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24 Jun 2018, 11:58 am

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I get you're trying to be funny, but is it really tactful to be doing that here?

Point taken. Since you don't get irony, I will be a little more blunt. This seems to be an issue in WP in general, if someone posts that they want to change their behavior someone points out how their behavior is good. My oronic statement was toward your remark not her concerns.
Your remark misses the mark. She is concerned about her appearance to others might severely limit her ability to socially interact and greatly impair her ability to find a mate.
This lack of social interaction does not make her less vulnerable to sexual manipulation but has a greater chance of it happening. With greater amount of social interaction and choice she will be to discern the creeps at a greater rate than if she was depressed and sitting at home. She would see red flags quicker because she will develop mpre social awareness.
Also, get a sense of humor, this is Wrong Planet after all.



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24 Jun 2018, 12:37 pm

TheSpectrum has a great sense of humor. Stop being grumpy that you got put in your place, he was right.

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This lack of social interaction does not make her less vulnerable to sexual manipulation but has a greater chance of it happening.

You are right about this. A lot of fetishist out there.


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24 Jun 2018, 12:48 pm

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Someone here said to get over that fear try dating sites and get used to being rejected. Being rejected online isnt so bad but if it were to happen in real life I think it would be hard on me.

You can practice on some of us 8)


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24 Jun 2018, 1:00 pm

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You can practice on some of us 8)

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24 Jun 2018, 2:12 pm

LoneLoyalWolf wrote:
TheSpectrum has a great sense of humor. Stop being grumpy that you got put in your place, he was right.

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This lack of social interaction does not make her less vulnerable to sexual manipulation but has a greater chance of it happening.

You are right about this. A lot of fetishist out there.

It is not fetishist but predators who look for vunerable people. Having a social circle and options will decrease the likelyhood of being a victim.



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24 Jun 2018, 2:33 pm

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It is not fetishist but predators who look for vunerable people. Having a social circle and options will decrease the likelyhood of being a victim.

Yeah, my ex was one so I know about them quite well. Monsters.


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24 Jun 2018, 3:41 pm

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Sarahsmith wrote:
Someone here said to get over that fear try dating sites and get used to being rejected. Being rejected online isnt so bad but if it were to happen in real life I think it would be hard on me.

You can practice on some of us 8)

Yeah, redbrick1 doesn't reject anybody.

Who said I don't have a sense of humor!

@Sarah I think others are right in saying there is risk involved but the right person will see past any things like that.


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24 Jun 2018, 8:19 pm

TheSpectrum wrote:
SabbraCadabra wrote:
Sarahsmith wrote:
Someone here said to get over that fear try dating sites and get used to being rejected. Being rejected online isnt so bad but if it were to happen in real life I think it would be hard on me.

You can practice on some of us 8)

Yeah, redbrick1 doesn't reject anybody.

Who said I don't have a sense of humor!

@Sarah I think others are right in saying there is risk involved but the right person will see past any things like that.

You're right! Beggers cant be choosers



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24 Jun 2018, 8:27 pm

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Somebody had to say it... :roll:


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24 Jun 2018, 8:29 pm

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Somebody had to say it... :roll:

It was humor, you know me :wink:

She's probably scared out of her mind by our honesty.


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