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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is there any room in this world 4 an asexual? |
| Icewolf |
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Posted: 08 Dec 2009, 1:58 pm
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Replies: 28
Views: 3,227
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| There's a clear difference between actually being asexual and giving up. I see far too many members of this forum and even some neurotypicals who reach a certain age and make the choice to just resign themselves to being alone and sexless in a bout of self-pity. These people aren't asexual; they're ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: An example of dissociative thinking |
| Icewolf |
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Posted: 06 Dec 2009, 1:36 am
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Replies: 8
Views: 5,071
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I think for the most part people are lying to themselves when they think that physical appearance isn't important or the biggest decider in an effective, long-term relationship.
To take the edge off my statement, attraction is still a largely subjective thing. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What would you say is your main barrier in relationships? |
| Icewolf |
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Posted: 04 Dec 2009, 11:39 am
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Replies: 72
Views: 8,314
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| Complete and total lack of natural sex appeal. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Just never even had the chance... |
| Icewolf |
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Posted: 30 Nov 2009, 7:37 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 2,652
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| Barring that you're obese so, you think fat girls wouldn't like some smiles and friendliness? I am not talking about preditors that stalk women with poor body image, I am talking about people that don't care if the other person is obese, whether they are or not. Telling people if they are obese the... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Tell me what sucks about you and I'll work w/ you to fix it |
| Icewolf |
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Posted: 28 Nov 2009, 9:32 pm
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Replies: 129
Views: 11,246
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| I remain insecure about my looks and sex appeal...specifically my face. I am a freshman in college, but largely went through high school with little to no attention from girls and didn't even get a girlfriend until this September. http://i379.photobucket.com/albums/oo233/mini0991/100_1713.jpg http:... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Tell me what sucks about you and I'll work w/ you to fix it |
| Icewolf |
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Posted: 28 Nov 2009, 4:50 pm
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Replies: 129
Views: 11,246
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| I remain insecure about my looks and sex appeal...specifically my face. I am a freshman in college, but largely went through high school with little to no attention from girls and didn't even get a girlfriend until this September. http://i379.photobucket.com/albums/oo233/mini0991/100_1713.jpg http:... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Tell me what sucks about you and I'll work w/ you to fix it |
| Icewolf |
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Posted: 26 Nov 2009, 11:02 pm
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Replies: 129
Views: 11,246
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| Largely, my insecurities happened because of the lack of attention I got from girls in high school. I understand it's VERY faulty reasoning, but I basically thought that being a virgin at eighteen meant I wasn't good enough to elicit attraction from anyone. Basically a "it's not happening now, so wi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Tell me what sucks about you and I'll work w/ you to fix it |
| Icewolf |
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Posted: 26 Nov 2009, 9:38 pm
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Replies: 129
Views: 11,246
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| I remain insecure about my looks and sex appeal...specifically my face. I am a freshman in college, but largely went through high school with little to no attention from girls and didn't even get a girlfriend until this September. http://i379.photobucket.com/albums/oo233/mini0991/100_1713.jpg http:/... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Issues with "I love you" |
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Posted: 26 Nov 2009, 9:14 pm
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Replies: 21
Views: 2,577
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| I am NT, but have a stickling point for saying "I love you" to someone. In relationships, I often hesitate to say it early on, until way into the relationship...because way too many people toss the term around like it's nothing. I wouldn't tell someone I loved them until I was absolutely sure I was ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do not quit. |
| Icewolf |
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Posted: 23 Nov 2009, 5:56 pm
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Replies: 31
Views: 4,804
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| You might be interested to know that I've had many structured plans on finding dates, trying to appear attractive, and being careful not to offend at the same time. None of these have worked to any significant degree. A typical reaction from many people when I tell them about these plans is that I ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do not quit. |
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Posted: 21 Nov 2009, 5:07 pm
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Replies: 31
Views: 4,804
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| Last year I was eighteen and was coming out of an extremely difficult high school social experience. I went through many thoughts, one predominantly being "due to the complete lack of interest I've gotten from any girl, I must not be relationship material." One month before high school, that stateme... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dysfunction of Attraction: A condition in and of itself? |
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Posted: 19 Nov 2009, 11:49 pm
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Replies: 2
Views: 1,192
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| Let alone not having children. This condition is a condition simply because it can fit the criteria of any medical condition: it interferes with somebody's way of life, and, if not cured, could be largely treated with a structured plan. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: rejection and obsession |
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Posted: 19 Nov 2009, 12:12 am
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Replies: 13
Views: 6,068
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| People who fear rejection in relationships typically tend to replay the scenario over and over and over again in their mind while they attempt to figure out what they can do so that it doesn't happen their next attempt. But the reality is, people are selective. For both you and them, there is a spec... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dysfunction of Attraction: A condition in and of itself? |
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Posted: 18 Nov 2009, 11:58 pm
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Replies: 2
Views: 1,192
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| Dating and relationships. For most, they come naturally and effortlessly; some go their entire lives with little rejection at all. But for some, the task proves to be a daunting one. No matter what they attempt to do, they can't get somebody to feel attracted to them. And for the majority of that gr... |
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