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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should I just forget it? |
| monkeykoder |
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Posted: 10 Sep 2012, 9:11 pm
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Replies: 13
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| I am NT in a relationship with an Aspie. It took my boyfriend weeks to work up the courage to ask me out even though he would chat with my alot online at work. At first it was hard to figure out if he was flirting. I eventually asked him right out, "are you flirting with me?" . Even then he didn't ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Should I just forget it? |
| monkeykoder |
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Posted: 10 Sep 2012, 8:37 pm
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| Give the boy a chance. It's not like he knows what he's doing he's probably trying to figure out whatever it is that he's supposed to do. If he is anything like I was at that age he'd LOVE for you to tell him that you're interested. The real worst that could happen though is a little worse than him ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Appearance and Fashion Tips for Asperger's Men |
| monkeykoder |
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Posted: 18 Aug 2012, 9:07 am
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Replies: 120
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| Aye, but f**k it right? I've got some pretty big goals in this life. I want to be a distinguished writer and scientist. That means having to deal with the perilous world of other people. This entails having to get good at all the tools of the trade for said dealings. Even if you don't plan on picki... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Appearance and Fashion Tips for Asperger's Men |
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Posted: 17 Aug 2012, 10:34 am
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Replies: 120
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| As I said this isn't about conformity or non conformity, it's about realizing that fashion is an indicator of status and expression in the real world. There is universal standard and a cultural standard to fashion and whilst you may not agree, many people find the universal standard to be attractiv... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Appearance and Fashion Tips for Asperger's Men |
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Posted: 17 Aug 2012, 9:21 am
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Replies: 120
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| As I said this isn't about conformity or non conformity, it's about realizing that fashion is an indicator of status and expression in the real world. There is universal standard and a cultural standard to fashion and whilst you may not agree, many people find the universal standard to be attractiv... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Appearance and Fashion Tips for Asperger's Men |
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Posted: 17 Aug 2012, 8:43 am
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Replies: 120
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| California tends to have its own rather casual style even in the business world the only people that do the whole dress to impress thing are salespeople of some sort. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: No desire to settle down? |
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Posted: 17 Aug 2012, 8:17 am
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Replies: 48
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| You are on a forum for people who are here specifically because their brains function outside of socital norms and you are still pushing them . I accept that you have these feelings are you incapable of accepting that others might have different desires than you? You are free to express your opinio... |
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Forum: Computers, Math, Science, and Technology Topic: Whats wrong with using HTML tables? |
| monkeykoder |
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Posted: 16 Aug 2012, 8:50 pm
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Replies: 13
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| Ah nice! I have just finished a pretty damn big website and I dont really feel up to reprogramming it to be correct as I am using tables for the layout.Do you think it will be ok if I leve it until I feel up to redoing it? Its a personal website for a game server. It works on all browsers very nice... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: No desire to settle down? |
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Posted: 16 Aug 2012, 1:21 am
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| You're 25 years old. Even if you don't want kids, one day your youthful looks will fade and you'll want companionship, wherein you'll probably settle down with whomever is the most convenient. That, or end up a spinster. You are on a forum for people who are here specifically because their brains f... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Appearance and Fashion Tips for Asperger's Men |
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Posted: 16 Aug 2012, 1:04 am
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Replies: 120
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| The whole style thing is pretty overrated. There are two important rules as far as I can tell make sure the clothes fit as well as you can afford and don't over do it |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Which Conditions did you consider before AS? |
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Posted: 15 Aug 2012, 10:54 pm
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Replies: 118
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| My only official diagnosis is SAD and I was put on Paxil which both did and didn't help and the withdrawals are freaky. As I am gifted I've mostly been ignored. I'm just starting to carve out my niche in society as I am 26 and it took me a little longer than most to get through college. I've found w... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What shall I do? |
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Posted: 15 Aug 2012, 8:34 pm
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Replies: 4
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| You will always be judged for not being/thinking like other people want you to. The further you mind is from the main stream the more people will try to pull you back in. It's painful and it's frustrating. For a more discordian way of going about it prepare an hour long lecture on the benefits of be... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: No desire to settle down? |
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Posted: 15 Aug 2012, 8:20 pm
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Replies: 48
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| Is "Not sure yet" a valid answer? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Appearance and Fashion Tips for Asperger's Men |
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Posted: 15 Aug 2012, 8:02 pm
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Replies: 120
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| I have found that as long as I am wearing clothes that actually fit me I'm pretty much golden beyond that I feel like uncomfortable and that affects my confidence level. |
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Forum: Computers, Math, Science, and Technology Topic: Whats wrong with using HTML tables? |
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Posted: 15 Aug 2012, 7:19 pm
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Replies: 13
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| <div class="random"></div> <span class="random2"></span> Add css to the above and you have layout just don't expect me to write the CSS I'm rather talented in the middle tier but UI and Databases make me cringe (actually Databases aren't so bad if managed correctly). The real re... |
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Forum: Computers, Math, Science, and Technology Topic: C#. Microsoft Visual C# and XNA |
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Posted: 13 Aug 2012, 9:39 pm
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Replies: 17
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| C# is a great language for writing business applications. Large amounts of code can be done in a small amount of time with limited resources. I however doubt it's efficacy for game programming certain things are made very difficult with the so eloquently put "hand holding classes" that you end up ha... |
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