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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why does dating have to be a game? |
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Posted: 18 Jan 2015, 2:51 pm
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Replies: 81
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| The reason dating is a game is for one of three reasons. A) The person has no intention of making a commitment. B) The person is afraid to make a mental commitment to someone he/she just met. This is very common and very cowardly. It's not that hard to trust others and trust oneself. But, many simpl... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Suspected Aspie bf suddenly breaks up |
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Posted: 16 Nov 2014, 3:32 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 3,913
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| Deltafunction, I can tell after a couple months of dating whether I can or can't marry somebody. And I believe that dragging a relationship on indefinitely isn't right if we're both going to end up with somebody else. So maybe he's just blunt and wants you to be with someone who can cherish you. I'v... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The difference between creepiness and romantic persistence? |
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Posted: 15 Nov 2014, 2:36 pm
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Replies: 22
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| Lol, this stuff is pretty simple: http://www.tickld.com/cdn_image_thing/765238.png http://i.imgur.com/R00lQ12.png These memes don't come out of nowhere sadly enough. The difference between romantic behavior and creepiness is how well you can limit yourself based on the other person's boundaries. Th... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: any successful relationships in which the girl initiated? |
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Posted: 08 Oct 2014, 7:38 pm
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Replies: 38
Views: 7,062
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| In all three relationships I've had, the gal I dated initiated our relationship. However, looking back on it, technically all three times we both initiated it together. It seemed I didn't initiate because it all happened so fast. The automatic mental machinery did all the work for me. So I suppose t... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Need advice for Aspergers test my Employer wants me to do. |
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Posted: 21 Aug 2014, 3:42 pm
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Replies: 16
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| Well, we don't know what country you are in, and what the laws and social expectations are in your country, or your region in your country. It doesn't sound like you are in the States. It also sounds like they don't want to hire you. I don't know what your rights are because I don't know the ins and... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How ironic! |
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Posted: 21 Aug 2014, 3:36 pm
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Replies: 2
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| The experts also say that people with Asperger's don't have a great grasp of humor. This of course is because people with Asperger's tend to look for explanations of how things work and why things are a certain way. The best humor is when something is so funny that stopping to ask why is even more b... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Micro-managed to death! |
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Posted: 09 Jul 2014, 12:31 pm
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Replies: 37
Views: 5,947
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| Sounds like quite the pickle. Hang in there. |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: the treatment of women on wrongplanet |
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Posted: 22 May 2014, 9:29 pm
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Replies: 371
Views: 27,004
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| I already did explain how they are not parallels. [no, you didn't--the following does not illustrate that racism and sexism are not parallels, only that there is not a subforum specifically for race relations or gender relations. love & dating is not about gender relations--it's about love &... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: the treatment of women on wrongplanet |
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Posted: 22 May 2014, 9:22 pm
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Replies: 371
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Nights_Like_These wrote: Well, I vote for pretending Mindslave doesn't exist.
Guess what? I don't exist. |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: the treatment of women on wrongplanet |
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Posted: 22 May 2014, 9:20 pm
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Replies: 371
Views: 27,004
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| you're not a very understanding person are you? You're very quick to take offense. Maybe thats part of your problem? maybe its not the world but you? just a suggestion. said with zero emotion attached but ive no doubt you'll add a condescending tone to what im saying. Can't the "world" ever be wron... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: the treatment of women on wrongplanet |
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Posted: 22 May 2014, 9:14 pm
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Replies: 371
Views: 27,004
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| you're not a very understanding person are you? You're very quick to take offense. Maybe thats part of your problem? maybe its not the world but you? just a suggestion. said with zero emotion attached but ive no doubt you'll add a condescending tone to what im saying. Can't the "world" ever be wron... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Are all the good ones REALLY taken by 27? |
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Posted: 22 May 2014, 8:44 pm
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Replies: 92
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| There are plenty of "good" women who are unmarried by 27. But yes, most of the great ones are taken by 27, if not in a marriage, then in a long term relationship. That doesn't mean finding a relationship will be harder, it just means that the idealized starting a family kind of marriage is less like... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: the treatment of women on wrongplanet |
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Posted: 22 May 2014, 8:26 pm
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Replies: 371
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| you're not a very understanding person are you? You're very quick to take offense. Maybe thats part of your problem? maybe its not the world but you? just a suggestion. said with zero emotion attached but ive no doubt you'll add a condescending tone to what im saying. Can't the "world" ever be wron... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: the treatment of women on wrongplanet |
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Posted: 22 May 2014, 7:55 pm
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Replies: 371
Views: 27,004
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| you're not a very understanding person are you? You're very quick to take offense. Maybe thats part of your problem? maybe its not the world but you? just a suggestion. said with zero emotion attached but ive no doubt you'll add a condescending tone to what im saying. Can't the "world" ever be wron... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: the treatment of women on wrongplanet |
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Posted: 22 May 2014, 4:55 pm
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Replies: 371
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| I think this is a horrible idea, and won't and shouldn't go anywhere. First of all, sexism is not the same as racism, certainly not in the parallel you are attempting. Saying "all black people are this" and "all Jews are that" are projections that reflect a desire to get rid of the offending group o... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Loners + Loners = :)? |
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Posted: 22 May 2014, 4:20 pm
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Replies: 4
Views: 1,021
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| If you know what you're doing, yes it works. But those folks don't make very good friends, at least not for me. Loyal, absolutely. But loyal only goes so far. |
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