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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Desperate need for understanding about struggles with sex |
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Posted: 26 Oct 2011, 9:53 am
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Replies: 18
Views: 770
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| I didn't mean to imply that your lack of desire for sex means that it will be impossible for you to have a meaningful relationship. What I meant to say was that a relationship with a partner who has a strong desire for penetrative sex will be difficult without a lot of understanding and compromise. ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Desperate need for understanding about struggles with sex |
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Posted: 25 Oct 2011, 4:02 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 770
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| I hate to say it, but if the thought of sex with another person is completely unappealing to you, a relationship with someone with "normal" sexual desire is going to be very difficult. It's not impossible, mind, but I think it would require some serious compromise on both ends. I assume that you've ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Are there any GOOD dating sites? |
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Posted: 25 Oct 2011, 2:19 pm
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Replies: 62
Views: 20,606
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| Once a girl asked "Where are you, the man of my dreams?", i replied: "He is in my basement, send me 100000 or i will send you an ear!" :D :lmao: I often think of snarky things to say in response to people's profiles, and there was a time when I would've actually sent them. Old age has made me timid... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Are there any GOOD dating sites? |
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Posted: 25 Oct 2011, 12:53 pm
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Replies: 62
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| I am convinced that there is some sort of secret law requiring all women on dating sites to have children or to want to have children immediately. This puzzles me. On the site where I'm a forum mod, I get lots of e-mails, but 92% are from 48-year-old women with three kids who want to argue with me ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Are there any GOOD dating sites? |
| Crow_T_Robot |
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Posted: 25 Oct 2011, 11:53 am
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Replies: 62
Views: 20,606
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| One of the things that scares me is that I'll be thirty in a few months, and suddenly the twenty-somethings will think I'm "too old". It's kind of like how people won't buy something that's $3.00, but don't have any problem buying the same thing for $2.99. At least around here, most women my age eit... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Are there any GOOD dating sites? |
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Posted: 25 Oct 2011, 10:24 am
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Replies: 62
Views: 20,606
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| I found a smaller "geek" themed site and subscribed. Initially, I did relatively well at getting responses, and even met a few promising girls... Who lived three-thousand miles away. I also met a girl who demanded I talk to her on the phone from the time I got off work until after my normal bedtime ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Can we just get rid of this forum? |
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Posted: 24 Oct 2011, 12:52 pm
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Replies: 236
Views: 20,330
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| I think saying "I have no use for this forum, therefore nobody has any use for this forum." is a bit selfish. I've actually learned quite a bit, and identified some aspects of my personality that need changing just from reading other people's posts. Whether or not that helps in the end remains to be... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dealing with obsession |
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Posted: 24 Oct 2011, 12:24 pm
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Replies: 10
Views: 10,579
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| I've ruined a few relationships this way, and probably prevented a few others from starting. I think a good idea is to never allow yourself to fall into the mindset that she's the only one. If you start believing that she's the only shot you have for true happiness, then you'll be putting an unfair ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Desperate need for understanding about struggles with sex |
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Posted: 24 Oct 2011, 10:18 am
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Replies: 18
Views: 770
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| I can relate somewhat, I think. I'm a guy, and I used to have all of the urges that guys are "supposed" to have, but ten years of SSRIs has dulled my sex drive down to the point that I only get "turned on" occasionally. My most recent relationship went on for over a year, and we ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: "Heartless b*****s"(includes words of advice) |
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Posted: 18 Oct 2011, 1:54 pm
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Replies: 108
Views: 12,511
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| I don't really buy the whole "Disney made me do it!" excuse. I mean I understand the prince charming stereotype, but I don't think many girls really want to marry the prince from Snow White past the age of eight or so. I think if I were going to base my behavior off a fictional character in hopes of... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Male lesbian |
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Posted: 17 Oct 2011, 11:59 am
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Replies: 56
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| It would explain a lot about me, honestly. I'm okay with my biological gender, and I'm not into other guys, but I have a lot of more feminine personality traits. I once commented to a platonic female friend that I wanted to be "swept off my feet" by someone and was told that it was a really odd thin... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: "Heartless b*****s"(includes words of advice) |
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Posted: 12 Oct 2011, 12:09 pm
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Replies: 108
Views: 12,511
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| but it's sad that you can't be nice to some people without them assuming that you have an ulterior motive. I agree in some cases, it's silly. For instance, a guy holding a door open for a woman out of common human courtesy can be seen as patronizing and sexist. If someone is immediately behind me w... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: "Heartless b*****s"(includes words of advice) |
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Posted: 12 Oct 2011, 11:50 am
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Replies: 108
Views: 12,511
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| I like guys that are really nice and not just putting on an act. I think it's wrong that people in general shun the nice guy because alot of people that stereotype have decided to put all nice men into one box. Women that are b*****s generally like the bad boys the most and as a result all women ge... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: "Heartless b*****s"(includes words of advice) |
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Posted: 12 Oct 2011, 9:17 am
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Replies: 108
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| Another mistake Nice Guys make is to go after "hard luck" cases. They deliberately pick women with neuroses, problems, and personality disorders, because Nice Guys are "helpers". A Nice Guy thinks that by "helping" this woman, it will make him a better, more lovable person. He thinks it will give h... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Tips to my fellow aspies on your first date (at a diner) |
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Posted: 11 Oct 2011, 8:02 pm
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Replies: 8
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| Good advice. Thanks for sharing! :) Unfortunately for me, I hate eating around people I don't know well. I feel so self-conscious that I can't enjoy the food and I end up eating in this really mechanical fashion that I think is probably as off-putting as it would be if I ate really messily. I'd much... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Would you date this one? |
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Posted: 10 Oct 2011, 2:01 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 2,556
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| Last time I dated one, he stuck his tongue in my ear before he even said hello. I mean, at least buy me dinner first... |
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