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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Impulsivity and Sabotaging |
| jdcnosse |
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Posted: 14 May 2020, 8:51 pm
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that1weirdgrrrl wrote: What do your days usually look like? What do you spend your time doing?
Getting a job is very difficult for everyone right now, so don't be too hard on yourself.
Well before all of this happened I worked in the morning and then I spent the rest of the day with her hanging out, running errands, etc |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: scale of -10 to +10, how do you feel right now? |
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Posted: 14 May 2020, 4:16 pm
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| 2. I have no motivation to do anything given my recent events. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do you miss someone right now? |
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Posted: 14 May 2020, 4:14 pm
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| Yes and I'm not sure what I can do to move on. My girlfriend of nearly 10 years has called it quits, because I keep acting out and hurting her (emotionally) unintentionally. So now she says that she can't trust me and therefore can't be with me. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Impulsivity and Sabotaging |
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Posted: 14 May 2020, 4:07 pm
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| I'm not sure if this is an Aspie thing or not, but I keep Sabotaging my relationship by acting out impulsively and not thinking which ends up hurting my significant other which then in turn hurts me. It's just right now I feel worthless because my girlfriend of almost ten years doesn't want me anymo... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: male dominance in the bedroom |
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Posted: 18 Jun 2011, 6:59 pm
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Replies: 10
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| no not entirely. In fact since I haven't seen her in roughly two months, they're quite dominant right now. however I'd say it's something like 60% submissive and 40% dominant |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: male dominance in the bedroom |
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Posted: 18 Jun 2011, 12:37 pm
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| We've already discussed what's "too far" in her book, and that is anything that is more than light bondage (restraints, light biting, etc) so I have no problem with knowing what she wants and doesn't want. To be more precise she wants me to take control of the situation. I wouldn't say I'm submissiv... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: male dominance in the bedroom |
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Posted: 18 Jun 2011, 12:09 am
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| It's not really what I do on my own initiative, but if that's what she wants then I just do it - not a big deal, just have fun! Well I guess the problem was last time that I misread her, and that when she was "resisting" it was a playful resist, as such she wanted me to take control. I don't really... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: male dominance in the bedroom |
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Posted: 17 Jun 2011, 11:51 pm
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| So, a little background on me, I'm 22, I've been with 6 people since I was 19. I've always been a little more submissive/polite but I'm attempting to change that as it's not as effective a turn on as being dominant. My current girlfriend I've been with for 3 months, but it's a long distance relation... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do other people say you notice more detail than others? |
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Posted: 20 Mar 2011, 11:48 pm
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Replies: 39
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I guess I see it as a pattern? Like most people act a certain way, and they have specific mannerisms.
It came in handy when one of my girlfriend's friends started texting me using her phone...I immediately knew it wasn't my girlfriend as the person's mannerisms/speech were different. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do other people say you notice more detail than others? |
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Posted: 20 Mar 2011, 11:35 pm
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| I don't tend to miss the obvious...but people do comment on my ability to understand what they're thinking (sometimes when you have to learn everyone's non-verbal body cues...you end up noticing them better then NTs do) |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do other people say you notice more detail than others? |
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Posted: 20 Mar 2011, 11:23 pm
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I am curious, as I've found out one of my abilities is to recognize patterns in everyday life (like...everywhere. Music, street naming conventions, etc).
I've also been told I notice things in more detail then others. I was curious who else might have this same benefit? |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Trouble climaxing |
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Posted: 04 Feb 2011, 6:34 pm
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Replies: 69
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| Oh f***ing hell, i'll give you an orgasm myself in a minute. *cowers* >.< You would have to get my roommate to leave first and Lord knows that is almost impossible. XD he's not shy, he'd probably do you in front of your roomie. :lol: I would never hear the end of it. Either that or she'll just talk... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Trouble climaxing |
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Posted: 04 Feb 2011, 6:28 pm
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| I actually found it to be quite a turn on to have sex with my ex while there were other people in the house...(for example we'd sneak down into the basement and have sex while her mom and her mom's boyfriend were in the kitchen) in the same house the danger of being caught is super-hot. but not bei... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Trouble climaxing |
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Posted: 04 Feb 2011, 6:28 pm
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Replies: 69
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| Oh f***ing hell, i'll give you an orgasm myself in a minute. *cowers* >.< You would have to get my roommate to leave first and Lord knows that is almost impossible. XD he's not shy, he'd probably do you in front of your roomie. :lol: I would never hear the end of it. Either that or she'll just talk... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Trouble climaxing |
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Posted: 04 Feb 2011, 5:58 pm
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Replies: 69
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| I actually found it to be quite a turn on to have sex with my ex while there were other people in the house...(for example we'd sneak down into the basement and have sex while her mom and her mom's boyfriend were in the kitchen) |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Trouble climaxing |
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Posted: 04 Feb 2011, 5:55 pm
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Replies: 69
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| I'm an unemployed college student. I can't afford to blow money on a room. D: :( I know how that is. Well maybe if it's something you truly want, you can work towards it? I have a part-time job (and I'm a part-time student) but before I got my job, I started guiding for ChaCha (they're a SMS-based ... |
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