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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I'm scared of men touching me. Advice?? |
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Posted: 06 Nov 2013, 9:16 pm
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Replies: 34
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I have a very all-or-nothing approach on this that I wonder if serves its purpose.
on a scale of 1-10, how much I like being touched = 1000000000000000000
on a scale of 1-10, how much I don't want to spend it in the wrong place = 1000000000000000001 |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Pursuer - Avoider relationships with an Aspie |
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Posted: 03 Oct 2013, 3:24 pm
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,933
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| And as for stopping yourself from chasing things only what by definition you can't have... well you are closing yourself off to the whole world of inside relationships, which is its own challenge that I would say is much more multifaceted and surprising than just chasing can ever be... you might be ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Pursuer - Avoider relationships with an Aspie |
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Posted: 03 Oct 2013, 3:08 pm
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,933
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| Ben Gibbard does, all his songs are about this It's not settling, that's the thing, only if you genuinely think you're better than people just because they see something to admire in you. Isn't there such a thing as mutual admiration? I have the opposite problem, I fall only for people who at first ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Buh bye |
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Posted: 02 Dec 2012, 2:07 pm
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Replies: 41
Views: 4,328
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| Just because you feel fine does not mean that you are fine. Please go straight to the emergency room. People here like you and value you. Think about your kids, who love you. Thank you very much but the nurse (and that's all we have) at the ER wont do squat cept go "WHY YOU DO THAT? You need charco... |
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Forum: Bipolar, Tourettes, Schizophrenia, and other Psychological Conditions Topic: Suicide Ideas |
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Posted: 31 Oct 2012, 7:57 pm
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Replies: 21
Views: 4,668
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| Hi. I remember you posted some very good stories. That is a lot of good to everybody who reads them. I've spent a lot of time considering the same thing. I don't know where I fall on it currently to be honest but it makes me sad to see you write about killing yourself because your life doesn't have ... |
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Forum: Bipolar, Tourettes, Schizophrenia, and other Psychological Conditions Topic: Bipolar/Aspergers support and chat thread |
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Posted: 29 Oct 2012, 3:45 pm
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Replies: 713
Views: 323,005
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| I feel like I'm 60. Or actually, I feel like I'm already dead. Loneliness has a way of making you feel that way. I'm sorry things aren't going better for you. -- I was put on Depakote and Haldol and Zyprexa among other things and they're really messing up my ability to think or feel anything beside... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: How do you know when you're in a nightmare? |
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Posted: 16 Sep 2012, 11:28 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,279
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| Nightmares make you suffer horribly but at a certain point you realize that reality cannot possibly be that bad and you escape the nightmare. You can escape it consciously by allowing yourself to be overcome by whatever's creating horrible fear and pain for you in the nightmare and dying (so you wak... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: Afterlife or nothing? |
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Posted: 16 Sep 2012, 11:10 pm
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Replies: 58
Views: 5,076
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| there better be another life. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I really hate the Autumn!! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! |
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Posted: 16 Sep 2012, 2:11 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 4,697
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| I can't take the autumn this year either. I really can't take it. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: psychiatric hospital |
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Posted: 11 Sep 2012, 7:17 pm
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Replies: 10
Views: 1,257
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| You have my sympathy. That is a stressful and scary and all-around low situation. I hope that the hospital can help you in one way or another, medicine-wise or otherwise. "You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is cle... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: point of no words |
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Posted: 09 Sep 2012, 10:21 pm
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Replies: 3
Views: 831
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| Thank you Miharu and theWanderer and CockneyRebel. I hope your days are good. I need to stop posting stuff like this. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: point of no words |
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Posted: 09 Sep 2012, 3:47 pm
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Replies: 3
Views: 831
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Rants |
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Posted: 06 Sep 2012, 10:58 pm
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Replies: 9,252
Views: 642,696
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| I feel like I'm going to kill myself any time now. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Avoiding inpatient due to prospect of feeling trapped/crzier |
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Posted: 05 Sep 2012, 2:54 pm
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Replies: 14
Views: 2,231
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Quote: I am just curious - how many of you have felt suicidal yet frustrated due to being unable to kill yourself for some reason?
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Forum: Bipolar, Tourettes, Schizophrenia, and other Psychological Conditions Topic: Bipolar/Aspergers support and chat thread |
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Posted: 02 Sep 2012, 12:42 am
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Replies: 713
Views: 323,005
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| I am having a really, really, really hard time. I am told I do not have bipolar disorder but I do not think most people want to kill themselves when things go wrong, even when they go really wrong. I don't know what to do, every day it's a huge struggle to decide if I should keep going or do someth... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Why animal/child cruelty? |
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Posted: 01 Sep 2012, 7:22 pm
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Replies: 13
Views: 1,399
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| I think it comes down to power. There are certain people who need to feel total dominance over another living thing and so they pick on someone or something weaker than themselves. Yes. Also it's a predatory instinct, cause people need to eat things and they will naturally have the best chance of k... |
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