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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Gray hair from stress at 34 |
| jerry00 |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2018, 2:36 am
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Replies: 35
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| I got that at 28. Don't think it's deficiencies as I've experimented with just about every vitamin and mineral out there in the last couple years and more grey hairs are still appearing. I did have a very stressful upbringing. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Can an autistic person be a good dancer? |
| jerry00 |
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Posted: 16 Dec 2018, 4:34 pm
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Replies: 7
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| Ah ok so it is just my fault for being crap. Darn |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Can an autistic person be a good dancer? |
| jerry00 |
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Posted: 16 Dec 2018, 3:57 pm
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Replies: 7
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| I spent a few months trying to learn Latin dancing but still any woman i try to dance with instantly acts like I'm incapable so at best they will unenthusiastically try and lead me instead of letting me lead, at worst they are just not interested. I was wondering are there any autistic pro dancers? ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Online dating I only attract low value women. |
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Posted: 01 Nov 2014, 12:48 pm
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Replies: 127
Views: 9,575
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| At work I have been interviewing job candidates for programming roles. So I am a programmer, and one good enough to judge others. When I tell my employer, candidate x is competent, and candidate y is a no-hoper, they make important hiring decisions based on that feedback. Repeating over & over ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Online dating I only attract low value women. |
| jerry00 |
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Posted: 01 Nov 2014, 9:20 am
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Replies: 127
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I'm not proud of this thread but it got responses and perhaps more understanding than had I posted a tame 'I'm lonely' type thread.
At least I'm trying, when I could just be on here complaining about how lonely I feel and how I'm not even trying to do anything about it. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Online dating I only attract low value women. |
| jerry00 |
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Posted: 01 Nov 2014, 8:44 am
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Replies: 127
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At work I have been interviewing job candidates for programming roles.
So I am a programmer, and one good enough to judge others. When I tell my employer, candidate x is competent, and candidate y is a no-hoper, they make important hiring decisions based on that feedback. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Online dating I only attract low value women. |
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Posted: 01 Nov 2014, 8:30 am
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Replies: 127
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| I have a borderline gifted level IQ and I will not settle... I'll say it again: gifted level IQ. I sense your frustration here? But this is a problem, because it may be a reason that you feel alone. I am routinely frustrated by people who simply don't see the world as I do. I also see MANY people i... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Online dating I only attract low value women. |
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Posted: 01 Nov 2014, 7:53 am
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Replies: 127
Views: 9,575
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Online dating I only attract low value women. |
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Posted: 01 Nov 2014, 3:52 am
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Replies: 127
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| ^. In fact, my whole life has pretty much been one person after another denigrating me for my aspergers traits, because lets face it, most NTs do think we are low value people. Do you know what it's like to spend your formative years being called a wierdo and a freak? I do. Not my fault if I've star... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Online dating I only attract low value women. |
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Posted: 31 Oct 2014, 9:03 pm
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Replies: 127
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| They way I talk to people might be different depending on where I am and how I'm feeling. Do you not think that's a possibility? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Online dating I only attract low value women. |
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Posted: 31 Oct 2014, 8:54 pm
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Replies: 127
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| You know I wasn't always bitter right? I had high self esteem and they took it away from me and turned me into this. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Online dating I only attract low value women. |
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Posted: 31 Oct 2014, 8:28 pm
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Replies: 127
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| I'm searching for someone on my level, that's how I'm improving my situation. Again, you are making the incorrect assumption that when I talk to women, I go on an angry rant like I have done here. Why would I do that? Can you elaborate on the "Certain elements of my personality that seem to outweigh... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Online dating I only attract low value women. |
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Posted: 31 Oct 2014, 7:55 pm
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Replies: 127
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| They can't spell or hold a conversation, they seem to be interested in me because no one else is interested in them. I try to be nice to them but they have no personality, no ambition, nothing to add to the conversation. They have blank profiles and nothing to say for themselves. It's painful. Mean... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Online dating I only attract low value women. |
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Posted: 28 Oct 2014, 2:43 am
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Replies: 127
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| I guess I'm just venting, and yes I'm fully aware of how angry and frustrated I sound, I don't care. I am angry and frustrated. I have done everything with the best of intentions, followed all the rules, all the advice I've seen over the years, and still, get told, I did it wrong again . I conclude ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Online dating I only attract low value women. |
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Posted: 28 Oct 2014, 2:30 am
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Replies: 127
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| I love how if I don't put effort into my profile, then I'm lazy and shouldn't be surprised if I get ignored, and if I do put effort in, then I come across as fake and shouldn't be surprised if I get ignored. Can't we just admit that women love ignoring guys either way? I'm pretty sure if they met me... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Online dating I only attract low value women. |
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Posted: 28 Oct 2014, 2:09 am
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Replies: 127
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| It's like a slap in the face that I put literally hours of effort into writing a profile, choosing photos, uploading them, getting it critiqued by dispassionate observers, and the only people who message me can't take two minutes to pick out just one thing I wrote and ask me about it? Just because ... |
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