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Forum: The Haven Topic: i'm angry at someone and i need to get over it but how? |
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Posted: 15 Aug 2009, 7:43 am
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Replies: 3
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| That's the thing. You have Aspergers. You can't "get over" things. They stay in your amygdala. Since primary school I have been told to "let it go" etc. I have tried all manner of teachers, career advisors, government counsellors, Salvation army counsellors, Lifeline, uni counsellors, tried to find ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Depression |
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Posted: 15 Aug 2009, 7:35 am
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Replies: 138
Views: 13,001
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| That's the thing - can you really "choose"? How do you "choose" to have your life not defined by others?? When you meet someone who has not heard of Aspergers before, and you say you have trouble forming relationships, keeping a job etc and they just tell you "well you cen CHOOSE to talk to that per... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Depression |
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Posted: 14 Aug 2009, 11:38 pm
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Replies: 138
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| Well I will be banned from this web site soon if you want my email let me know in PM and you might see again Hi, Mosto. I'm glad that you were able to talk with your brother and that you're feeling less angry today. Does he doubt that you have Asperger's, or doesn't he think that Asperger's is a rea... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I want to kill myself because I am an aspie |
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Posted: 14 Aug 2009, 7:22 am
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Replies: 63
Views: 12,107
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| So, when I say to myself each Friday, I'm going to go to work tomorrow , I'm really going to make sure I do it this time, make myself do it, etc, and I wake up while it's dark and freezing and I am tired, get in my car, travel 50km to work, prepare my desk, the when I am to start, freeze up, can't s... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I want to kill myself because I am an aspie |
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Posted: 14 Aug 2009, 4:00 am
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Replies: 63
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| That's what everyone keeps telling me Morbidmiss. "You can choose to dwell on it, or you can choose to move on. " That's bullcrap. How the hell do you "move on"?? How do you get rid of these thoughts? It cannot consciously be done. I also would like to kill myself because I have Aspergers. But I spe... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Depression |
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Posted: 13 Aug 2009, 6:29 pm
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Replies: 138
Views: 13,001
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| I am not so angry this morning. I talked to him last night. I said he has had opportunities to acknowledge but didn't, and things like he makes out like my Aspergers isn't "real" and that times when I am aggressive or emotional I am still putting it on, and Aspergers is just an excuse. He listened b... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Depression |
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Posted: 12 Aug 2009, 12:13 am
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Replies: 138
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| Having read my last post I should also add: that my mum and brother always blame Aspergers for my "irrational" anger against them, people at church etc. Do other people with Aspergers experience this? That they clearly have been treated like crap repeatedly, and when they react with anger, they are ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Depression |
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Posted: 12 Aug 2009, 12:07 am
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Replies: 138
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| My mum loves me. She also thinks my brother did nothing wrong. Sometimes love isn't enough. No wonder I want to die. I made another appointment with a different psychiatrist in September now. So a bit earlier. But still. I can't handle being at church any more. I messaged my brother if he realised h... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Gotta be more to life than this...~Just need to type~ |
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Posted: 11 Aug 2009, 12:51 am
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Replies: 7
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| There is no option: "No, and I'm screwed permenantly I have Aspergers " |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Depression |
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Posted: 11 Aug 2009, 12:50 am
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Replies: 138
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| My mum is recently stressing over me a lot, stressing about everything else too, the psychologist told my mum I am a suicide risk (I did not even authorise her to contact my mum, I am over 18 and that is against patient confidentiality). So my mum woke me up and told me please do this... showed me t... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I'm having a hard time with life? ! !! pls help! |
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Posted: 10 Aug 2009, 7:43 pm
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Replies: 41
Views: 4,192
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Do Nothing or Something? |
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Posted: 10 Aug 2009, 7:42 pm
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Replies: 4
Views: 1,136
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| I have the same problem, my brother always b*****s about how I am lazy and just "bunging it on". I hope he dies soon |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Do you know who you are? |
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Posted: 10 Aug 2009, 7:24 pm
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Replies: 19
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| Yeah, I go to a church. Don't know why sometimes. I had atheist parents. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Quiet Types |
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Posted: 10 Aug 2009, 7:22 pm
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Replies: 3
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| For example, a female friend I was talking to online just then says "brb" , then 45 mins later goes offline |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: angry |
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Posted: 10 Aug 2009, 7:19 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 2,091
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| I always hated it when my ex used to ring her ex all the time. Hated it. Asking all lines be cut is not unreasonable |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie man dating NT woman: advice? |
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Posted: 10 Aug 2009, 4:45 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 4,969
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| How can you have "numerous" relationships with women? Having Aspergers? I wish I knew I would get stuck in |
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