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Forum: The Haven Topic: Suicide |
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Posted: 23 Sep 2009, 12:25 pm
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Replies: 47
Views: 5,937
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| I've spent a good portion of my life thinking about it and have a plan for the future. What's stopped me in the past is a lack of a quick, easy, painless method as handguns are not easily available in this country. I have some sharp knives in the kitchen and I know where the arteries are but my god ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Loving yourself. |
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Posted: 23 Sep 2009, 11:52 am
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Replies: 22
Views: 2,123
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| The last line there is great advice. The rest is words you put between yourself and the good advice. It also shows you didn't read the article and are at best attacking the thread title. No. It is diabolically awful advice, coming from a clueless idiot. 8O Here, in contrast, is some really good adv... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: People giving disorders bad definitions.... |
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Posted: 23 Sep 2009, 10:52 am
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Replies: 22
Views: 2,516
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| I think I have an idea of what you're talking about and all I can say is it's the folly of youth. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Loving yourself. |
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Posted: 23 Sep 2009, 10:30 am
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Replies: 22
Views: 2,123
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| Affirmations have always made me feel like crap. They've done research into that http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/8132857.stm Turns out people with low self-esteem don't take well to affirmations, I'd go further and say people with a working brain wont take well to them. It's not even what the OP ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: How old were you when you lost your virginity? |
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Posted: 23 Sep 2009, 9:39 am
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Replies: 485
Views: 17,721
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 ok Tim thanks for that. I was an instant expert too, I think it's all the porn lol
I was 24 and was pretty much jumped on thankfully, would have been a lot earlier if I'd had half a clue what was going on. It is and it isn't a big deal, nothing changes but it opens up new horizons. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: do you find autistic girls attractive? |
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Posted: 23 Sep 2009, 9:14 am
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Replies: 492
Views: 102,306
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hale_bopp wrote: bdhkhsfgk wrote: wank banks.
lol quality phrase never used enough. No iv'e no autistic girls in the wank bank, yet.
There are difinitely find autistic people attractive and for different reasons too not just looks. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Negative social behaviors from attempting to be normal? |
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Posted: 23 Sep 2009, 8:58 am
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Replies: 22
Views: 3,527
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| I would ask myself "Do they talk about this subject? If they do, will my information offend them?" I think you're asking the wrong questions. In a converation that's already ongoing I've found it's not a good idea to introduce new subjects, rather than 'do they talk about this?' maybe ask 'do I kno... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: ack internet anxiety |
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Posted: 23 Sep 2009, 7:37 am
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,447
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| I'm the same but try not to worry too much about it. There's without doubt a massive discrepancy between what's inside my head and what I manage to squeeze out but I presume a lot of folk here have the same problem. The people here who never give others here a break and jump on every percieved mista... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: Introduction to the psychopathic life |
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Posted: 22 Sep 2009, 10:09 pm
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Replies: 87
Views: 10,441
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| The laughing smiley was meant sarcastically btw Not that I'd turn anyone away but don't forget where you are. What's that supposed to mean? If you're trying to imply that I'm not neuro-diverse enough to be here I'll have to ask the obvious question - why in the name of f**k would I be here if I were... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: Introduction to the psychopathic life |
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Posted: 22 Sep 2009, 10:04 pm
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Replies: 87
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skafather84 wrote: Sanity is determined by consensus. It's something you'd best remember.
Fine thing to say on a board for social outcasts
and people wonder why noone wants to 'debate' in ppr  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: self-esteem |
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Posted: 22 Sep 2009, 9:30 pm
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Replies: 54
Views: 9,140
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| Sounds like you're accepting reality Bataar, if you'd said something about how the reality of your situation was only negative and there was nothing you or anyone else could do about it then it could be said you had low self esteem. |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Quietly passed 6000 posts.... |
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Posted: 22 Sep 2009, 9:05 pm
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Replies: 20
Views: 2,227
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you never know what with the current troll hysteria and all, best keep our heads down  |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Quietly passed 6000 posts.... |
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Posted: 22 Sep 2009, 8:30 pm
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Replies: 20
Views: 2,227
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Happy 6000!! We should have a party  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How does someone with Asperger's ask a girl out? |
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Posted: 22 Sep 2009, 8:18 pm
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Replies: 30
Views: 4,211
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| I don't want (and can't handle) "dates" where the sole objective is endless conversation. I just said 'dates' to cover the most ground, I've never been on one I've always met people while out with friends though I don't go out with the intention of getting girls just for a laugh and get drunk. I kn... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: self-esteem |
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Posted: 22 Sep 2009, 5:57 pm
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Replies: 54
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| Exactly. My problem is that, whenever I think anything even remotely positive about myself (like "wow, what I just did was funny" or "this looks really cute on me") I feel conceited and not good about it. YES. :? And do you think NTs give that kind of thing a second thought? Hardly. :lol: of course... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How does someone with Asperger's ask a girl out? |
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Posted: 22 Sep 2009, 5:25 pm
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Replies: 30
Views: 4,211
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| Yeah that would be helpful, except women are never interested in me... what now? Be more interesting. Be more aware. Thing is, jackets are inanaimate objects, and they're often designed now to wear out after a certain amount of time so that you wind up spending money on a new one... Women, on the o... |
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