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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: No friends and no relationships - totally alone in the world |
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Posted: 19 Mar 2018, 10:14 am
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Replies: 92
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read the cues of others and behave in such a way that other's are comfortable.
In other words, become NT. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: No friends and no relationships - totally alone in the world |
| Moondust |
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Posted: 12 Mar 2018, 4:58 am
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| about being content living alone, from my experience it seems that the human mind is powerful enough to block all emotional pain, so the normal social pain that would result from isolation is transformed into numbness. In this state one can learn to be content, but if something happens to disrupt t... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Friend in need |
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Posted: 28 Feb 2018, 11:30 am
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Replies: 7
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| Yes, they absolutely believe I'm gullible. And I am, to a certain extent. They also know I'm alone and punish the slave's rebellion by ignoring me, hoping I'll be desperate enough for human contact to do anything she wants. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Friend in need |
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Posted: 27 Feb 2018, 7:04 pm
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| Thank you, summer twilight. Your words are very important to me because I'm surrounded only by her people, who are not neutral and make me feel guilty. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Friend in need |
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Posted: 27 Feb 2018, 3:28 am
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| A friend is going through a very hard time. How do I support her without being a doormat? Yesterday I yelled back at her and told her that I'm always happy to help her but that I won't tolerate her yelling only at me (she doesn't yell at anyone else) and that I won't agree to picking up very big bil... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Landlord / neighbor |
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Posted: 01 Jun 2017, 3:13 pm
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Replies: 12
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Landlord / neighbor |
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Posted: 01 Jun 2017, 3:11 pm
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Replies: 12
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Hahaha, going to check out Mongolian throat singing now. I did that with Techno Trance but they got offended. For this weekend I have Gregorian chant and Arabic disco. I'm sure they'll be delighted!  |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Landlord / neighbor |
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Posted: 01 Jun 2017, 9:43 am
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Replies: 12
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| By the way, if I had anyone to invite over, I bet they wouldn't say that it could be an innocent mistake. It's much too obvious, like someone choosing to sit elbow-to-elbow with you on the beach when you two are the only people on the whole beach. It'd sound stupid to say "Could you please move... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Landlord / neighbor |
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Posted: 01 Jun 2017, 9:32 am
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| BirdInFlight, hahaha, a friend of mine suggested the same today. I think Dear_one and my friend's idea is easier said than done, at least for someone like me who can't completely mask their real feelings. It's a perfect idea for someone with charisma, who can manage people with their charm and get t... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Landlord / neighbor |
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Posted: 31 May 2017, 11:21 am
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| Birdinflight, thank you for your great answer! The same noise was bearable when it was just on weekends when their children and grandchildren would come to visit and they used to sit in their garden. What is unbearable is that now one of their children with her family have moved to live here at thei... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Landlord / neighbor |
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Posted: 30 May 2017, 3:41 pm
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| I moved 2 months ago to a house. The landlord I rent from lives next door. Before anything else, and even before seeing the house for rent, I told him my top priority was quiet from neighbors and that it was the reason I was moving from where I lived. I explained that I don't listen to music, own a ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What to answer when asked this? |
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Posted: 28 Mar 2017, 2:03 am
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Replies: 15
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| Thank you all for the answers!! It's a very long story, basically landlord cheated me (I'm sueing). |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What to answer when asked this? |
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Posted: 27 Mar 2017, 12:04 pm
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| Benjamin, what does that mean? That they should watch their backs in the least expected moment? |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What to answer when asked this? |
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Posted: 27 Mar 2017, 11:54 am
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| Very good answers. And here I was thinking more like "You scum!" |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What to answer when asked this? |
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Posted: 27 Mar 2017, 11:45 am
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Replies: 15
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| If someone (not a romantic relationship) betrays your trust and hurts you deeply, making you lose something that was very important to you, through no wrong on your part, and then they say: "I really hope we can remain in friendly terms" (probably meaning "Please don't take revenge&qu... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Book for adults on complex rules in NT interactions? |
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Posted: 25 Oct 2016, 8:13 am
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Replies: 7
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| Thank you so much everyone! I hadn't noticed I had more replies, I'm checking those books now. |
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