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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Which of these following cases is rape? |
| RudeGoldbergMachine |
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Posted: 10 Aug 2013, 5:40 pm
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Replies: 78
Views: 5,843
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| I am well acquainted with rape laws in my state; the intoxication of the aggressor is legally irrelevant, but if the victim was drunk they have grounds for pressing charges. I also want to point out that E does NOT say the man consented to it. It says he enjoyed it the whole time. That's not the sam... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Delay Wedding for Dad's New Issues? |
| RudeGoldbergMachine |
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Posted: 01 Aug 2013, 1:03 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 771
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| I second everything LadyWoofWoof said. His dad is not behaving appropriately at all or putting your son's best interests first. If I were you I'd be very alarmed. You haven't had any warning about this new person entering his life and have no way of knowing (nor does his dad or even the fiancee hers... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Do You Have to Contribute? |
| RudeGoldbergMachine |
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Posted: 01 Aug 2013, 12:55 pm
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Replies: 35
Views: 4,514
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| Just wanted to point out re cooking that you should probably give people a chance or at least talk to them about what they want your mutual eating habits to be. I love to cook and all my partners have loved what I make, but when I've lived alone for long periods of time I just haven't been arsed to ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: in love with fictional characters |
| RudeGoldbergMachine |
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Posted: 01 Aug 2013, 12:48 pm
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Replies: 11
Views: 2,183
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I don't really understand the question. Are you asking if we think it's "perverted" to be in love with cartoon characters? Or if there are limits on what should be considered acceptable kinds of romantic and sexual attraction? Or for advice on a situation you're in?  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Falling in love with fictional characters |
| RudeGoldbergMachine |
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Posted: 01 Aug 2013, 12:44 pm
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Replies: 26
Views: 4,390
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| For me, sometimes I feel I know a fictional character better than real people, because whatever book or movie they're in deliberately tells you all about them, their traits, and their feelings without any awkward posturing and BS to get past. So if they have an attractive personality and good charac... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Casual sex and Asperger's/autism |
| RudeGoldbergMachine |
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Posted: 01 Aug 2013, 8:18 am
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Replies: 108
Views: 28,185
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| deluge1988 your grossly misogynist and racist comment makes me highly skeptical of one positive trait you claim to possess. Back on topic, I like casual sex, IF I am attracted to the person and have a minimum level of respect for them as a human being. I hooked up with a guy who I found physically r... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: When to tell NT's you date of your "condition" |
| RudeGoldbergMachine |
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Posted: 01 Aug 2013, 8:06 am
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Replies: 19
Views: 2,426
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| Usually the first time we meet up I just say in an offhand way, "Sorry if I come across odd or don't look you in the eye, I have some trouble meeting people but it's nothing personal." Then I continue to mention specific things I have a problem with as the need arises. I don't mention autism or aspe... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Looking for helpful marriage advice book |
| RudeGoldbergMachine |
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Posted: 01 Aug 2013, 8:00 am
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Replies: 2
Views: 689
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Hm, I really dislike John Gray, but different reads for different needs 
Years ago I read something called "Now that I'm Married, Why Isn't Everything Perfect?"-- don't remember the author-- but remember finding it helpful. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What Do You Have to Contribute? |
| RudeGoldbergMachine |
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Posted: 01 Aug 2013, 7:56 am
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Replies: 35
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| For the most part, I expect things of a partner that describe me as well (at my best anyway :lol: ) For example thoughtfulness, a minimum standard of hygiene, decent communication, not too needy, intelligent, and some degree of compatibility re political/philosophical stance. I don't see this as a l... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Asking for sex |
| RudeGoldbergMachine |
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Posted: 31 Jul 2013, 4:03 pm
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Replies: 66
Views: 5,870
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| Settle the debate? There is no debate. Besides, the best way to ask a girl for sex is by not asking her. If she wants sex with you, it will happen. The trick is to surround yourself with women who are open to having sex and go from there. That's the only way that works. the girl asked the guys for ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Emotional affairs |
| RudeGoldbergMachine |
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Posted: 31 Jul 2013, 3:55 pm
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Replies: 14
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| Thank you for all of your responses. @AspieMike my SO and I do definitely have an emotional connection and closeness... we both get a lot more than sex. I also don't think that the other person wants any more than close friendship, because he's been in bad relationships recently and I think has kind... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: why does society call men who want a woman entitled? |
| RudeGoldbergMachine |
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Posted: 29 Jul 2013, 10:28 pm
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Replies: 64
Views: 5,384
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| It's a fancy word for "It's not faaaaaaaiiiiiiiir! I want one too!! !!" "I don't care how hard he worked to become attractive to beautiful women - IT's JUST NOT FAAAAAAAIIIIIIIR! He should share his woman!! !!" On the same note as my above post, "work[ing] to become attractive to beautiful women" i... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: why does society call men who want a woman entitled? |
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Posted: 29 Jul 2013, 10:25 pm
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Replies: 64
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| Oh, now I understand the question ... What "society" actually "says" is that some men tend to think that they are entitled to romance and/or sex simply because they're men. It's like people from the lower economic classes who tend to think that they are entitled to someone else's wealth just for be... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: *Facepalm* |
| RudeGoldbergMachine |
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Posted: 29 Jul 2013, 10:02 pm
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Replies: 13
Views: 1,896
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| Seriously, every legitimate scholar should take an oath not to appear on Fox anymore. -Bill, otherwise known as Kraichgauer On the contrary, I think it's a great opportunity to use their ill-gotten gains to get attention for real scholarship and make their anchors like like the dumba**es they are. |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: right left and middle |
| RudeGoldbergMachine |
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Posted: 29 Jul 2013, 9:49 pm
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Replies: 8
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| Seriously? Is this a trolling post or something? "Kingship of the world?" Troll or not, that sounds like Nietzsche at his most sarcastic, so congrats :/ |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: Anybody here have been through a 'racist' phase? |
| RudeGoldbergMachine |
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Posted: 29 Jul 2013, 9:39 pm
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Replies: 56
Views: 9,384
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| OliveOilMom you should consider writing for the public/marketing your writing if you don't already. Seriously. You really know how to use words, tell a story, and make a point. I'd read your stuff. EDIT: On the topic at hand, no, I never had a racist phase at all and still don't comprehend it. I rea... |
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