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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Girls or boys: Who REALLY matures faster? |
| redvelvet |
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Posted: 10 Oct 2006, 9:05 am
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Replies: 28
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| I voted girls mature faster then boys, then I got to thinking about girls and boys/ young women/ men who have Aspergers or on the AS, where do they come into this, the spectrum is so varied even if we could catagerise some, where would this maturing be. Lets say we have a young woman who has Asperge... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: what type of sex do you prefer? |
| redvelvet |
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Posted: 10 Oct 2006, 8:39 am
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Replies: 56
Views: 1,487
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| Im married to an Aspie man with sensory issues as in he doesn't like to be touched sometimes and he doesn't always enjoy touching. This depends on his mood. I would like to experience the sex shown on telly where his hands caress all the body and there is kissing. mine is stop and start all the way ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Am I dating an Aspie? |
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Posted: 10 Oct 2006, 8:15 am
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Replies: 15
Views: 2,662
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| Your complaining that she only talks about a few subjects and one being sex, I sit here confused, this is my favourite subject, and most guys would like to talk about this as much as possible. But with most guys it is usually with whom, when and how often. seriously though she sounds great, get to k... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie needs advice on finding someone |
| redvelvet |
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Posted: 10 Oct 2006, 8:00 am
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Replies: 15
Views: 3,107
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| My aspie husband isn't to high on hygiene, he showers every day because I insist on it, but I also have to make sure that he is wearing clean clothes as well because he won't think about putting clean clothes on except his undies. he will quite happily wear the same shirt and trousers that he wore t... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: fire starter |
| redvelvet |
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Posted: 10 Oct 2006, 6:54 am
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,530
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| My kids never wanted to play outside with other kids, they thought the other kids were stupid. maybe you could get together with the other mothers and arrange supervised activites for the kids. Another issue comes up, how easy is it to manipulate your child into doing things, does he question what h... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Do you let your kids line stuff up? |
| redvelvet |
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Posted: 10 Oct 2006, 6:32 am
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Replies: 42
Views: 5,694
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| When our daughter was small she didn't play like other little girls, she would line up her dinosaurs, her rubber zoo animals and her polly pockets, when she got a new one she would line the others up and introduce the new one to all the others, then put them all away. When we came home from shopping... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Do you let your kids line stuff up? |
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Posted: 10 Oct 2006, 6:17 am
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Replies: 42
Views: 5,694
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| Altaynia, get a book called A Users guide to the GF/CF diet for Autisim, Aspergers syndrome and AD/HD, by Luke Jackson. Luke Jackson is a young man with Aspergers and his brothers are all on the spectrum, his youngest has ADHD and probably on the spectrum too. Luke's mum put them all on a wheat/glut... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: How do you manage to keep your marriage together? |
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Posted: 10 Oct 2006, 5:44 am
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Replies: 17
Views: 2,546
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| Truth is a good thing to have and can save time and misunderstandings, in new and old relationships. Our daughter and son will soon be dx with as we believe with Aspergers. Our daughters boyfriend has a stepfather who hasn't been told about his Aspergers and that made for some misunderstandings, and... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Advice about giving blowjobs |
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Posted: 03 Sep 2006, 7:33 am
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Replies: 223
Views: 6,010
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| The giver has to be comfortable doing the BJ, and shouldn't feel obliged to do it. I can testify to the no teeth on on a circumcised man, well my husband doesn't like teeth anyway. I love giving in this regard it's just a shame that he feels the same as Veresae so it's ok me doing it to him but he w... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Gay Sex |
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Posted: 03 Sep 2006, 6:57 am
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Replies: 39
Views: 1,077
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| I went through a couple of months wondering what it would be like, but no Im not inclined to find out. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: my 1st tattoo! (pics included) |
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Posted: 03 Sep 2006, 6:50 am
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Replies: 12
Views: 437
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| I always wanted a butterfly on my ankle but I wouldn't get it done. There is man who lives in our town who has his whole face tatood and I often think what he is going to think about it when he is older an old man, will he still think it looks cool? I don't think so. And when his children have kids ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Masturbation - your thoughts on it? |
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Posted: 03 Sep 2006, 6:37 am
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Views: 8,383
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| I will edit my previous post but you only get an alloted time to do this and mine has run out. Even where sex is available masturbaton can be great if the sex your getting isn't enough to relieve the stress. The thing is sex is soposed to be for loving partners preferable married together in my own ... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: How do I make my wife feel special? |
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Posted: 03 Sep 2006, 6:15 am
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Replies: 14
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| I think you're trying to hard she probably just wants you to lighten up, flowers from the garden, chocolate baths etc could be just to much for her. A quite evening at home once the kids are in bed, a romantic meal and making love by the fire occasionally could make her feel loved, and not her makin... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: going to the toilet the aspie way. |
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Posted: 03 Sep 2006, 5:59 am
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Replies: 29
Views: 2,832
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| I used to get stage fright when I was younger. Now I don't care, it's a natural thing to pee and #2 so I don't mind now. I usually think of something I need to do afterwards and hurry up so I can get done washed up and out. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: autism disovered in old age |
| redvelvet |
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Posted: 03 Sep 2006, 5:49 am
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Replies: 92
Views: 8,595
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| When we learnt about Aspergers just before last Christmas I to thought "Aha that explains a lot especially my husband." He would be talking with friends and the amount of times I would have to go and rescue them because H didn't realize that they wanted to go, or they were lost in his talk, because ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Refridgerator Mothers ???? |
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Posted: 03 Sep 2006, 5:31 am
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Replies: 25
Views: 3,360
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| When my son was tiny he would stare at my face and I had to turn away. When he turned two he wouldn't give me eye contact and hasn't done since. I could never hold his hand because he hated that so to cross the road I had to hold his wrist. My daughter never liked me just to hug her without permissi... |
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