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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Anyone Else Get Upset When Kids Run All Over Their Yard? |
| spacecadetdave |
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Posted: 22 Mar 2011, 12:01 pm
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Replies: 46
Views: 26,310
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| Seriously...... you've got to chill out. Unless they're breaking stuff then what is your problem? They're just kids. Can you still remember being one yourself? Kids are free spirits. You should be OK with that. |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Death in family. What to do? |
| spacecadetdave |
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Posted: 11 Dec 2010, 2:12 pm
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Replies: 13
Views: 2,564
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| Dear_one, sorry for the delay in replying. Things went alright. Everyone was on their best behaviour given the circumstances. I spent most of the time cleaning out my brother's flat. As time passes, my relatives are reverting to their usual form :roll: . Thankfully, I live thousands of kilometres a... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Death in family. What to do? |
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Posted: 11 Dec 2010, 10:26 am
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Replies: 13
Views: 2,564
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| ...I recognise that even if their parenting skills were problematic, they generally meant well.. I think that sums up everyones parents. Probably sums up those of us with kids too. There isn't a "parent" gene. You have a few minutes "heaven" and then spend the next 20 years muddling through the bes... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Feeling angry and unforgiving towards my parents |
| spacecadetdave |
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Posted: 08 Dec 2010, 10:57 am
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Replies: 24
Views: 11,518
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| I'm not harming your well being. I'm asking that you move the subject somewhere else. Accusing people of being spoilt when they're making it very clear that they're not spoilt, and directing anger at them for talking through it, is certainly harmful as it constitutes bullying. If you want the topic... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Feeling angry and unforgiving towards my parents |
| spacecadetdave |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2010, 12:13 pm
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Replies: 24
Views: 11,518
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| I'm not harming your well being. I'm asking that you move the subject somewhere else. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: I'm stuck in my head! |
| spacecadetdave |
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Posted: 05 Dec 2010, 6:10 am
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Replies: 17
Views: 7,967
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| I live in my own world which is all in my head. The problem with this is that I don't get anything done. I have many ideas and resources but I can't get out of my head and realize them! I'm not sure how to explain it. I'm stuck somehow, paralyzed. It's like I don't exist outside of my thoughts.Or i... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Feeling angry and unforgiving towards my parents |
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Posted: 04 Dec 2010, 11:46 am
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Replies: 24
Views: 11,518
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| I never understood favoritism, it's a way to make a child have low self esteem and have the inferior complex. My parents never did this. They treated us all the same. I hope to be like your parents! You're mothers forced your boney heads through their pelvic girdles without complaint and your Dads ... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Feeling angry and unforgiving towards my parents |
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Posted: 04 Dec 2010, 11:44 am
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Replies: 24
Views: 11,518
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| You're mothers forced your boney heads through their pelvic girdles without complaint and your Dads did soul destroying jobs to feed you all and all you do is complain and whine about them? Get over yourselves. Nobody should have kids unless they're ready to accept ALL of the responsibilities invol... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Feeling angry and unforgiving towards my parents |
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Posted: 04 Dec 2010, 11:26 am
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Replies: 24
Views: 11,518
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| You're mothers forced your boney heads through their pelvic girdles without complaint and your Dads did soul destroying jobs to feed you all and all you do is complain and whine about them? What do you know about my father's job? Maybe projecting a little? Sorry..... Missed the obvious trick... sho... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Feeling angry and unforgiving towards my parents |
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Posted: 04 Dec 2010, 11:25 am
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Replies: 24
Views: 11,518
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| You're mothers forced your boney heads through their pelvic girdles without complaint and your Dads did soul destroying jobs to feed you all and all you do is complain and whine about them? What do you know about my father's job? Maybe projecting a little? Not projecting at all. I'm not one of the ... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Feeling angry and unforgiving towards my parents |
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Posted: 02 Dec 2010, 4:50 pm
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Replies: 24
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You're mothers forced your boney heads through their pelvic girdles without complaint and your Dads did soul destroying jobs to feed you all and all you do is complain and whine about them?
Get over yourselves. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Space Cadet - the term means? |
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Posted: 20 Nov 2010, 1:01 pm
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Replies: 23
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pgd wrote: What does the term - space cadet - mean?
It means me dude.....
It's the name I've carried with me for the last 30 years. So I suppose everyone knew there was something "odd" about me even back then. |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Frustrated with the wife, don't know what to do. |
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Posted: 23 Oct 2010, 4:28 pm
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Replies: 8
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| My wife has several times made decisions about my stuff without consulting me. She's deleted phone messages, deleted the contents of my USB key containing several classes's worth of notes, but what she has done now has me more frustrated than I can express. She has her own mental health issues, and... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Looking for advise |
| spacecadetdave |
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Posted: 18 Oct 2010, 4:48 am
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Replies: 18
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snipes128 wrote: You don't speak for aspies, nor autistics in general.
Thankfully, neither do you. You do, however, represent a***holes quite effectively. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Looking for advise |
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Posted: 18 Oct 2010, 4:45 am
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Replies: 18
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| Firsty, spacecadetdave, stop apologizing for snipes128 - the attitude displayed by the OP deserves to be chastised, its discriminatory and prejudicial. . the "OP" is a worried parent of a young child. If I saw/heard someone reacting to a woman in the street like that then I would send that person h... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Looking for advise |
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Posted: 17 Oct 2010, 2:20 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 1,916
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| Firsty, spacecadetdave, stop apologizing for snipes128 - the attitude displayed by the OP deserves to be chastised, its discriminatory and prejudicial. . the "OP" is a worried parent of a young child. If I saw/heard someone reacting to a woman in the street like that then I would send that person h... |
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