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Forum: The Haven Topic: Dear "You"...From "Me"-Letters Unsent |
| Chantico |
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Posted: 08 Jul 2010, 6:52 pm
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| Dear Wrongplanet, What's with all the douchebags these days? Seems that ever since I left my old account there's dozens popped up all over the place. I understand people with AS have limited empathy, but does that mean that anyone who calls BS on an aspie's behaviour gets called 'judgemental'? :roll... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Non-sexism mindset in guys is not an add value (sadly). |
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Posted: 08 Jul 2010, 6:34 pm
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Replies: 31
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| It would kind of depend on your motivation for being 'non-sexist'. If it's just to get girls, then yeah, that probably comes across to some degree. No , no and no! Re-read the thread. http://www.threadbombing.com/data/media/54/small_subtle_facepalm.png Gawd, getting a gf isn't the only thing in lif... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Non-sexism mindset in guys is not an add value (sadly). |
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Posted: 08 Jul 2010, 4:53 pm
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| It would kind of depend on your motivation for being 'non-sexist'. If it's just to get girls, then yeah, that probably comes across to some degree. If you genuinely believed in equal rights, then it wouldn't matter what the personal pay-off was, you'd still believe in the idea. If you just see it as... |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: Worried about a class! |
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Posted: 08 Jul 2010, 11:54 am
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| Well, you could always lie. I think that's the normal response of students to idiotic projects. If it's just a sort of project, where you have to 'fix' a behaviour and write about it, make one up. Bear in mind, most of your year is probably NT, so they may just be looking for something as trivial as... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Much older man |
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Posted: 07 Jul 2010, 8:39 pm
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Replies: 44
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| Apologies. This was the quote that confused me: 3), what would the circumstances of my life with him be, i.e., would our lifestyles or lifestyle goals mesh? which is the farm, but in this also goes, am I ambitious to make something of myself in this world? (no, I'm exhausted with trying to make it ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Much older man |
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Posted: 07 Jul 2010, 7:24 pm
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| And I'm sorry, the fact that one of your reasons for marrying him is that you 'appreciate' his comfortable lifestyle... that is gold digging, plain and simple. Plus which, some of you seem to have the impression that this guy is rich. Give it a rest, people. I love his home, but honestly that's not... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Much older man |
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Posted: 07 Jul 2010, 7:20 pm
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| Look, I don't know which part of this you don't understand. He has offered a commitment, she has turned it down. Hence, there is no commitment. Hence, he is single. He may not have decided what to do next, but that definitely doesn't mean she has any claim on him. Well, is she or is she not his cur... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How the heck is attractive defined? |
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Posted: 07 Jul 2010, 7:09 pm
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| How the heck is "attractive" defined? I never understood how people define someone as attractive and for what reasons. All I can figure is what is considered "attractive" is very broad. Does anyone here understand the ridiculously vague 1-10 rating system? I don't get how you can "assign" someone a... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Much older man |
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Posted: 07 Jul 2010, 7:04 pm
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| He's single; he's not married, Noo.. he's not single. He has a long term girlfriend . The technicalities of their relationship are quite frankly nothing to do with you. And I'm sorry, the fact that one of your reasons for marrying him is that you 'appreciate' his comfortable lifestyle... that is go... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Much older man |
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Posted: 07 Jul 2010, 7:00 pm
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Replies: 44
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| He's single; he's not married, Noo.. he's not single. He has a long term girlfriend . The technicalities of their relationship are quite frankly nothing to do with you. And I'm sorry, the fact that one of your reasons for marrying him is that you 'appreciate' his comfortable lifestyle... that is go... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: its not working between us |
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Posted: 07 Jul 2010, 6:52 pm
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Replies: 7
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| “stuck in doors again with child while she goes out drinking again with friends” So, you felt the need to state it to the world and its brother? That is completely underhand. If you had a problem with her going out, you should have told her. Not all your mutual friends on facebook. after sating to ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Need Some Reassurance |
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Posted: 07 Jul 2010, 6:23 pm
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| I make good money, better than anyone else my age Well, whatever job you're doing stick with it! You'd be mad to quit, unless it's to get a degree to qualify for a different profession. I'd advise staying away from the stockmarket; it's risky and addictive. Remember never bet what you cannot afford... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: BOWLING ALONE |
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Posted: 07 Jul 2010, 6:00 pm
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| To be honest, if you look serious and engrossed enough, people will just presume you're pro. You need to be confident and not care what others think- if you sort of shuffle on looking embarrassed, people will just presume that all your friends have stood you up. Though as Willard says, who cares? If... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Much older man |
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Posted: 07 Jul 2010, 2:24 pm
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Replies: 44
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| If you're nearly 50, then you're well old enough to decide who you want. Age isn't a problem. Your landlady though... well, to be honest, it would be very unfair on her. Even though she isn't married to him, she's still his partner and it does get harder to find people as you get older, so for someo... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: My Aspie Best Friend's Behavior |
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Posted: 07 Jul 2010, 2:15 pm
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,238
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| It's nice that you're trying to include him, but I think it's time to stop banging your head against a wall. He doesn't seem too interested in joining a group, just in pursuing romantic interests. Some people are like that. |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Do Platonic Relationships Work? |
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Posted: 07 Jul 2010, 12:37 pm
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Replies: 16
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| If they're both single or working together, yeah. It's trickier if either of you are in a relationship though, unless you manage to make them a mutual friend quickly. Even then, it depends on your partner. |
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