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Forum: The Haven Topic: Angry with my Mother |
| LostAlien |
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Posted: 25 Mar 2012, 1:50 pm
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| I understand what you guys are saying. Thank you for your responses. Regarding my dog, when I'm at college she's taking care of the dog for me and my bf. Also, she's been walking the dog for three months before this happened (today's the first time it's happened). I have tried in the past to tell he... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Angry with my Mother |
| LostAlien |
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Posted: 25 Mar 2012, 11:21 am
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Replies: 6
Views: 1,162
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| I'm really angry at my Mother right now. She took my dog for a walk (and he gets unruly walking a new route), she broke a stick from the hedge and hit him out of anger. She actually said that she hit him out of revenge. I said to her that there was no justifying it and she said that if she wasn't a ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Is counseling supposed to work like that? |
| LostAlien |
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Posted: 25 Mar 2012, 11:04 am
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| It doesn't sound so good to me. Have you told the counselor that you don't want to talk about the suicidal thoughts in detail? and that tips on how to deal with it might help you more? If you have and he/she is ignoring your needs regarding counseling, is there a way to change counselors? |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Crunchy stuff |
| LostAlien |
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Posted: 29 Dec 2011, 6:15 pm
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Replies: 7
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| What about hard sweet apples for example 'Pink ladies' or if you like sourish tastes a nice hard green apple? I like how hard apples crunch for me perhaps you could get a good crunch from them too? You could also try to make your own crisps: peel a potato and discard the skin, then use the potato pe... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I messed up |
| LostAlien |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2011, 7:48 pm
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Replies: 3
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| Thanks PastFixations, I was really upset when I posted before. I did some Christmas decorating (well watched my bf decorate mostly) and feel a bit better. I'm still kicking myself a bit but it's at a more sane and measured version instead of the "Oh F*** I've really messed my life up" one. I'll prob... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I messed up |
| LostAlien |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2011, 3:42 pm
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Replies: 3
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| I was busy with college and missed the deadline for renewing my medical card. I'm really upset and kicking myself about it. I feel like the worst f*** up in the world at the moment. I'm bawling at the moment and went non-verbal for a while after I found out that I messed up. I thought I had until Ja... |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: 10 year old wont eat anything! |
| LostAlien |
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Posted: 27 Nov 2011, 4:59 pm
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Replies: 14
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| Have you tried raw vegetables (like carrot sticks)? or par-boiled veg (like broccoli)? When I was young I didn't like eating soft things so much (except bananas) but I'd eat raw or par-boiled veg. Perhaps it would be worth a try? I wouldn't worry about the juices and you could possibly get a calcium... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Questioning Sexuality and Gender |
| LostAlien |
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Posted: 20 Nov 2011, 4:21 pm
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Replies: 8
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| I would say that you're most lightly to know you best, I would suggest that you don't let other people tell you who you are because they don't generally see the whole picture of you as a person and generally have their own way of looking at things. |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: NT Wife AS Husband Marriage Falling Apart |
| LostAlien |
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Posted: 20 Nov 2011, 4:12 pm
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Replies: 20
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| I'm not sure if this is totally to do with AS/NT issues. It is possible that he really doesn't understand that your emotional needs need to be met for you to be able to enjoy sex (or even to have sex at all), it may be that you've explained this time and time again but he doesn't get it because of h... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: One woman & two men? |
| LostAlien |
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Posted: 20 Nov 2011, 3:50 pm
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Replies: 52
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| I am not talking about someone that sleeps around and has random threesomes. I am talking about a forever type of relationship. Is there such a thing? In any relationship? Realistically? I'd say it's possible but I am fairly sure that it wouldn't work for me. I'm a one person kind of person but I a... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: One woman & two men? |
| LostAlien |
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Posted: 20 Nov 2011, 9:41 am
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| It sounds nice if you can make sure that everyone is ok with it. I know I wouldn't be able to be in such a relationship because I wouldn't feel good in one. A thing that I think would help it to work would be being able to be totally honest, some people lie about being ok with this kind of thing jus... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I think I was nearly raped. |
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Posted: 17 Nov 2011, 5:59 pm
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Replies: 34
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| Regardless of the age of those who did this to you, I can only imagine how traumatic this was for you. I don't know what ages sophomores and seniors are but no means no regardless of gender or age. (Backing away is a fairly clear no in my opinion.) I hope you can have what you need done for you to f... |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: Help! MSF or PhD? |
| LostAlien |
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Posted: 14 Nov 2011, 4:22 pm
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Replies: 5
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| I'm curious, would you be able to teach geography with your current qualifications? Interested and interesting teachers can be difficult to come by sometimes. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Hardest Break-Up... Please help. |
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Posted: 14 Nov 2011, 4:11 pm
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Replies: 40
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| mooniestar, I'm with what everyone has said here. I was in a mentally abusive relationship too, I can see a lot of similarities to what I went through in what you wrote. The only difference with me was due to my being physically stronger than my awful ex, he didn't become physically abusive (the onl... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: So angry at the moment |
| LostAlien |
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Posted: 14 Nov 2011, 3:48 pm
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Replies: 8
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| Forget about that client. Let your mother look like a fool so that she knows better next time. Thank you for your time to post FireMinstrel, I appreciate it. In truth though, it would be my reputation damaged by doing that and this woman (the client) talks a lot, that was part of why I got so angry... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: So angry at the moment |
| LostAlien |
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Posted: 12 Nov 2011, 3:45 pm
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Replies: 8
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