Hi there! There's nothing to be embarrassed about - I think Ralph is attractive, too. It's just like IdahoRose and DarkOne101 said - He's just really sweet, kind, and huggable-looking. That, and he looks like he'd give awesome hugs. I identify with him a lot, too. Like him, I'm pretty "big" in stature and have trouble fitting in and being comfortable with people.
I also really like him cuz he's the kind of guy who if he saw someone giving you a hard time, he'd be right next to you in an instant and make them buzz off and leave you alone. I wish he'd been around when I was a little girl and I was afraid to even go out to play in my own front yard cuz there were these two boys across the street who would spot me, come hallooing over and basically rough me up, push me around and drench me with their water guns. My mom knew they always did this when they came over, yet she never intervened bcuz she thought it was important for me to have "social opportunities." Seeking asylum in our house during these little "playdates" was often out of the question, too. Whatever. Ralph wouldn't have put up with any of that for a minute.
...You know, ever since the movie came out, I've been saving all the screencaps and fanart I see of Ralph on Tumblr to my computer, and I label them so I'll be able to come back and look at them at a later time. I like to go to my pictures library and pull up my favorite screencaps/fanart of him and just look at him. When the DVD comes out I'll probably pause it a lot as I watch and look at his different adorable facial expressions on a frame-by-frame basis.
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