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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: No friends, but constantly having guys "wanting" me |
| Kinme |
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Posted: 30 Jul 2020, 10:28 pm
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Replies: 512
Views: 10,612
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| This is also something I've struggled with. I have few female friends, and they tend to reject me unless they're "different" themselves. I'd like to find some aspie female friends, because I think it'd be a lot better that way. Either that, or women who accept me for being different. Almos... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Feeling Attachment towards Toxic people |
| Kinme |
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Posted: 02 Sep 2018, 12:37 am
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Replies: 3
Views: 382
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| I've noticed my tedancy to CONSTANTLY be taken advantage of by abusive, belittling, and gaslighting (narcissistic and BPD) friends, family members, etc. They seek those people who have poor boundaries, or those who cannot enforce their boundaries. It could be something as small as touching your thin... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I’m surprised by the answer I got. |
| Kinme |
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Posted: 02 Sep 2018, 12:18 am
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Replies: 14
Views: 910
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| It means "move on." Don't wait around for her; find someone who actually wants a relationship. Clearly, she is unavailable. If she sees you moving on, and she cares, then she will reinitiate and tell you she's ready. If she doesn't care, then you know you've made the right call. This is fo... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Tell me your stories. Help me understand! |
| Kinme |
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Posted: 02 Sep 2018, 12:13 am
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Replies: 35
Views: 1,232
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| Just curious, did you initiate the relationship or did he? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: loving a narcissist with BPD |
| Kinme |
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Posted: 12 Aug 2018, 5:41 pm
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Replies: 49
Views: 1,781
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| Don't do it. I believe my first relationship may have been with an Aspie (fairly narcissistic also) that was comorbid BPD or AVPD. I felt like I was constantly walking on eggshells in the relationship. I never knew when he'd be unhappy one day and just end it without me knowing what I did. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How common are female aspies who haven't dated yet? |
| Kinme |
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Posted: 12 Aug 2018, 5:37 pm
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Replies: 106
Views: 4,774
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| I'm still surprised I'm married, as I never thought I'd be in a successful relationship or any relationship, for that matter. I think if I wouldn't have been pursued, it'd never have happened. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Signs of a onesided friendship |
| Kinme |
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Posted: 11 Jul 2018, 6:19 am
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Replies: 18
Views: 680
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| My favorite people to attract (sarcasm) are covert narcissists. I get on with people who are borderline as well. Borderline people tend to reciprocate from time to time, but they bring a lot of drama and it can be a lot to handle. Keep your boundaries high, but not too high. Talk about your wants a... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: This is embarrassing to ask at my age |
| Kinme |
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Posted: 04 Jun 2018, 10:05 pm
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Replies: 122
Views: 2,687
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| Husband asked me out here on WrongPlanet when I said I was sucking at finding someone to be with. Anything else? |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: How do I stop unintentionally flirting with guys? |
| Kinme |
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Posted: 24 May 2018, 4:21 am
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,240
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| I have the same issues. Not sure what to do about it. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: NT Acting |
| Kinme |
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Posted: 16 May 2018, 3:11 am
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Replies: 12
Views: 563
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| It gets lonely and exhausting after awhile. I just stopped wearing the mask as much. People seem okay with it as well, since I'm pretty confident as well. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Were you described as manipulative? |
| Kinme |
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Posted: 14 May 2018, 8:21 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 672
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| I was described as a smart-ass by my father, and a manipulative liar by my mother. I've been fairly blunt as a kid, and I don't regret it. I would've been bullied far worse if I hadn't stood-up for myself. |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: Age difference at college |
| Kinme |
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Posted: 14 May 2018, 8:18 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 628
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| You'll be alright. People don't care all that much, honestly. I started a different degree recently and people think I'm their age, lol. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Signs of a onesided friendship |
| Kinme |
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Posted: 14 May 2018, 8:14 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 680
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| My favorite people to attract (sarcasm) are covert narcissists. I get on with people who are borderline as well. Borderline people tend to reciprocate from time to time, but they bring a lot of drama and it can be a lot to handle. Keep your boundaries high, but not too high. Talk about your wants an... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Being competitive with my crush |
| Kinme |
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Posted: 13 May 2018, 6:39 pm
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Replies: 22
Views: 2,086
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| Probably low self-esteem. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How many female auties/aspies talk too much? |
| Kinme |
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Posted: 13 May 2018, 7:19 am
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Replies: 27
Views: 762
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| If I could, I would remain silent. I've started regulating conversations and group work in my courses lately. Trying to force myself to do things I would never have done in the past. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Easygoing ASD Person |
| Kinme |
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Posted: 13 May 2018, 7:08 am
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Replies: 12
Views: 366
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| Passive, withdrawn, conflict averse. I took the MBTI and enneagram tests awhile ago and got INTP, 5w6 or 4. Close 9w1. 9w1 is the harmonizer sort. |
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