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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What kind of behavior is this? |
| diniesaur |
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Posted: 08 Dec 2014, 7:52 pm
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Replies: 10
Views: 818
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| For the same reason why I scratch my balls because something is irritating my skin there. It doesn't mean that I want a girl to suck it. This. I wouldn't even go so far as to call it "rude behavior"; sometimes people just need to look at their breasts. It's nothing you need to worry about. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What do you think is a good age to start dating? |
| diniesaur |
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Posted: 08 Dec 2014, 7:50 pm
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Replies: 30
Views: 3,169
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| Each person matures at its own rate. I started dating when I was thirteen, but I was NOT ready; I hadn't even figured out friendship (I was, however, physically ready to have sex...unfortunately, only crazy people are willing to have sex with thirteen-year-olds, so guess what I ended up with). Gener... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: I need casual sex! HELP! |
| diniesaur |
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Posted: 08 Dec 2014, 7:43 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 491
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| Let me know if you discover the secret to this. It requires social savvy unfortunately. I would say you'd be better off in a relationship but if you're just sexually frustrated this is a little like jumping into the shower to wash your hands XD From what I understand of Tindr and other such apps yo... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: I need casual sex! HELP! |
| diniesaur |
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Posted: 03 Dec 2014, 2:10 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 491
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| Yeah, I understand...but these are really things I can't compromise on. I mean, I can't invite some random stranger to f**k me when that person could be some psychopath who wants to kill me, you know? All of these standards I have are important somehow, even if it's just for my enjoyment of the sex.... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I may be obsessed. Having trouble letting go. Please help |
| diniesaur |
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Posted: 01 Dec 2014, 11:46 am
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,138
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| From your post, a couple things are sticking out in my mind: #1--Somehow (probably through unhealthy cultural ideals) you've gotten this idea that it's immoral to have feelings for more than one person. It's not ; in fact, it's natural and you'd have to be pretty emotionally stunted to suddenly stop... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Did you feel morally dirty after masturbation? |
| diniesaur |
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Posted: 01 Dec 2014, 11:31 am
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Replies: 51
Views: 862
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| Not at all--and not with sex, either! Of course, I'm neo-Pagan, and since sex and masturbation doesn't hurt anyone (as long as I'm ethical about it) I don't see it as immoral. And sexual repression, viewing sexual things and genitals as "dirty," is unhealthy for people and can cause a lot ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: I need casual sex! HELP! |
| diniesaur |
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Posted: 01 Dec 2014, 11:19 am
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Replies: 18
Views: 491
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| I guess that's something else I should've specified...I can't do it with strangers, because I don't trust them enough to be alone with them like that. I guess I kind of have trust issues, so often certain acquaintances don't even qualify for that. I hate my impossibly high standards. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: I need casual sex! HELP! |
| diniesaur |
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Posted: 30 Nov 2014, 9:54 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 491
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| Well, I guess I don't NEED need casual sex, but I do have an insanely high sex drive (like many of us) and I need sexual stimulation. I usually do this for myself and I recognize that it's my own responsibility (and no one else's) to attend to my sexual needs, but I see so many others who are able t... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: How to handle unavoidable socialization? |
| diniesaur |
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Posted: 21 Sep 2014, 1:32 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 8,612
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| Explain to her that you're burnt out on social interactions and you just need a break for a while--that it's nothing personal, but something that a happens to almost every Autistic person at some point. Explain that it could end up being really dangerous for you to overstimulate yourself with all th... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Odd breakup. Now helping to provide emotional support. |
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Posted: 12 Sep 2014, 7:20 pm
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Replies: 2
Views: 1,464
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| Just keep being there, I think. It was probably for the best that he broke up with you, not because he's unworthy but because he's not at a point in his life where he can have a healthy relationship. When he gets to that point, you guys could even get together again if you haven't already moved on. ... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: I do not feel guilty |
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Posted: 09 Sep 2014, 11:25 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 2,747
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| This probably isn't very constructive of me, but I think it was perfectly okay for you to flip her off. I mean, yeah, you'd made a mistake but then she had to go off on you in the stairwell like that...all she had to do was say "Please don't do that in here; keep it in the stairwell" and everything ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: He...wouldn't reject me. |
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Posted: 09 Sep 2014, 10:33 am
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Replies: 2
Views: 1,858
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| I don't know...I can't help but wonder if he's enjoying knowing that I have feelings for him, and doesn't WANT to resolve them because it's an ego boost. I mean, at times he can be really sweet and considerate and I have ascertained that he does indeed have an actual soul...but this is where my para... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: He...wouldn't reject me. |
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Posted: 07 Sep 2014, 10:47 pm
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Replies: 2
Views: 1,858
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| So, I have this irrational fear of dating that goes back to a terrible previous experience I had with it. I don't act on stupid crushes anymore (I did twice several years ago because I didn't know any better and friends had pressured me but now I don't because there's no reason; I just wait for them... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: People who are weird and mean but everyone respects them |
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Posted: 31 Aug 2014, 11:38 am
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Replies: 25
Views: 4,127
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| Oh, yeah, I have a sociopath too...unlike yours, mine (supposedly) can actually feel empathy for others, but he says he can turn it on and off, and that he doesn't want to turn it off because then he'd be no better than some of the really screwed up sociopaths. I worry about him and those around him... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: People who are weird and mean but everyone respects them |
| diniesaur |
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Posted: 30 Aug 2014, 9:17 pm
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Replies: 25
Views: 4,127
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| OKAY GUYS This is something I've observed in other people too--not necessarily MEAN people all the time, but people who just aren't that cool or charming, or people who are maybe as*holes sometimes... Certain people (often sociopaths, but not always) have this weird "charisma" about them that draws ... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Made a big mistake on Facebook |
| diniesaur |
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Posted: 30 Aug 2014, 9:08 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 3,919
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| I don't think it's actually people choosing to ignore you remove your posts. The way Facebook works, the more people "like" and comment on your posts, the more future posts of yours will show up in their news feed (and others'). People may have felt awkward or whatever with your more depressing post... |
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