How about, neither of the above. The two choices are very extreme. No choices for those of us whose answer is a less extreme version of yes or no. Seems to me it's possible that such a forum would be beneficial for such people, even without anyone being bigoted. I've no idea, though, if the people who it would be for would like to see such a forum.
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not aspie, not NT, somewhere in between
Aspie Quiz: 110 Aspie, 103 Neurotypical.
Used to be more autistic than I am now.