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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Why do Aspies not care about out appearance? |
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Posted: 07 Jun 2009, 11:17 pm
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| Emotional and creative expression for me is very limited, so one way I do it is through fashion(also i'm incredibly vain,) and what you wear is accentuated by your personal hygeiene, so I try to keep everything well maintained... at the same time there are times where I couldn't care less and will g... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: The importance of being you... |
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Posted: 20 May 2009, 6:29 am
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,244
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| A bit. Then again, a lot of it is not the fact that women don't like me, but that i'm too dense to realize. Also, I don't think a relationship is something I want right now, so the universe isn't throwing the opportunities of a good one in my direction. I'm SO not in a relationship place, i'm more i... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: The importance of being you... |
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Posted: 19 May 2009, 10:17 pm
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Replies: 9
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| I'm totally not saying love yourself to get other people to like you. Loving yourself is it's own rewards, and after you do it's not going to matter whether people will like you or not, BUT when you do love yourself... it does attract people to you. Having self-confidence is always in of itself an a... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: The importance of being you... |
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Posted: 19 May 2009, 9:48 pm
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| I'm not saying that it's not important. Far from it, it's very important, but even over the years since i've started learning all of these "social skills" they haven't really made any difference in my life, especially social life, until I obtained the confidence and self-love that was needed to util... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: The importance of being you... |
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Posted: 18 May 2009, 4:31 pm
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Replies: 9
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| In this community there is a lot of advice out there, on social skills... meeting people, overcoming your personal foibles in order to be accepted and have friends. Though this may sound like me being a broken record, and spouting out tired cliches, I think it is important to remind people that the ... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How often do you socialize? |
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Posted: 10 May 2009, 10:18 pm
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Replies: 31
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| I've been going out more and more. Trying new things and topics socially to see what works and what doesn't (per example, only buy a girl a drink if she looks interested, and a good way of integrating yourself in a smallish group of people at a bar or club is to buy everyone drinks.) It ends up bein... |
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Forum: Games and Video Games Topic: Anybody got some unwanted GameCube gamegpads ?? |
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Posted: 06 May 2009, 1:31 pm
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Replies: 7
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Bonnaroo... big mistake? |
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Posted: 12 Apr 2009, 1:22 pm
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| Recently i've started making plans to go to Bonnaroo and i'm feeling unsure on whether or not I should buy the tickets and go. I would be going by myself, the concept of that doesn't bother me but the practice does. Sadly enough, I don't have any friends to go with(I am also going to Orlando for my ... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: What do you want right now? |
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Posted: 02 Apr 2009, 2:11 pm
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Replies: 89
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| An inexpensive Victorian era suit. |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Any con goers in the crowd? |
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Posted: 02 Apr 2009, 1:52 pm
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Replies: 1
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| I'm sitting here thinking about what an AWESOME time I am going to have at Dragon*Con this year and I mos def want to hear about some major comic/scifi/gaming/whatever convention love from the online Asperger community. Anyone here a con goer? Anyone particularly hate Cons? Anyone going to any this ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The difference between flirting and just being nice |
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Posted: 28 Mar 2009, 12:28 pm
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Replies: 55
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| It's a hard thin line. I honestly can't differentiate between whether i'm flirting or i'm just being nice. Everything with me comes out as being flirting, whether that was the intention or not. Even so, flirting doesn't necessarily mean that they're interested in pursuing you romantically. Flirting ... |
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Forum: Games and Video Games Topic: Sega Stop Killing Sonic |
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Posted: 26 Mar 2009, 1:33 pm
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Replies: 77
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LifeOfTheSpectrum wrote: Shadow as a character ruined Sonic IMO.
Every character introduced after Knuckles ruined Sonic. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Prostitutes |
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Posted: 26 Mar 2009, 10:52 am
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Replies: 76
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| I would endorse prostitutes if it were legal and regulated. I, also agree that much of the stigma against prostitution is inbred by soceity. Looking at it from afar and objectively I believe it is a vital service... but only done safely and without infringing upon human rights(i.e. human trafficking.) |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: Dancing Aspies? |
| oddballdeviant |
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Posted: 25 Mar 2009, 10:45 am
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Replies: 62
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| I started taking dance classes about a month ago in an attempt to meet new people and learn a skill that is fun, interesting and healthy. I absolutely enjoy it! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Zodiac sign |
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Posted: 12 Mar 2009, 8:15 am
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Replies: 58
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Taurus with a Sag rising and an Aries Moon.  |
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Forum: Television, Film, and Video Topic: Repo! The Genetic Opera |
| oddballdeviant |
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Posted: 09 Mar 2009, 10:31 am
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Replies: 16
Views: 1,728
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| I was just thinking about making a thread about this. I love Repo! |
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