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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Do any aspie gals here ENJOY dressing up/makeup? |
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Posted: 27 Jun 2013, 9:26 pm
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Replies: 107
Views: 58,449
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| Yes, I do. I am a designer by profession and went to graduate school for history of costume and fashion. It's a way that I like to express myself. |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: What's your coming out story? |
| happymusic |
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Posted: 23 Jun 2013, 9:47 pm
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Replies: 26
Views: 13,743
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Thank you, the_grand_autismo!! I was scared, but she was so kind and people have been so encouraging this weekend that it makes me feel good. Thanks again!  |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: What's your coming out story? |
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Posted: 22 Jun 2013, 10:01 pm
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Replies: 26
Views: 13,743
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| Kittylover, what a difficult time you've had. Thank you for sharing. Murihiku, it's so great your family is so accepting. Thank you for your story, too. I should update my story, too. Today I finally came out to my mother. She was so kind and accepting and told me she would always love me no matter ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Autism and Female Ejaculation(Squirting) |
| happymusic |
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Posted: 14 Jun 2013, 9:16 pm
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Replies: 24
Views: 798
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| Yeah I can do this but it's not necessarily connected to an orgasm. It's its own thing and is utterly delightful. |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: What's your coming out story? |
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Posted: 14 Jun 2013, 5:41 am
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Replies: 26
Views: 13,743
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: What's your coming out story? |
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Posted: 12 Jun 2013, 9:37 pm
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Replies: 26
Views: 13,743
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| Thanks everyone for your replies. I guess I should share, too, that I used to be out but after being bashed a lot and losing my long time girlfriend I just stopped saying anything about it. Being very femme and married to a man I'm one of the invisible bisexuals. I've realized how important it is fo... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: What's your coming out story? |
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Posted: 10 Jun 2013, 8:51 pm
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Replies: 26
Views: 13,743
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| I am considering coming out to my family as bi. I have known since I was a teenager that I was bi but since I married a man (and my family didn't ever seem to notice that my girlfriend was my Girlfriend and not just a friend), it was a part of me that has been invisible to my family. Generally, I'm ... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Confused about my sexuality. Please help me |
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Posted: 10 Jun 2013, 8:32 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 2,500
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| Previous posters have had some really great things to say and I agree with most of it. I would add a couple of things though. One, you don't have to have sex with anyone to determine if you're bi or not. One's sexuality is not predicated on whether or not one has had sex with others (just think of a... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Age difference |
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Posted: 27 May 2013, 9:06 pm
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Replies: 29
Views: 4,178
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| It sounds fun - I'd just enjoy it. I know someone who is about 20 years older than her boyfriend and it makes no difference. Whatever works. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Kissing is gross |
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Posted: 25 May 2013, 8:30 pm
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Replies: 50
Views: 766
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| I voted gross because I don't really want someone in my face where I can smell their breath. Sometimes (very rarely), I'd like to feel someone's lips with mine but it would be intensely intimate and erotic. Generally though I am grossed out by someone that much in my space. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I like a woman who's five years older and married |
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Posted: 23 May 2013, 8:52 pm
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Replies: 13
Views: 2,376
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| Five years seems like a lot when you're 19 but if you think about it, most women outlive their husbands by far longer than that. Chemistry is chemistry and I don't think much of age differences or marriage stuff. On the marriage stuff most people do feel strongly about that so you might want to keep... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Managing or ending a crush - strategy |
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Posted: 23 May 2013, 8:46 pm
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Replies: 13
Views: 2,993
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| If you've got feelings for a girl, and she's available and you're available, you should act on them within two weeks. One month at the absolute most. By "act" I do not mean you go and make a dramatic confession, you just invite her out somewhere, just you and her. If she politely declines, or if sh... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Any female Aspies decided that motherhood is not for them? |
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Posted: 23 May 2013, 7:57 pm
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Replies: 110
Views: 72,134
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| I was thinking more about this thread and thought about how in my family on both sides we have a history of mothers abandoning their children for three generations. I used to think that was terrible until I had a child. Now, sadly, I understand. Like I said earlier, to whoever might read my posts, ... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Makeup and Why it Bothers Me |
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Posted: 23 May 2013, 7:49 pm
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Replies: 32
Views: 4,864
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| Whether or not you wear it is up to you. I work with people who do and people who don't and it's not a big deal either way. I did notice when I lived in ny though that women from there tend to wear way less than women from other parts of the country. I remember being able to spot tourists from a mil... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Any female Aspies decided that motherhood is not for them? |
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Posted: 22 May 2013, 9:57 pm
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Replies: 110
Views: 72,134
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| I was thinking more about this thread and thought about how in my family on both sides we have a history of mothers abandoning their children for three generations. I used to think that was terrible until I had a child. Now, sadly, I understand. Like I said earlier, to whoever might read my posts, i... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Aspie Women and Reading |
| happymusic |
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Posted: 21 May 2013, 9:29 pm
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Replies: 113
Views: 62,231
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| I love reading but it's very difficult for me and I'm very slow. I really like audio books and listened to the Harry Potter series about 4 times through. Otherwise I prefer books on art and programming. Not really into fiction. |
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