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31 Jan 2012, 2:03 pm

This is a video I made of my late son who passed away from a heroin overdose August 14th, for his girlfriend who also overdosed a few weeks after but thankfully was saved. They broke up because she thought they needed to wait until they were further along in their sobriety but my son was so in love with her he wanted to be with her now and he told me that she was thinking about dating another guy. I keep in very close contact with her, I want her to stay safe and clean. My son loved her very much! If the video is inappropriate (there are pics of them kissing) I have no problem with it being moved but since so many people know of me and my son here I wanted to put it here. Most of the pics were taken by his girlfriend Mar, she is very talented, wants to be a photographer and a dancer and everything else :). Ive adopted her as one of my own. I cant wait to meet her as I I have lived in France for over a year and a half and did not get a chance to meet her. We talk all the time. I think hugging her would be as close as I could ever get to hugging my son again, I feel like she carries a little bit of him with her.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vERV1Xik9CY[/youtube]



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31 Jan 2012, 2:10 pm

Oh, lilolme... that is very moving. Thank you for sharing it. I can't imagine how hard it must be to come to terms with your son's tragic death.
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31 Jan 2012, 3:03 pm

It's so sad. He was so handsome and such a lovely smile.

I'm in tears, I can't imagine what it must be like for you.

Thanks for sharing.



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31 Jan 2012, 3:27 pm

I am sorry about your son.
Very nice video.


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31 Jan 2012, 8:46 pm

Of course this video belongs here.


((((((((((hugs))))))))))


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31 Jan 2012, 8:55 pm

The OP should be made a "sticky".

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31 Jan 2012, 11:00 pm

I'm sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing.
It's a wonderful tribute. I hope you can treasure the good memories.


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01 Feb 2012, 2:09 am

A lovely tribute and they made a great couple, both with with gorgeous smiles x



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01 Feb 2012, 10:36 am

Thank you...all your replies made me cry but its ok, I cry every day! I miss his smile and his laugh and his crazy sense of humor. The one pic of him standing in the store he is holding a "beware of dog" sign by his belt level and Mar's cousin is standing next to him holding a sign that says "private property" in the same area :). He could always make me laugh!



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01 Feb 2012, 6:50 pm

It won't show for me. All I see is an empty background colored square with a tiny multicolored square thing in the corner.


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01 Feb 2012, 7:54 pm

It's a lovely video, liloleme... very lovely. Thank you for sharing it with us. I am so sorry for your loss. :heart:


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02 Feb 2012, 10:28 am

Touching~ So sorry for your loss~I just can't imagine. Very wonderful you made this tribute.



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03 Feb 2012, 6:00 am

Oliveoilmom, you can watch it on youtube. My videos are under aspiemom42.



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03 Feb 2012, 9:55 pm

Sorry I haven't had a chance to watch this before now. I am so sorry for your loss, and I hope the girlfriend can keep her life together. ((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))


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