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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie boyfriend tends to let me initiate sex all the time |
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Posted: 09 May 2016, 4:55 pm
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| Well, after doing some sleuthing, I now know what the problem is and why he seems distant. He is not over his ex even though they broke up 9 months ago. He has basically removed her from his social media recently. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie boyfriend tends to let me initiate sex all the time |
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Posted: 07 May 2016, 3:58 pm
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cathylynn wrote: overall, it sounds like a good relationship. perfect doesn't exist. compromise may be in order.
He is really nice but difficult to understand sometimes. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie boyfriend tends to let me initiate sex all the time |
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Posted: 07 May 2016, 2:56 pm
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| Another thing I find odd is that he rarely likes my Facebook statuses (I like some of his) or pics, but he likes the pics of a few other girls. I find that he is nervous a lot when he talks to me too. What is going on? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie boyfriend tends to let me initiate sex all the time |
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Posted: 06 May 2016, 6:11 am
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| Rdos, I notice that you live in Sweden, which is where my bf lives. You swedes are difficult to understand. Sometimes I think that the entire country has AS, haha. Anyway, he says he does not like texting and prefers face to face or Skype. The thing is that I've heard his male friends complaining th... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie boyfriend tends to let me initiate sex all the time |
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Posted: 06 May 2016, 4:12 am
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| I am really second guessing myself here because he is probably the nicest guy I've dated! Really! When we got together, he was three months out of a 5-year relationship with a woman he loved dearly. It's been nine months since they have broken up by now and six months since we've known each other. T... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie boyfriend tends to let me initiate sex all the time |
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Posted: 05 May 2016, 1:34 pm
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| Three days ago I sent him a message asking to speak on Skype sometime this week. He replied last night, saying he is busy this week but would make time next week to talk. Yet he has no problem posting stuff on FB and going on forums that have to do with his special interests. I'm starting to think t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie boyfriend tends to let me initiate sex all the time |
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Posted: 04 May 2016, 5:07 am
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The_Face_of_Boo wrote: This is a syndrome called 'typical man'.
Most of the men I know do not act like this, so it can't be the "typical man" syndrome. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie boyfriend tends to let me initiate sex all the time |
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Posted: 04 May 2016, 4:01 am
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| Thank you for all the replies. He is not asexual in the least. In fact he is awesome in bed and loves sex. My intuition tells me that he is intimidated by me. I am older than him, just finished a PhD at Yale, and by all accounts I am also good-looking. He has said that I am his type physically. Howe... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie boyfriend tends to let me initiate sex all the time |
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Posted: 03 May 2016, 3:40 am
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| I've been seeing this wonderful aspie guy for 5 months now. I am 31 and he is 25 and we have similar interests. The first time we met, he had a couple of glasses of wine and decided to ask me out. Things progressed from there and we soon slept with each other I find that in general he is very mascul... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Emotional Processing delays |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2014, 6:16 pm
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| "Anyway, the question was not about the woman. It was more about how aspies process insults." I know the answer to that one. Aspies don't handle insults. If we have failed to achieve the liking of someone enough to be insulted, we will never be able to win this one. better to distance ourselves, so... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Emotional Processing delays |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2014, 9:54 am
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| It's not easy to deal with the situation, snufkin. He is the boss of the company and she is in a similar field but does not work with us. She knows about his roving eye and is extremely insecure so she hangs out around his work a lot. The truth is he is a wimp because in making sure that she does no... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Emotional Processing delays |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2014, 9:11 am
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| Ummm, you speak with authority as if you know his history and mine. The truth is, you don't know any of it and it is a waste to give a man like you the whole story. Of course I don't, and in the same way you don't know enough about me to know what kind of man I am (or if I am a man at all). That's ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Emotional Processing delays |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2014, 8:37 am
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| I called him out on his behavior which has been going on for over a year. I basically wrote that he was a wimp who couldn't stand up to an insignificant woman in our workplace who is disliked by other colleagues for being a moron. He basically does what she says most of the time, to the detriment o... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Emotional Processing delays |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2014, 4:48 am
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| I called him out on his behavior which has been going on for over a year. I basically wrote that he was a wimp who couldn't stand up to an insignificant woman in our workplace who is disliked by other colleagues for being a moron. He basically does what she says most of the time, to the detriment of... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Emotional Processing delays |
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Posted: 28 Jun 2014, 7:29 pm
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| Olympiadis, can the delay be a few days/weeks? |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Emotional Processing delays |
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Posted: 28 Jun 2014, 5:59 pm
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olympiadis wrote: Yes, long time to process.
I see it more as added thoroughness than as a delay.
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