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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: abstaining from premarital sex, thoughts? |
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Posted: 15 Dec 2013, 8:01 pm
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Replies: 75
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| To me involving marriage in the equation is a bad thing. It's when you feel right and comfortable it becomes appropriate. Abstaining from premarital sex is for the religious fanatics/loons, who also call cohabiting "living in sin". . Actually, it isn't just for the super-religious, that is a bad mi... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Aspergers and contraception |
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Posted: 15 Oct 2013, 8:34 am
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Replies: 23
Views: 366
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| I take it for endometriosis, it actually did the opposite for me and made me even-keel. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Giving permission for every single move you make? |
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Posted: 10 Aug 2013, 3:47 am
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Replies: 26
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| No, I would never force anyone at all. I always do immediately stop, infact, I immediately stop everything that I'm doing, panic and apologize and hope nothing bad happens to me and so far it never does, infact it's usually "my arm is falling asleep can you move your head?" and I'm usually happy to ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Giving permission for every single move you make? |
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Posted: 09 Aug 2013, 4:18 pm
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| It's possible he might not say something out loud, but appear to be uncomfortable. You can always ask him if he's comfortable, or happy, or ok with what you're doing. I have been trying to do that a lot, but I guess I'll only ask if he is alright if he looks kind of weirded out and such. Keep in mi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Asexuality |
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Posted: 09 Aug 2013, 3:23 am
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Replies: 26
Views: 4,276
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Stalk wrote: I wonder if there is such a thing as LGBT asexual?
There sure is! Again, asexual doesn't necessarily means aromantic so you can be a gay-asexual and prefer romantic relationships with the same gender. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Giving permission for every single move you make? |
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Posted: 09 Aug 2013, 2:31 am
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| That's what I sort of do already, early on, we sort of made up a mutual agreement to what would be okay and we both agreed that we would rely on each other to speak up if anything is wrong as well as if we want to change the agreement. My problem I'm just really OCD and I care about him deeply to th... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Giving permission for every single move you make? |
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Posted: 09 Aug 2013, 2:30 am
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| That's what I sort of do already, we sort of made up a mutual agreement to what would be okay and we both agreed that we would rely on each other to speak up if anything is wrong as well as if we want to change the agreement. My problem I'm just really OCD and I care about him deeply to the point wh... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: diaper fetish could be related to Asperger's? |
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Posted: 07 Aug 2013, 4:30 pm
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Replies: 57
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| christ, I wish people would stop thining every little bump, scratch, sniffle and sneeze is due to their aspergers! I have a cold - is it aspergers? I'm gay, is it aspergers? I burned my finger. Is it because I have aspergers? COPE! +1 And I'd hate to see this fetish associated with Asperger's. We a... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Giving permission for every single move you make? |
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Posted: 07 Aug 2013, 1:01 am
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Replies: 26
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| Yeah, I need to get better at communicating my issues. Sorry for leading you guys astray at first, but hey its better than never. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Giving permission for every single move you make? |
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Posted: 07 Aug 2013, 12:48 am
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| Bingo, its irrational fear. I think I was fine what I have been doing before I became paranoid, it's just, I became that, paranoid and have been for several weeks now. Before that everything was fine. He isn't mad at me or anything since we haven't seen each other since then due to being in an LDR, ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Giving permission for every single move you make? |
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Posted: 07 Aug 2013, 12:34 am
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| So wait, you are saying that its possible to take it to the other extreme? Why haven't people told me this? Yes, I did talk to him and he knew from day one that I have severe OCD and it's gotten to the point that I probably need to get it looked at. I mean, we did agree upon limits when we started t... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Giving permission for every single move you make? |
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Posted: 07 Aug 2013, 12:24 am
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| I guess maybe, this is probably my fault, infact, even he says I am just being far too irrational and OCD lately and need to call my psychiatrist about it. Because seriously, this is just one aspect why OCD is making me paranoid and taking over my life. I only started acting this way this month just... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Giving permission for every single move you make? |
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Posted: 07 Aug 2013, 12:10 am
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| No, we are both HFA and both on the same level, it's more of an extreme OCD issue for me and being paranoid, but seriously, I feel completely hopeless because I don't really know what you mean at all by how a cat acts. I truly am a lost cause. I'm really upset now since I feel like I'm so OCD about ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Giving permission for every single move you make? |
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Posted: 06 Aug 2013, 8:00 pm
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| I'm just wondering because I heard it is bad if you wait until they say no so I assume you have to ask permission for every single thing, and I mean every movement, in order to avoid any chance of being arrested. Since we both have autism, of course we are gonna lack a lot of social awareness You re... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Giving permission for every single move you make? |
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Posted: 06 Aug 2013, 5:29 pm
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| Well if he even ignores the cats, that is just mean. Why would you beg for food unless you want him to bring you food? No, it's just that his one cat is just constantly hungry due to her high metabolism and he does feed her, but yeah, I don't see what you are saying. Wait, but I would be pestering ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Giving permission for every single move you make? |
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Posted: 06 Aug 2013, 4:36 pm
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Replies: 26
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| A cat? He has cats, his favorite cat always constantly begs him for food. Should I do that? |
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