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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Help me understand. |
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Posted: 18 Feb 2014, 6:53 am
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| Hello. My boyfriend of six years feels he is on the higher end of the autism spectrum. He is undiagnosed and because the medical stand point for asburgers has changed in the MSDS we arent sure if he can be. Allow me to list some things that make him feel this way, Its mainly the social aspect. Extre... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: My dad. |
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Posted: 18 Jul 2012, 10:07 pm
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Replies: 5
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| I talked to him about the job thing, he doesnt have proper clothing and things to look for a job, once I get there I can help with that. I think that once I'm actually there he'll be more able to find a job, he told me for now he's thinking about doing computer work on the side. I asked him about pu... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: My dad. |
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Posted: 17 Jul 2012, 10:02 pm
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| Ok so a bit of background, My boyfriend and I met at 15 and 16, Me being the oldest. just recently we had to go long distance. He is now 19 and I'm 20 ( soon to be 21 and he'll be 20 soon Also just recently he also found out he has Asperger's Right now I'm working on building credit so I can get a c... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: being a crappy girlfriend |
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Posted: 17 Jul 2012, 5:37 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 287
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| I find the saying " to each his own " comes into play here. If you don't want to get married and have kids thats fine. Its your life not their's Not everyone likes kids and not everyone wants to get married. Its about what you like, not what other like or think you should do. Next time someone asks ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: being a crappy girlfriend |
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Posted: 17 Jul 2012, 12:19 am
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Replies: 17
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| And I want to add no one really jumps into commitment, It takes time and steps. It can be small commitment, like just seeing one another, or a big commitment like staying with each other forever ( the second I don't suggest unless you have been together for a good while and know the person well. ) T... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: being a crappy girlfriend |
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Posted: 17 Jul 2012, 12:10 am
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Replies: 17
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| I'm confused, so you are in an open relationship, yet you are not happy being open? Feel free to correct me if I'm wrong. Id suggest closing the relationship if you are unhappy, meaning it be just you and her. You don't have to make it serious. A relationship moves at the pace that the two ( or more... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My cousin's Girlfriend |
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Posted: 14 Jul 2012, 12:20 pm
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Replies: 6
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| It sounds like she's just being friendly. She's dating your cousin, I'm really nice to my boyfriend's cousin because he is my boyfriend's family and he's an okay guy. How long has this girl been with your cousin? Even if they were to break up I wouldnt suggest trying anything with her. Going after a... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Boy Did I Ever Eff Up! |
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Posted: 12 Jul 2012, 7:13 pm
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Replies: 25
Views: 3,324
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| The problem with texting is that it can lead to confusion like this situation here. Honestly it would have confused me as well. Your best bet is to tell her you misunderstood, you thought she was joking and that you're sorry. Then maybe do something nice like surprise her by going to her house unexp... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspie's and romance? |
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Posted: 12 Jul 2012, 2:09 pm
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Replies: 7
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| So naturally most people have a different view of whats romantic when compared to others. Tho I have noticed with most people that have AS things like romance tend to be a lot emotionally. Or am I wrong on this assumption? Please correct me if I'm wrong. I was just curious what those with AS found "... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: issue please help!? |
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Posted: 12 Jul 2012, 1:56 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,344
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| We talked I told him how I felt. We've been doing better now. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: issue please help!? |
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Posted: 10 Jul 2012, 11:57 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,344
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| I suggested space for a couple of days due to all of the stress on both ends. then he started saying things like " you hate me, I'll go find something to do we'll talk later " I told him to stop, that I didnt hate him, that I loved him and I was just stressed... His response was " if you love me wh... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Confused. |
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Posted: 10 Jul 2012, 11:52 pm
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Replies: 4
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| Go with the flow man. You'll find someone. Things like that take time. You know when you lose something, and you look for it but never find it, then when you stop looking you find it. In my opinion love is like that. If you feel really lost and out of luck try dating sites. There are a few free ones... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: This is really an issue for me since I live in the United ? |
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Posted: 10 Jul 2012, 11:45 pm
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Replies: 18
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| No its not an issue, you have options, I have a friend who only ONLY wants an Asian chick. Like a full blooded Asian. He refuses to date anyone else, and to make it worse there are Asian chicks at the college he goes to... he just stalks them.... dosent talk to them just follows them around campus..... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Random girl comments on my hair XD |
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Posted: 10 Jul 2012, 9:11 pm
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Replies: 14
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I've always liked guys with long hair.  screw ppl that make fun of it, long hair is awesome |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: issue please help!? |
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Posted: 10 Jul 2012, 8:43 pm
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Replies: 8
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| My partner is Aspie, I'm NT. Just recently he's cut back on his anti-depressants because of the negative side effects. Something I'm okay with tho I worry how it effects him. He's been a little moody, which is normal, he's kinda having withdraw symptoms. Just recently my mom passed so I've been a li... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: When Saying " thank you " isnt enough? |
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Posted: 02 Jul 2012, 10:01 pm
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Replies: 3
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| Okay so my partner has been so sweet and so caring and has been working very hard to improve our relationship. I've told him thank you and he says its okay... but I really want to do or say a little more. I'm not sure what to do, see emotional stuff overwhelms him. and I want to do something small. ... |
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