention to me. life is fear. had a med... |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: I hate being stuck inside |
| Shai-hulud |
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Posted: 23 Sep 2015, 12:51 pm
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Replies: 1
Views: 479
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| I hate school so much. I'm really smart apparently. My teachers always tell me that I am really smart. But this place is not for me. I get so f*****g depressed being stuck inside for hours with all these people that I cannot even begin to relate to. I feel like they are the ones who are on the wrong... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How do you handle being dominated |
| Shai-hulud |
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Posted: 24 Mar 2015, 10:01 pm
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Replies: 39
Views: 2,289
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| I just ignore it; don't allow myself an emotional response.The emotional response is what the dominator seeks. The emotional response gives this person power; gives him the dominance. If you can refuse to be bothered, no power is given to the dominator. If you can laugh at the person's assertion of ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Partying '~' |
| Shai-hulud |
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Posted: 23 Mar 2015, 5:01 am
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Replies: 4
Views: 52
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| I like partying, sorta, but I just don't really get it. I like dancing and watching bands with my friends. That's really fun. But the way people interact is so god damn complicated. I had a friend (with benefits) that I liked a lot because he could hike when it's above 90 F in the summer out here, w... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Do you have maternal instincts? |
| Shai-hulud |
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Posted: 23 Mar 2015, 4:22 am
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Replies: 61
Views: 5,182
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| I have very strong maternal instincts. I have dreamed for as long as I can remember of when I get to have my children. I don't care if they are difficult or weird or gross, it is the only thing I have ever wanted. It actually makes me really sad when I think about the fact that I am a full grown and... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Bra and panties confession |
| Shai-hulud |
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Posted: 23 Mar 2015, 3:42 am
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Replies: 52
Views: 11,688
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| I don't usually wear bras unless I am seeing my family and I only wear panties like if I'm in public sometimes. couldn't really care less if someone sees my nipples through my shirt honestly |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Is anyone here aromantic and asexual? |
| Shai-hulud |
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Posted: 23 Mar 2015, 3:37 am
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Replies: 36
Views: 20,829
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| I have no idea how to classify my sexual and romantic feelings. Half of my loves have been female, and half have been male. I experienced sexual desire for a for the first time when a female touched me at the age of 17. All the sudden I felt the desire to have sex with one of my male loves when I wa... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Visual Thinking |
| Shai-hulud |
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Posted: 23 Mar 2015, 1:48 am
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Replies: 6
Views: 663
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nick007 wrote: I'm defiantly NOT a visual thinker. I was born with a rare low vision disorder & my brain has problems processing things I do see visually sometimes.
does that mean you are blind sometimes? |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Visual Thinking |
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Posted: 23 Mar 2015, 1:47 am
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Replies: 6
Views: 663
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FlyingSpaceKittie wrote: I do tend to think in visuals and find it difficult sometimes to express myself in words.
agreed |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: do you slam your head against the wall in frustration? |
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Posted: 23 Mar 2015, 1:08 am
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Replies: 40
Views: 6,240
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| haven't done it since high school, but today I was sad cuz for some reason I decided to go to this party I had no way to get home from till morning. Then after half an hour of walking hungover at dawn to the nearest bus stop, and then waiting over half an hour for the next bus, the bus finally showe... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Aspies && Age - Do You Agree? |
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Posted: 23 Mar 2015, 1:01 am
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Replies: 57
Views: 2,768
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Visual Thinking |
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Posted: 23 Mar 2015, 12:59 am
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Replies: 6
Views: 663
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| I've often wondered if visual thinking is something common among autistic people. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I hate relationship talks |
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Posted: 05 Jun 2014, 5:05 pm
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Replies: 3
Views: 646
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| He is wanting to be at least somewhat intimate with others. You describe him as a jock, and you as the nerd. Are you sure he is not taking advantage of you? I'm not sure in what way he could be taking advantage of me. I've actually learned a whole whole whole whole lot from him, and he's made vario... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I only feel normal when I am drinking |
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Posted: 05 Jun 2014, 3:41 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 9,960
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| I feel like a robot when I'm sober, and I feel like a human when I'm drunk. However, I am not sure if I prefer one feeling over the other. I do however prefer to be sober while alone, and it is nice to have a few drinks when I am with people I don't know well. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I hate relationship talks |
| Shai-hulud |
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Posted: 05 Jun 2014, 1:59 pm
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Replies: 3
Views: 646
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| I dunno if I'm really asking for any specific advice; this is more of a rant about the confusions of being an aspie who is with someone who is way more NT than myself. I hate relationship talks. Just talking for hours about stuff I don?t even really understand. It confuses me and I always end up ang... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Emotions |
| Shai-hulud |
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Posted: 24 May 2014, 5:36 pm
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Replies: 3
Views: 717
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| Also, all of his previous relationships were with girls who aren't so lost in this world as I am. They understand sex, know what it means to be sexy and sociable, they are all "hot," and I'm kinda just really into computers and am constantly stumbling through social interactions. This makes me feel ... |
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