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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Yet another, I'm in love with a man with Asperger's :) help! |
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Posted: 04 May 2013, 2:08 am
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Replies: 30
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Oh wow, Its so awesome to hear that good news. Thank you! You were very brave  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: High Sex drive in a NT/AS relationship |
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Posted: 03 May 2013, 2:13 pm
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Replies: 17
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| Hand your guy over to me, I would love a man with that much stamina, lol. I'm only kidding... he really does sound like he has an addiction. This often means the person is masking pain and shame via sex. Shame is an awful shackle to wear, but he could get help for it. Its almost as if he's unconscio... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Being just friends with guys from dating sites |
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Posted: 03 May 2013, 1:59 pm
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Replies: 50
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| I wouldn't hang about on a dating site if I was serious about someone. I wouldn't like it if my Bf did that to me either. It sends the message that you're still hunting. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Does My Boyfriend Have HFA? |
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Posted: 03 May 2013, 12:28 am
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Replies: 9
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| I've been closely involved with a man online who has HFA, and I wanted to make a couple of comments. The man I'm referring to can't talk about feelings directly, and he can't express empathy in words like an NT does. Verbally, he is very quiet and doesn't like talking much. It would be easy to think... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: NT wife in despair... |
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Posted: 01 May 2013, 5:32 pm
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Replies: 23
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| I've been reading everything i can get my hands on and both he and his 18 year old son tick numerous boxes, although I would say he is not fully typical and is very self-aware. I just wanted to ask, have you compared the traits of Narcissistic Personality Disorder with Aspergers? I only asked becau... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Ocean Apart |
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Posted: 01 May 2013, 1:13 am
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Replies: 5
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| She sounds like a really nice woman, I guess you would be the best judge of that though. My best friend is a German lady and she has a US husband. They visited each other abroad on and off several times before they could be together. They married during her Masters degree. Then they moved around Ger... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Yet another, I'm in love with a man with Asperger's :) help! |
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Posted: 28 Apr 2013, 2:50 am
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| Hi Annneya, I wanted to give you a little bit of a warning, to protect your feelings. I once had strong feelings for an Aspie male who gave me a lot of mixed signals too. I worked in a film studio at the time and he would visit me often when I worked back at nights alone, sometimes massaging my shou... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Would you ever date a fat or obese person? |
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Posted: 28 Apr 2013, 12:03 am
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Replies: 277
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| You've got really great natural features, that's why you wear your weight well and can have your hair short. You have especially great eyes, skin, and facial symmetry. In case you want some encouragment (not saying you do, or should lose weight if you don't want to. That should be a personal choice!... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Building trust online |
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Posted: 25 Apr 2013, 11:29 pm
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Replies: 26
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| Thanks again Popsicle. This side to him is pretty awful; today is the worst I've seen. I have a pretty unshakable self estimate appearance wise, but those kinds of attacks wear a woman down quickly. His HFA side is challenging communication wise, but mostly I like it. It does, however, require a gre... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Building trust online |
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Posted: 25 Apr 2013, 10:37 pm
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| Thanks Popsicle; I really want to thank you again for your wisdom and help with this. This was a pretty rough day. I had been close to giving him more images of me, that may suggest a female form at least. Then today, after I read your replies and held off, he really launched into the most savage at... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Would you ever date a fat or obese person? |
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Posted: 25 Apr 2013, 10:34 pm
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| I would also be scared that the overweight person I was with would not be in good health. I can barely take care of myself, much less another person. One of the many reasons I am not having kids. A lot of people I've known get overweight mainly from alcohol, and lose the weight fast if they give it... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Would you ever date a fat or obese person? |
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Posted: 25 Apr 2013, 5:52 pm
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| I love people as a sum of parts, so the physical is not a huge thing for me. Funny how much sex takes place in the dark, and yet the look of a person can be the most important thing to some people ,lol. We have five senses. Also, weight can be lost. or gained. If you really have a problem with it in... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Building trust online |
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Posted: 25 Apr 2013, 4:17 am
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| Those are really great observations, thanks heaps for telling me how you read his behaviour. If you want to hear my pyche profile for this guy, this is what I believe: Definitely HFA. Definitely Sociopathic traits....he was adopted, then parents went through divorce in early childhood, then beaten b... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Building trust online |
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Posted: 25 Apr 2013, 1:47 am
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| Its kinda hard to say if he's worth it yet, because I'm still getting to know him, and how we are together. I sort of know how difficult a relationship with a person with HFA could be like, and I'm starting to get a sense of who he is. I expect I'll have to drag out of myself a huge amount of emotio... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Building trust online |
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Posted: 25 Apr 2013, 12:41 am
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| Thanks heaps for your reply . I've sent him long voice messages which he says is very feminine. And I can't get him to do webcam or IM yet. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Building trust online |
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Posted: 25 Apr 2013, 12:34 am
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Replies: 26
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| I could use a bit of advice from people experienced with dating men with HFA, if anyone could spare a moment please? I really need to get my head sorted out with a guy I've fallen for online. I met this guy my age (40's) online 4 months ago via a forum concerning a mutual interest. We traded some ph... |
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