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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: how to kindly rebuff on okcupid?? |
spongy |
Posted: 28 Jun 2014, 4:25 am
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how do you rebuff someone who you have been talking to for a while? I know it would be even ruder to just ignore them than people who have just messaged once. I cant think of a way to get out of it, I have been very 'unsexy' and platonic and keep pointing out incompatibilities but it just makes him... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Bar. (L&D's own chatroom) |
spongy |
Posted: 26 Jun 2014, 2:14 pm
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Replies: 1,403 Views: 114,451
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We have switched from attacking each other to banter. The bar is working,I repeat the bar is working.
Cut |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Sexism on L&D |
spongy |
Posted: 26 Jun 2014, 11:47 am
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Replies: 477 Views: 19,791
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I remind you that we have set up a bar just now for random discussion.
Next one to start a random discussion pays the bill! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Bar. (L&D's own chatroom) |
spongy |
Posted: 26 Jun 2014, 11:44 am
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Replies: 1,403 Views: 114,451
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Alright we have to set a date for trivia night.
Just so we are clear :Boo which night is the most inconvenient for you? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: THIS MIGHT BE CONSTRUED AS SEXIST |
spongy |
Posted: 25 Jun 2014, 1:04 am
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Replies: 42 Views: 2,340
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so, how do you disagree? Go back to the first page and reread my original post. Am I asking for too much? Seriously though maybe we should stick to creating spinoff threads on POR but they would get mad at us for taking over their section I still have no idea what you are talking about. Will you pl... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A followup to my thread about kissing a friend |
spongy |
Posted: 25 Jun 2014, 12:59 am
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Replies: 21 Views: 1,895
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It was a mistake. You acknowledged it as such and so did she. I am sorry it went out like this. However you seem to have the right approach when it comes to interacting with people(of all genders) so I do not think you should be too harsh on yourself. Maybe you are right and you need some time apart... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: THIS MIGHT BE CONSTRUED AS SEXIST |
spongy |
Posted: 24 Jun 2014, 1:40 am
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Replies: 42 Views: 2,340
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vickygleitz wrote: so, how do you disagree?
Go back to the first page and reread my original post. Am I asking for too much?
Seriously though maybe we should stick to creating spinoff threads on POR but they would get mad at us for taking over their section |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: THIS MIGHT BE CONSTRUED AS SEXIST |
spongy |
Posted: 24 Jun 2014, 12:19 am
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Replies: 42 Views: 2,340
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I completely disagree with OPs statement
Here are a couple of things I got out of reading too much into the OP.
They are not literally there but its probably what she was trying to convey
There this thread should remain alive for a while |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: more than one relationship at a time |
spongy |
Posted: 22 Jun 2014, 11:30 pm
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Replies: 23 Views: 255
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Well, I broke up with the newer guy. I feel less slu*ty already. Although I'm still not sure there is anything wrong with what I was doing. If a man were to be having sexual relations with a number of women, I don't think anyone would be bothered. If you were a man that just got out of what appears... |
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Forum: Computers, Math, Science, and Technology Topic: Why do people like Apple computers? |
spongy |
Posted: 21 Jun 2014, 1:59 pm
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Replies: 58 Views: 5,176
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OK Apple haters, I got a copy of Win 7 and loaded it on to my Dell today. It took over 4 hours and now I can't connect to the InterWeb with it. Previously Vista connected to the InterWeb OK, such as it was, stumbling like an drunk. I've tried to troubleshoot why it won't connect and now I guess I h... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: I need a hot guy to make me chocolate cake, or I'll DIE. |
spongy |
Posted: 21 Jun 2014, 1:03 pm
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Replies: 97 Views: 1,116
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Just in case anyone forgot the rules about bodily functions still apply on this section. They apply on a loser term and you can create threads asking about some aspects related to them. That said bringing them up on a unrelated thread for no reason is off putting just as the pumpkin image stated. Pl... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: more than one relationship at a time |
spongy |
Posted: 21 Jun 2014, 12:22 pm
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Replies: 23 Views: 255
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niether is in a position to offer me a comittment. lel Okay, niether one wants to commit to me. The thing is I would rather been in an exclusive relationship, but it doesn't seem to be in the cards. If you actually want a relationship putting yourself out there with several men seems counterintuiti... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: I need a hot guy to make me chocolate cake, or I'll DIE. |
spongy |
Posted: 17 Jun 2014, 11:27 pm
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Replies: 97 Views: 1,116
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No applicants yet?
And boo will keep saying that girls that post this sort of threads find a bf in no time.
Good luck on this soul searching experience woofy.
I know its wont be easy |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My issues with the manosphere and red-pill-ism. |
spongy |
Posted: 16 Jun 2014, 1:15 pm
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Replies: 29 Views: 4,686
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The manosphere had some great ideas prior to RedPill becaming prominent. MGTOW or men going their own way is a great idea that should be encouraged more and there are plenty of similar stuff if you look around (it is even recommended material on several redpill webs) redpill just seems too focused o... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: So I told an aspie I like him... |
spongy |
Posted: 16 Jun 2014, 8:01 am
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Replies: 42 Views: 2,627
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You have not fallen in love with him. You have fallen in love with your personal view of him which in 99% of the cases is an idealised version of him. While the internet is great for many things it leaves too much to the imagination when it comes to relationships. So many things are impossible to se... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Worldwide Aspergian single List 2.0(Cats) |
spongy |
Posted: 13 Jun 2014, 7:02 am
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Replies: 13 Views: 2,710
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Name is on every post I make.
I am a lady cat.
I am not too excited about boxes but I love bubble wrapping |
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