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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Not sure how to move forward |
| gnosislogicemotion |
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Posted: 19 Jan 2010, 11:56 pm
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Replies: 29
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| I've made much progress in the way of social skills, building confidence and calming my anxiety. But I'm afraid it wont be enough. I'm always looking for a nice girl my age I can have a relationship with and I rarely ever get to the relationship stage and when I do it never lasts long. There's a you... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: People insisting on making you dance |
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Posted: 19 Jan 2010, 11:12 pm
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Replies: 13
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| An aspie instructor would be quite nice but highly unlikely. I'm actually quite a good conversationalist. I've been able to adapt to that socially but dancing seems more of an opaque barrier to me. I mean, at least I undertand the motivation behind conversation. The closest I ever come to dancing s... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: People insisting on making you dance |
| gnosislogicemotion |
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Posted: 18 Jan 2010, 11:08 pm
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Replies: 13
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| Well I don't see why so many major issues are major issues, but they are, and there are only three things you could do. 1. Avoid major issues (Don't go to parties.) 2. Say "no" to major issues, making the issue more major ("No, I won't dance." "- OMG!! YOU SUCK AND I'LL TELL MY FRIENDS") 3. Give in... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: People insisting on making you dance |
| gnosislogicemotion |
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Posted: 17 Jan 2010, 6:54 pm
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Replies: 13
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| Well if you're a guy at least it's not too bad not to dance or to dance silly. I'm a girl and I HATE dancing, but I can't stand aside at the bar with a beer next to some guys, you know. I've actually PRACTICED dancing in front of a mirror to not look like a complete moron if they ask me - because i... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: People insisting on making you dance |
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Posted: 17 Jan 2010, 2:27 pm
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Replies: 13
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| I am the same as you in this respect. People have always tried to make me dance, but I really don't enjoy it. Then, on my eighteenth birthday, I finally give in and decide to dance (maybe this decision was slightly influenced by alcohol). Everyone just laughed at me and at least five people threate... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Communication confidence |
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Posted: 17 Jan 2010, 1:01 pm
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Replies: 3
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Quote: it's also possible that you will be murdered by a ghost clown next week. Just have to deal with it.
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: People insisting on making you dance |
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Posted: 17 Jan 2010, 12:58 pm
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Replies: 13
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| I've overcome many barriers to function normally in social situations with people my age but one thing still really makes me feel profoundly uncomfortable: dancing. I've never liked dancing nor felt the urge to dance in any time in my life. And its just my luck that everyother party I go to some gir... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What is your gender idenity? |
| gnosislogicemotion |
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Posted: 28 Dec 2009, 10:33 pm
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Replies: 31
Views: 6,193
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| I'm male and I'm a good mix of masculine and feminine. I'm masculine enough to actively pursue my high ambitions and to strive against adversity. Feminine enough to feel beautiful, tender emotions, |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Imaginary girlfriends? |
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Posted: 22 Dec 2009, 12:09 am
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Replies: 24
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If I have a crush on a girl I usual imagine me and her cuddling because it helps relax me before I go to sleep.
Does that count? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Intuition |
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Posted: 14 Dec 2009, 3:43 pm
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Replies: 5
Views: 1,329
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| It is certainly familiar in many respects... I found what worked - for me - was simply asking. Yes, it surprised people; some were made uncomfortable, but most were accepting or even appreciative. If I could tell someone (if I could do so in a lighter, laughing manner it worked better) that I was a... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Intuition |
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Posted: 14 Dec 2009, 12:47 am
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Replies: 5
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| Last night it occured to me in a more poignant way than ever before that I have no intuition when it comes to people. I was laying in bed with a girl who (being drunk) was telling me every intimate detail of her personal psychology (a lot of it being how she feels about relationships). I had all the... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: At what age did you lose your virginity? |
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Posted: 11 Dec 2009, 11:54 pm
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Replies: 135
Views: 27,601
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18.
A month before my 19th birthday. Or maybe I never did?
Does it count if I didn't orgasm from the intercourse? I was too nervous to enjoy myself. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Male/Female emotional core and my own experiences |
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Posted: 09 Dec 2009, 2:30 pm
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Replies: 39
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| ManErg, you said you rarely feel the 'epic'. Well, I was the same way in my highschool years as I vaguely alluded to in my previous post. I noticed someone mentioned stimulants and how they trigger that epic and hypomanic feeling. Even though I had been slowly teaching myself to feel 'masculine' ove... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Male/Female emotional core and my own experiences |
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Posted: 08 Dec 2009, 5:33 pm
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Replies: 39
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| Wow This thread. Best thread. Some of the ideas expressed here are probably what Jung had in mind when he spoke of the anima and the animus. The masculine is that hypomanic feeling. That epicness. It's grand, focused, driving. The feminine is that deep melancholy. Introspective, vulnerable. The form... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Controlling laughter |
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Posted: 07 Dec 2009, 9:08 pm
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Replies: 28
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| Mine was in physics class. My first undergrad physics professor was writing a function describing Fourier transforms and he started erasing when I smiled and laughed after he wrote F(u). [b] haha. yes, I've laughed at exactly this before. I also laughed when (to indicate a force acting between poin... |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: Who here has a gym membership? |
| gnosislogicemotion |
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Posted: 06 Dec 2009, 11:38 am
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Replies: 2
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| What are your goals and what is your current condition? (age, sex, height, weight, level of fitness etc.) |
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