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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: What Happened Here? |
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Posted: 20 May 2010, 5:24 pm
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Agreed.
Some folks simply focus on others to pick on when they're in a bad mood.
Although the advice seems cliche, it's quite true: By denying them a reaction, you deny them the satisfaction. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Flirting boundaries |
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Posted: 20 May 2010, 6:58 am
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Replies: 25
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| Yeah, well, one thing to consider: You now decisively know to consider three critical items that I didn't know until I was about 25, so you're doing better than I did. Now, at 28, I have some success. So from that perspective, you're doin alright, and have a lot to look forward to if you keep at it.... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Flirting boundaries |
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Posted: 20 May 2010, 3:52 am
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Replies: 25
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| Agreed on much of that... glad you've ditched the neg... But the problem here, I think, is that a lot of guys don't know when/how to touch, for instance. Or when to hold prolonged eye contact. How to play off putting your hand on a girls shoulder, for instance. Some of the ladies around here will st... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A circle of superficiality (a good, thought provoking post) |
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Posted: 20 May 2010, 1:38 am
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Replies: 28
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| Then, in a manner, I misunderstood. I had wrongly interpreted your post as dismissal of so much of what's been posted 'round here. I won't argue that gender roles are good stuff that need to be reinforced; Rather, I believe they oughta be torn down with sledgehammers. And clearly, most of the people... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Flirting boundaries |
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Posted: 20 May 2010, 1:11 am
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Replies: 25
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The top one, isn't it obvious?
JEEZE... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Flirting boundaries |
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Posted: 19 May 2010, 8:04 pm
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Replies: 25
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| Dang. That's a pretty hot dude, besides the douchey hair. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Flirting boundaries |
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Posted: 19 May 2010, 7:26 pm
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| Bare in mind that creepy isn't defined by actions, it's defined by perception. So in order for that hug to be creepy, she needs to feel it's uncomfortable and creepy, whereas it's okay and not a creepy action with someone who doesn't see anything wrong with receiving such a hug. So one of the things... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Some general advice and common sense |
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Posted: 19 May 2010, 6:07 pm
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| There has been fruit from this behavior since the friendships have develop to close and good friendships (I know one of female for less than a year and the another for 3 1/2 years). The key word is time since time does have a role developing friendships and even relationships. The last bit is a fla... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A circle of superficiality (a good, thought provoking post) |
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Posted: 19 May 2010, 5:46 pm
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Replies: 28
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ToadOfSteel wrote: Well, I'm available... but like Bill said, I don't think you'd like me... If you're gonna make an attempt, it helps to not disqualify yourself with your first words, dude. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Some general advice and common sense |
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Posted: 19 May 2010, 9:40 am
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| [....]I been recommend to take my time and take it easy so you don't scary them. I am currently doing this since the friendship is more important than developing the relationship which is common sense. [....] Love and relationships take time to grow and develop. I have two females both whom are goo... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How not to come across as creepy. |
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Posted: 19 May 2010, 9:22 am
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Replies: 211
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LOL good observation!
Certainly there's exceptions... I recall, many years ago, when I was creepy about keeping a relationship.... But nonetheless the stereotype kinda rings true in my experience. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A circle of superficiality (a good, thought provoking post) |
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Posted: 19 May 2010, 9:18 am
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| I also get a little annoyed when people insist upon things like "guys like these things" and "girls like those things", or "guys are like this" and "girls are like that".... ^^; ... Maybe I just dislike gender-generalizations 'cause I'm such a complete freak of nature in that department. xP An unde... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: First Kiss |
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Posted: 18 May 2010, 9:15 pm
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Replies: 79
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| Quick, simple, but magical. Took me a minute to realize it happened. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Interactions with blacks |
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Posted: 18 May 2010, 4:47 pm
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Replies: 98
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Why in the world would you bump this after 3 years of being a dead topic?
This thread is dead. It does not need responses. It's best left alone. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating Help Needed |
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Posted: 17 May 2010, 11:39 pm
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Replies: 6
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First off, how old are ya? Relative age tends to shift the landscape around, somewhat.
Also, have you lurked around this sub-forum a bit? There's certainly quite a lot that's already been said, curious if you've read some of it.
Rock on with the D&D btw.  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: "You just gotta get yourself out there" |
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Posted: 17 May 2010, 11:05 pm
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Replies: 61
Views: 6,628
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| Heh, taskified. I like that word. Very... practical. |
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